Hi - my name is nikki. I am a 35 year old newly single mom of 2. I live in Southern California. I am also a RN. I find this stuff very interesting and can’t wait to try it out. Obviously, I’m not looking to sexually attract patients or anyone at work, but if they could be more open, then that would be great. Also, I haven’t lost hope on getting back together with my ex ( we’re separated), so if I could turn up the heat with him, then that would be even better! Any advice will be appreciated.
hi and welcome! it sounds like instant openness and instant shine for your patients.
it sounds like lust after me would be a good product for you and your ex (it was recommended to me as well) - but i’m sure one of the more experienced members will be able to tell you exactly what will do the trick 
welcome to the forum!
hi nikki, welcome to the forums.
in the workplace you might find most of the instant line to be very useful, Instant Shine for example to keep you and everyone else feeling pretty good, IFM has an amazing ability to help women feel more comfortable (not necessarily sexual).
i don’t know if you would want to use TUTH on your husband. that is meant for men to wear to get to home plate with women, not the other way around.
for that, you might go over to the womens forum and read up about instant sexiness, mx135 (335 etc) as well as other mx’s that the ladies are finding helpful to get men going.
good luck.
Hi nikki, welcome to the forum.
Instant Shine and Instant Openness are great for work for the reasons that have already been mentioned. As for your Ex, Instant Sexiness or more likely Lust After Me might be more on point for you, but I’m not sure they’re in stock.
I also suggest you read the sticky threads in the Women’s section, as well as the Women’s section in general. Lots of good advice to be had there.
Enjoy your stay here…
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 
A little more information about your personality will help us help you find products that fit your needs. How did you find the site and what made you think of mone use ?
I am thinking for work IH and Ishine would be great.
With your hubby Isex would be good as well as IH and Ishine.
LAM is also great for spicing things up, Its out of stock now but should be back very soon.
I am looking forward to your reply so I can send you a GC to get you started.
Tisha
Thanks Tisha,
You asked about my personality. I’m kind of shy until I get to know someone. My self-confidence has taken a huge dive since my husband left me for another woman. When I found this site, I was actually looking for nursing articles. It was on the google search engine. I thought it sounded interesting and read up on the subject.
Thanks for providing more info it really helps.
I suggest for both the self effects and the effects on other you look at Instant sexiness A. This can boost your confidence and its sexy attractive strong independent women vibe.
Ishine next for a upbeat warm joyful vibe. I love this stuff, it has saved my butt so many times its not even funny.
Next I suggest IH for deeper more connected conversation and to help open you and others up.
If you have questions just ask. I look forward to your participation.
Your GC is on its way
Tisha
Hi Nikki
Great to have you here. I too can relate to the shyness bit. For me Instant Shine works great. I have it in a to-go bottle and it is still effective. It is like a little “pick me up” when I am feeling blue. As soon as the funds become available there will be a larger size on my bedroom dresser. No doubt!
xx