Heeeeeello! They call me Christine. Actually they generally call me Chris. Or b****. Either one! My bestie referred me here! I’ve been with my lovely manwich for 4 years now. But lately a lot of the…fire…has disappeared. I guess I understand. We’re both medics and we see some things that don’t exactly put us in the mood. He always got turned on by how aggressive I was but then it almost started annoying him. So I tried the submissive role. Still annoyed. So I do nothing. We have a winner! He says that he’s still in love with me and he’s still attracted to me. But he doesn’t know why he doesn’t want me. So I’d like to find out if maybe a mone might help me…attract him again? I’m a highly sexual person and rather aggressive! So I’m in need of some help here! Aren’t guys usually the ones craving intimacy?
Chrisie-kin!!! What it is cuzzie neighbor?! Lol! I’m glad that you’re here! Check out the stickys and search up any of the posts by Tisha23. She really knows her stuff! And be careful! You definitely don’t want to give Caleb a heart attack! Lol! We’re a lil family here now! Sage just joined today too. *Although let’s make it a rule that there will be no wearing of mones when we visit each other! Lmao! Love you!
Aww! Are you stealin my internet again? 
JK! Thanks! And thanks for tellin me about this site. I’m trollin around seeing what all I can find! I never knew all this was out there! Agreed on the no mone zone! I love you to death but I don’t share well with others!
OMGosh! This is wild - three female friends all joining. This is great - actually you need to do some controlled experimentation on and with each other. Get together and one of you wear something but not tell the others. Then after a while you can discuss observations and experiences.
You could do something like this:
Make up an experimentation schedule not using names but with Person a, b & c. Do not say what you are experimenting with, just whose turn it is. Then do a blind draw out of a hat to determine who is going to be a, b or c but not tell the others. Then go with the schedule. You will know on a given day if you get to wear the pehros or not, but if not, you will not know which of the other two are.
I would think about trying some IH to wear around the boyfriend to try to get him to open up about what is going on if in fact he even knows himself or can put it into words. remember, guys are not always the best at exploring and understanding their own feelings beyond “I want some now”.
Welcome again - this could be a lot of fun to watch with the three of you.
Oooh Bosshank that’s an awesome idea!! We’re inseperable too so it should be easy to pick some TGs that we all come into contact with! Yes! This is going to be great!!!
You could even start out experimenting with the social products on each other - see how you feel under the influence of IShine, or if IO sets off a gabfest, or what happens to the conversation with IH. Being so close it could either be easier to see effects as you know each other or maybe harder if you guys talk a lot about everything anyways. But it might be worth a try.
Welcome to pherotalk Christine!
As bosshank said, three female friends signing up at the same time, this is wild.
It just means chasinrod is super good at spreading the word around and she might need a job as an advertiser for AD.
If you find that it is hard to please him when at first he was into you the problem is obviously him right now.
I don’t want to alarm you by saying it is someone else but you might want to consider that option or the stress is getting to him and he doesn’t want sex but intimacy.
Intimacy is not sex, yeah he is a guy but maybe he wants more conversation and more time where you guys do fun stuff without sex.
That is usually what girls want but he could be different as it seems you are the aggressor in the relationship.
Explore different options are you really want this to work but concentrate more on school as guys come and go.
Your gc was issued!
Hello Chris
Welcome to Pherotalk
First let me tell you his lack of arousal is probably more about him then you. Has he been tired lately or under stress ? Sounds like with your jobs the answer is yes. Is his diet crappy. If your busy and eating processed garbage it probably is ? Does a lot of his food come out of a plastic container ? Plastics especially if they have been microwaved leach estrogens into the food. Guess what happens when men have to much estrogens. I wont even go into the hormones they put in meat and dairy.
Now I am not a health food nut or anything but I know the effect these things are having on mens libidos. I went through it with my own husband. I am telling you this so you know its not because he is not into you anymore. He really probably doesn’t know why he is feeling the way he does.
Oh and on your second question. No men don’t crave intimacy. They crave sex LOL Two different beasts. Naturally as men age there testosterone levels go down a bit and they are less interested and aggressive sexually. Your BF I assume is around your age and this is early for him but with the above things I mentioned its happening earlier and earlier to men. On the flip side as women age our sex drive seems to go up Maybe its natures way of making sure the world does not overpopulate LOL.
I would start out with Ishine for a warm comforting magnetic vibe. If he is stressed out from work this will help put him at ease so he can respond to feeling of arousal.
Instant sexiness for daily use would be good.
Now for the big guns. Copulins which are not sold here at AD. Copulins are the vaginal fluids of fertile ovulating females. The ones you buy are synthetic of course LOL. When men are exposed to them there testosterone levels spike. This has been proven in clinical tests. When they spike they become aroused and more aggressive. Read up on them in the forum for more info on how to use them.
You get them over at Love scent under the name EOW. Essence of women.
I also think you may benefit from a little TUTH. Don’t over do with this one because its geared more toward men but it may spark some positive attraction and aggression in him.
If you need help just ask and glad to have you here in the forum.
Tisha