uh… 'sup? How’s it goin? ya… Dandy like Handy Manny? ahah… no, lame, I know. But…ya. Lol.
Well, London Rose here, not quiet too too sure of what to do here, but with the guidance of OhnoIt’sMe, I should be good. lol.
So, ya. My basic life story is that I’ve been “one of the guys”. They can tell me anything, we laugh about it, good time, no emotions, what ever. all good. ahahaha. Well, I started a new job a few months ago and this one guy is amazing. Best I’ve seen and talked to in a while. little flirtatious, yet one of the guys; which ya it’s a good mix…but not when I’m actually interested in the guy himself. What sucks is how I feel like I’m about to just be friend-zoned completely with him which would hella suck.
So what could I use to make sure that we start steering clear from All-Guys-Place USA and more toward “how you doin” Avenue. ??
It seems like you’re a take charge kinda girl. Instant Sexiness A should work very well for you as it seems. Pheromone wise too Instant Honesty might work but I’d go with Instant Openness, since you’re alpha it should keep conversations light and not too intimidating.
As for not being thrown in the friend zone, you wanna keep things exciting, keep him guessing. As a guy, I love a challenge and I love bitchiness. I know I should but that’s what draws me in, and alpha girls, the more challenge they give me the bigger the attraction goes.
Be more feminine but don’t lost that cool chick appeal, guys love girls they can chill with and be down with, but they don’t wanna feel like they’re chillin with their boys. You gotta find that good median, throw in some sexual tension, show some interest and do something contrary to the opposite. Look at all the guys here looking for advice and read what those girls put them through.
If you have anymore questions please feel free to ask
P did give you some excellent advice but I think I need more information from you so that I can make a definite response as to what you should do or wear.
You can always pop into the women’s section and seek our advice whenever you desire.
Like P said you seem like the take charge kind of girl but what kind of guy is the man you like. The take charge kind of girl only attracts a certain kind of men and even with them they like these women to show the submissive side and let them dominate every once in a while.
In the matters of real love I personally and I have to say it’s an opinion think that the person will love you and accept you for you and these extra steps taken to do certain things won’t work.
You can manipulate lust but never love.
I am waiting on more info as to whether he is an alpha male and what kind of relationship you have with him for more advice.
