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Hi,

I’m a 42 year old male and living in sunny florida while the rest of you suckers freeze. LOL JK.

Either way I find it really interesting that there would be an entire forum on something like Pheromones.. Go figure..

I started wondering just out of the blue really about pheromones and started reading some articles online about how they worked. To my surprise they seem to have a pretty high success rate.

Can someone please tell me which Pheromone would work best for my age. I’m trying to get my very attractive bosses attention but she seems to be not taking the bait.

We’re about the same age although shes about 5 years older than me around 47.

Shes Caucasian with blond hair. I think that some Pheromones might just send her over the edge. I already think she likes me somewhat as we’ve been out a couple of times already but I’m just not sure. Maybe some pheromones might get her to open up some.

Any ideas would be great.

Thanks.

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Hey there

Why dont you tell us more about yourself first so that we may give you the 25 dollar GC. IO and some instant shine might help to open her up but it would be easier to recommend when you state your overall demeanor and personality =)

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Hi there,

Welcome to the forum.

Tell us more about yourself. Are you quiet or outspoken?
Tell us more about your boss too/
Then we can give better recommendations.

Cheers

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Hi and welcome to the forum!

First you need to ger her comfortable with you. For that, I recommend Instant Honesty. Then later, and only when you are sure she’s ready, you can use Turn Up The Heat.

If you have any questions, just ask!

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Welcome to Pherotalk Nofla!

As my lovely assistants have told you we need more information in regards to what type of personality you have so I can issue you that $25 GC.

Good times, since she works with you the best product or should I say products is A314 which is like james bond in a bottle or Instant gentleman which gives off that cool , suave guy vibe and it similar to the A314 but with this product you are much more approachable.

You guys have already gone out so am guessing even if she is 100% interested she is willing to give you a shot. I suggest you try instant honesty which is used for a deeper level of communication. She will open up more to you so you can work your magic on her. :stuck_out_tongue:

From reading your intro. I strongly suggest you read the stickies in the men’s section esp this one :

Looking forward for more info to get that GC out to you. :smiley:

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Sorry for the delay on getting back with you on this… I have no problem giving my personal run down.

From my own personal prospective I feel like I’m just an average guy. I think I’m probably to reserved, scared, or unwilling to take chances when it comes to asking women out. Probably because it’s people that I’m usually close to.

That really becomes kind of awkward if that say no and then the level of embarrassment goes through the roof. Because you have to deal with them the next moment or day.

Another thing that I think is holding me back from just flat out asking her out is the fact that I’m still married although it’s really been over for a long time. We literally live in separate bedrooms and basically lead separate lives at one point I had even moved out but came back for financial reasons.

My boss knows all about this situation and I’ve made it abundantly clear to her that my relationship with my marriage partner is over. I think she knows that, but she also knows that I am technically married so that could be a problem for her on a deeper level.

As far as she is concerned I know for a fact that she has been without a man for a while now. She was married and is now divorced and has been for a long time now she has two kids. One of them is grown and has two kids of their own so that makes her a grandmother. Plus she is still raising her other daughter who is in her late teens.

The older one moved in with her several months ago with the kids so she is generally under a lot of stress. Plus she is going back to school and getting her degree.

I guess what attracts me to her is that she looks great for her age and really knows how to maintain under the very diverse circumstances that she is under.

She has said that she is not interested in a relationship with anyone because that she is already at the end of her rope with demands of time and family issues. Having someone else demanding from her right now would not be conducive to accomplishing her goals.

The bottom line is that I think she is really attractive and so do other guys, so it’s not just me.

The biggest drawback with her is that she has a line of baggage that would fit on one of those airplane luggage trams.

With all of that said I still think that there is some spark there. I just need to find a way to ignite it and get her to open up to me. Sometimes when we are sitting together you can just feel the tension surrounding us.

I think that a good pheromone might be the flint I need.

Your thoughts.

Alan

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Thanks for the info!

My recommendation from earlier, Instant Honesty, still stands, but if she is not at a point in her life where she feels comfortable having a relationship, no amount of pheromones will help.

Maybe just try being friends with her first, get to know her, and her kids. After all, if you are truly and seriously interested in her, her family (or at least who she lives with now) is also part of the package.

Working full time and going to school at the same time are not easy, I know, I’ve done it. So don’t pressure her too much, maybe kind of ease into her life, if thats possible. Maybe take her out for a coffee after her class, small no-pressure dates. Keep it light, take it slow, and you might get somewhere.

You should also think about getting a divorce, because even though you and the wife know its over, anyone you might get involved with will feel uncomfortable with that situation. I know I would.

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Both of you guys situations seem very complicated and personally I think there is not going to be a lot of good come out of a relationship with all this complication.

Good times, you want to give it a try and so the members have given you some great recommendations. In addition, you are still married and if you want to put so much work into a relationship I think it should be your marriage instead of an outside relationship.

Your GC will be issued soon!

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Mickaelia…

I appreciate your feedback and thank you for issuing me the GC. You are probably right about the complications of our situations, and honestly I feel you are spot on. I just want her to know that I care about her and would like to spend more time together.

Not just in a work environment. If something happens beyond that then great. If not then our situations or chemistry, may not be right after all. I’m not trying to pressure her to do anything else.

As far as my marriage goes she doesn’t love me it’s really as simple as that. We are in the same house (separate rooms) and still married because of finances only.

I would never flaunt someone in front of her face because that’s not my style.

The women I married has had two affairs for sure, maybe three within the last 3 to 6 years right under my nose.

Why should I work at that. She’s not interested in being a wife or lifelong partner in any sense of the word.

I’m not a bad guy but she is simply not interested in anything that has to do with me personally.

I have to be able to share my personal hopes and dreams and daily stuff whether it’s going to the movies,dinner,lunch or whatever with someone that cares. Ultimately, that means engaging in a relationship with someone else.

I hope that clears things up.