Hi. Mones for Confidence, Attraction (Younger Men) & Getting Out of Friendzone. F/45

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Hi, all. I’ve heard about pheromones years ago in my 20’s and vaguely remember trying one, that turned out to be a scam. After a recent rejection by a guy that I’ve liked/had feelings for the past several months, I remembered pheromones and thought they might help (if only I remembered months ago, things may have turned out differently. :frowning:) to give me more confidence.

I have social anxiety and have trouble talking to people sometimes (breaking the ice) and have been working on improving that, trying to get past my anxiety (and have compared to a year ago), but still need help. I tend to overthink, which sometimes has prevented me from taking action out of fear (the guy I like may (or may not, I could have misinterpreted) have been giving me signals, but my mind convinced me there was no possible way, so I waited too long too say something), which I have also been working on to stop.

I don’t have much of a social life and would like that to change. I have limited dating experience and just ended a relationship which was emotionally abusive and added to my anxiety and insecurity (about the way I look). I don’t look my age, my personality is younger than my age and I don’t have the same amount of experience as someone my age. I’m not as shy or introverted as I used to be, and have also improved on my confidence and courage compared to a year ago, but it is still not where I want and need it to be, which is a great deal more.

I’m not looking to jump right back into a serious relationship. I went from my first boyfriend to the one I just ended things with and not eager to do that again. I want to become friends and get to know the guy first, whatever happens happens. I really want companionship, affection and of course sex (it’s been a long time). I’m not necessarily looking to pick up anyone, because I don’t and can’t do the casual thing with random guys I don’t know if I can trust.

I’m looking to boost my confidence, feel better about myself (more secure and attractive), socially to more easily talk to people and make friends. Also, looking for romantic and sexual attraction from younger men. Particularly, hoping to get out of friendzone with this guy (28, very outgoing and confident).

I have Crohn’s Disease and get Remicade treatments and need to know if mones are safe to use with that.

I was thinking trying the Instant Female Wardrobe and also read about some of the MX mixes that might be what I’m looking for (for sexual attraction :wink:).

Anything else you need to know that would be helpful, feel free to ask. :slight_smile:

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Hello and welcome to the forum.

As far as I know, pheromones should not interact with your medicine. I am not really aware of any medications they interact with.

If you want to try pheromones the Instant Female Wardrobe is a great way to start. It will give you everything you would want to try and enough to see what works best for you.

Just remember, that while they will help give you an edge and help you out, they are not magic. But knowing they are working for you in the background can certainly give you a confidence boost.

Good luck and let us know what you do!

bosshank

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Well First off Hello and Welcome to you Violet. I just wanted to say. That I completely understand what you are going through and I been there myself and can fall back into those habits sometimes from time to time. Which sucks Because you are probably A beautiful person inside and out , but yet when you look in the mirror or at pictures you may see something completely different.. Listen first things first.. FUCK ALL THAT BULLSHIT!!.. You need to start telling yourself/giving yourself affirmations that you are amazing you are the shit. Every Guys wants you , every guys want to fuck you blah blah. pardon me being so vulgarr or forward.. But its an easy way for me to get to the point. Now like it was suggested. of course going with the Woman’s Wardrobe kit would be in your best interest and easiest way to really start getting to know and use the different types of pheromones and learn about good combos to use with one another.. But for me what really works. as a Male. when i wear certain pheromones that do make me feel good , confident and like i’m the shit , like a superstar.. Instant Shine does wonders for that for me and a lot of others report the same thing… So thats def a good one for you to use to build that confidence and self esteem up.. Because everything else starts working better as well once you have that mind set to follow.. I always tell people.. You need to also play the part of the pheromone. Not just think its magic spray that you spray it and you transform into someone else .. It is a Tool in a Tool Box.. But if u dont know how to use the tool properly.. You wont be able to get whatever you want done . Does that make sense? Anyway.. Give the Kit a Try.. AD are very great people.. They are here to help you believe me when i say this. They to me have one of the best customer service teams out of any company i’ve dealt with as far as Service and just willing to send freebies and extras when available . So you found the right place. You always should never be afraid to ask as many questions are you want , People want to help you more than you think believe it or not.!Well V enjoy and welcome to the family

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Welcome to PheromoneTalk, VioletRayne! :slight_smile:

IFW is the best choice, you being a beginner in this endeavor. I would suggest that you play first with the socials until such that those little sprays are able to manifest improvements on your daily moods, including your mood when around other people interacting.

Those alone would help in making you feel sexier, as soon as your social confidence is upped and boosted. And then, once you started playing with the ISexiness B, your confidence, bonded with the ISexi’s sexy vibe will literally make you a heads turning device. :slight_smile:

Your GC is now in your email. :slight_smile:

Happy Pheroing! :slight_smile:

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Totally agree with what Dee A said. Trust me you won’t be disappointed. You are going to get addicted to the whole pheromone life. It really changed my life. From being so self conscious n low self esteem. To feeling great. And feeling like I’m the shit and every girl wants me. In your case every Man. So take the leap. And you will see for yourself

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Hi Violet,

Thank you for the great info! I totally agree with the Female Kit as this is a perfect place to start. What you will want to do it test I/B first(I am thinking this will fir your personality better) and then try IS/A. These are for attraction and it is important to use the better suited one for you. Also what is important is to have the attraction these provide or things may not go anywhere so use the right one for your base and build off of it by adding other pheromone to make the best you.

I would then try IShine and use this with one of the Instant Sexiness especially because this guy is much younger than you. This will help give you a youthful vibrant goal and will boost your confidence.

IO will help you out and would try on your neck somewhere so it helps you open up to and this will help overcome the shyness.

IH Very valuable as this will help get to his true feelings and his intentions.

Good luck and hope this helps!

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Hi, all. Thanks so much for your help. Sorry took so long to reply, I’ve been busy.

@bosshank Thanks for the info, I’m glad it won’t interfere with my medication. I’ve been lurking the forums a bit for more info and know that they don’t work like magic, and agree that they may give me that edge I need. I’m particularly interested in the self-effects.

@Biatchzxz Thanks so much. That’s exactly it, how I’ve been feeling. My head’s been all messed up because of the superficial nature of society adding to my insecurity (been like this for years). Anyone that knows me, that I meet always says what an amazing person I am, I have a beautiful pure heart. The Crohn’s stunted my growth and development and while I don’t mind being short and petite (4’11", 93-105 lbs), I have felt that I don’t fit the image that guys want (not built enough, not pretty enough, too skinny (when I lose weight), stomach too big (from 2 surgeries), etc), especially now because I lost my teeth awhile back due to my illness and various meds taken years ago. I’ve been trying to get them, but they are expensive and I need to find a work at home job to afford financing them.

I do try telling myself those affirmations and have at times told myself to cut that shit. It’s just been several years of feeling this way and is hard. I have good days and bad, but have been really trying to improve that. Several times a week I watch that Alessia Cara video, Scars To Your Beautiful, which helps.

Yes, what you’re saying makes sense. I will try the IFW and the IS to help my confidence. Thanks, I’m glad I happened upon AD and am looking forward to becoming ‘addicted’ and the help with my self-esteem and the attention of men :wink:.

@Dee A Thanks. Yes, I am going to start with the IFW and take it from there. Try out the socials and work my way up. Thanks for the GC!

@justintime469 Thanks. Yes, IFW seems the way to go. I agree that IS/B may fit me better and will try that before the A. So, are you saying that the guy needs to be attracted to me already for the IS/B/A to enhance it? I will definitely try a combo of IS and IS/B or IS/A and trying IO for shyness. Looking forward to trying IH and seeing what things are said as a result.