Hi, I have poked around the forum and even though I’m a little skeptical about this stuff, it seems like people really believe in it. My problem is that I have been with my (now) husband for 5 or 6 years. We have 1 child together. Our relationship has become kind of stale because we cant go out like we used to and things have kind of fallen into a rut. We both miss the passion of a new relationship. Is there any way to get this kind of excitement back again? I have a 9 month old infant, will these product be safe to use around her? thank you
Hi there, and a warm welcome to the PheroTalk forum.
My first thought on your post is that belief must come with a basis. Otherwise, your or I may base our belief in our feelings and that is a precarious place to make decisions due to the volatile nature of our feelings. For belief to be firm and un-problamatic, you need to base it on facts, observations, and observations of others that are verifiable.
I can understand loud and clear the skeptic in you, as I was there when I started out my mone usage over 4 years ago. Check my journal below, where I started out with IShine.
Onwards… Yes, the weak descriptors cannot completely convey, that the English language provides for parenthood, that a lovely baby describing the joy/frustration/love/wholeness of having a baby, both the ups and downs. The dynamics of the relationship MUST change to accept this amazing new life that you both brought into this world.
Your own desires must be modified as well. NOW, with that being said, if you’re like me, you will need to continue to see how to maintain and revive the fires of your love.
At that age, 9 months, you should be able to have her baby sat for several hours. This kind of Investment in Your Relationship Health, so that YOU both can Discover and rekindle your missing passion… how Much is that worth? What did you love to do before the baby? What things did you love to do together that you don’t seem to have time for anymore? Schedule that on a Baby sitting afternoon or day. Prepare your lovely Baby to be completely taken care of while your off enjoying your hubby and he enjoying you. This will make you a much more satisfied wife and mother, with that relaxed, calm and loving feeling steaming off of you showing up in your smile, tone of voice, attitudes, toward each other and the baby. You see what I mean, about showing baby who YOU are and the WHO the baby is Loving?
As to mones, I will say that all people, you and he as well, produce pheromones and this along with your attitudes, actions, tone of voice, body language, etc are what are being engraved in your baby as YOU. This will Formulate the persona of who the baby will love and WHY.
You don’t want too much of a different mone signals. This is the reason for caution with synthetic mones around her, not that it will do any Harm. The caveat I give you is that I’ve not read of any studies on the effects on kids with mones. After reading up on mones and scents, I decided years ago, to be more cautious the younger the baby, with the reason being described above as well as more expansive the mone variety that I use, the older the kids.
In my use, I’ve used mones, around friends children of all ages, including babies, though, in my case, it was during a few/several hours together at family/friends gatherings outside and in the home. With my nieces and nephews, I do spend more time with them, youngest was 5 when I started using mones around her. No adverse effects, though, funnily enough, and I would primarily wear, the socials (IShine, IH, IO, etc or A314) around them, I would usually get a much more blatant response from kids to those mone signals.
To take them off, the mones that is, a soapy shower is enough to do that, if you’ve applied to hair or neck. On arms and wrists, you could use soap and wash up those application points. You can take a look at my sig on Application points as well.
For you, I would suggest the socials, such as the ones mentioned, depending on what mone signal you want to convey, or giving IS/b a try out as well, for Kittenish, sexy, vibe. The main reason is to liven up the passion between you and IS/b, the preperation for a day/half day out, doing what you both enjoy can work out great.
1Alpha
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Hello 3H1L!
Welcome to PheromoneTalk!
How did you find us? 
Hmm, you have a solid welcome and assistance coming from 1Alpha, one of the veteran and reputable member of this community, and mones-wise, I will second him.
I think I’ll simply put a little stress on one of 1Alpha’s points: the possibility of altering your natural pheromones, which, as an infant, is currently serving as one of your unbreakable connection to your child. Thus the stress on the need to use mones responsibly and away from your child. 1Alpha’s idea of letting someone you trust babysit your girl and washing the mones off before you assume your mother role back is brilliant. 
I suggest you think about heeding it.
And I think I’ll add something about the mone advise. Check this for some emotional feeding.
To help you cushion your first order, I issued your $25 Intro GC. It’s in your email now and ready for use.
Happy pheroing!
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Disclosure: I’ve edited your thread title from “Hi, 21/F, MD. Looking for something for LTR” to “Hi. Pheromones to Rekindle LTR’s Steamy Passionate Love; Safe for Infant. 21/F/MD” for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!
Great post, Dee. I will have to make it a point next time I order mones to drop in some Puppy Love and try it out!
Now, for the OP, you have a GC, so, what mones did you buy?
1Alpha
This one’s for you, sire.
Hi there!
I see you’ve never used your GC. And so I did a little checking and I found out that you have no existing account at the store, https://a314.com/ yet.
Maybe it’s the reason why.
The only simple solution is to create one and presto! You can use the GC and your pheromone journey is all set to start. Or maybe you’re simply not ready yet to order. No pressure here, this is just a routine reminder in case you’re puzzled why you can’t make an order.
Don’t forget to drop us a note here: support@androticsdirect.com for other concerns you think we can deal with.
Happy pheroing!
Welcome to the site 3hearts1love,
Dee A has a good point about the bonding of your new child. I don’t have much to add but I can relate because my wife and I go through some of the same things. One that has helped us both is P74. Other than that it takes a lot of work and sometimes she thinks of things to do for me on an occasion and when I am at the store I try to remember to pick her up some flowers once in a while. Sometimes even a genuine kiss or hug or some type of affection really helps on both sides. Good Luck