well im a male, 26, live in upstate ny area.
saying hi lol. anyway. im only looking for an edge on initiating a relationship with a girl ive been speaking with for a while. we’ve been hanging out. and while she’s opened up to me alot. she has gotten alot more comfortable around me. but she has obvious trust issues. due to her past. which i prefer not to say.
anyway. i was thinking in using a314 mixed with turn up the heat to see if it would get her to open up to me a bit. and increase the level of attraction.
Hi Alucard! TUTH, while good for many things, doesn’t exactly evoke trust or bonding. That doesn’t mean you can’t eventually use it, but it does seem like there is not much sexual comfort there yet. IG or A314 B seem like more reasonable choices. I can’t tell you which she’d be more responsive too, but both are masculine in a fairly non-threatening way. Take a look here, and tell me if you think you understand why Rone may be a better approach than -eNone or TUTH, for the moment at least.
Thank for your reply. i understand now. tuth would be way too much. something like that would apparently make me seem like someone that comes on too strong or intimidating. i don’t want that. especially when she isn’t willing to fully open up yet. would it be wise to use both ig and a314 together or just one or the other?
ive read somewhere on here that the effect of both supposedly cancel each other out since they are almost similar in nature.
Don’t use A314/IG together. Its not a great combination because the A314 steering just obliterates the IG. So it gets completely lost in the mix.
Its IO that cancels out A314. If you are thinking on that one, use less A314 instead.
how does one go about receiving the $25 gc?
did i do it right. id love to try out a to go bottle.
A little more info about your personality, style and the opportunities you have to use pheros around her and people in general - Some more info on her would also help, even just a basic idea of her personality but I appreciate your need to be careful.
An idea of how you found your way here would also be appreciated by AD.
I think that should cover Mickaelia’s GC requirements and she will no-doubt be along to issue the GC after the weekend. She issues them personally, co it can take a day or two - Also keep an eye on your inbox/spam folder as they can get caught.
IH/IS can be a very good combo for trust issues. The IS steers the IH into happy/feelgood/sharing and confiding territory in all the right sort of ways and it would moderate A314 into something more useful around a younger woman. Again, deepening the trust/bonding aspect and possibly fallout properties in the process but it needs repeated exposure for that to develop. An IH/IS or A314/IH/IS combo can be effectively sexualised by adding a bit of TUTH as things develop with fewer problems as there is already good moderation in the mix.
One thing:
Be very careful here - It may seem a good way to get close to someone but being that guy who listens sagely whilst she pours-out all her troubles to is often not the best attraction strategy. In fact it can kill any developing attraction stone dead and leave you as the dreaded “best friend” - You should be looking to make good use of that comfort and start driving things in a more sexual/engaging direction. Cut back on the “hanging out” and look to getting into some more positive shared activities, fun, taking her out of her comfort zone in all sorts of ways that show you in a good light and give her new experiences/emotions. All these pheros will help you take the lead here. 
Hello, Alucard! Welcome!
If you are looking to amp up the trust/communication, I suggest you hit the Instant Honesty. To avoid the friend zone, it might be good to pair it with IG or Ammo.
Looking forward to hearing more about you!
Welcome Alucard,
This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will.
I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie.
We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually.
It takes a great deal and I am back logged.
I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to
In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service.
Thank you for giving pheromones a chance.
Your gc was issued!