How do I pull the trigger?

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OK I know this is a men’s topic but i guess u guys can help me.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? what should be my next move?

I am 19, college student, white skin - about 5’7",male, with height-riser shoes about 5’10" , styllish, nuturally way TOO talkative and funny. most of the time i dont like it because it drops my value from being an alpha male :frowning:

so about pheros,
I am pretty new at this community and the community of pua , but i have read some pua books - have trouble field testing it though. there is this girl 23 , brown skin, she is easily an HB7 with a body of HB9, she is from Afghanistan, so cultural issues do apply here! a friend introduced her to me few weeks ago. after that she always calls me and asks me to hang out. but it is going more in the “LETS JUST BE FRIENDS ZONE!”

yesterday she called me and took me to her house where she lives alone :wink: (around 12:30pm)

MY MIXES: in a total of 6 hours I used all this i will try to list the reactions in a timely manner.

–> first about 3 drops of A314 around the wrist and behind the ear at 8:30am with 2 spray of IH.

–> later around 10:30 2 spray of IO and IShine, (because I didnot see any reaction from women around me)

–> then when she called me at 12pm to pick me up. i put on 3 more drops of A314 with some IH and IShine in 2 sides of my nick (i dont remember the amount)

–>when we went to her house, nutural feels! no touching :frowning: too much talking and that was it, we were there for 2 hours she should me some of her photos of her belly dancing! (damn she is sexy) so then i said i gotta pick up something from my room and then we would go bowling! because i didn’t have my credit card with me! i had to go and pick it up.

–> I went back and put on allot of these products

2 spray of IG in left side of nick,
2 sprary of IH in right side of nick,
1 light spray of IShine in the front side of nick
1 spray of CT2ME in the back of my head
3 spay of IO on my hair.

Now i know it is crazy, but i was nervues and distracted, I wanted to get some results.

so when we went to bowling, again chat chat talk talk no action, when i tried to do kino and hold her hand, she pulled off her hand. as I said she is from afghanistan, so she is kindda shy or idk if she acts like that.

–> all the night she was saying i am funny and she was laughing and talking and agreeing everying i said. but i dont want that.

–> so right now it is going to “lets just be friends zone”. How can I pull it back?
Which mixes Should I use?
Please help, :confused::frowning:
I am starting to think these stuff doesnot work besides that it gives me an heavy headache

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I think the cultural aspect is the major part of what’s seeming to get in the way.

She may be affected by all the pheromones you’ve been using (a lot imho). For example, a female just wearing copulins in church probably wouldn’t get the priest to jump off the altar and hump your leg.

Your girl has deep behavior restrictions. As she said she’s from Afganistan.

I think she might possibly like you or else she wouldn’t want to hang out and show you pictures of her scantily clad. xD

The pheromones help enhance what’s already there. It won’t brainwash your target. xD

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So today she invited me to come and watch her salsa dance in the gym, because I was teasing her that she doesn’t know how to dance. What do you recomend me to wear (phero-wise) thnx

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I’m not sure you can do much pherowise to get in her pants or to break down the social barriers, but I’d wear Instant Honesty and keep trying to win her heart over.

I don’t think she’ll give up much unless you marry her. xD

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Cultural issues can be major… and at the same time unconscious to the point that they can’t be explained… people inside of cultures find in near impossible to articulate how their own culture looks and feels to an outside observer… cultures may have deeps seated rules and assumptions that might seem completely off the wall… as I discovered when I briefly dated an impossibly beautiful, mind spinningly sexy, hopelessly anarchic girl from Kyrgyzstan… she just assumed that all governments were criminal syndicates as the normal condition and one ought to move from continent to continent frequently to confuse the state police apparatus… the KGB and former KGB weren’t abstractions to her… they only changes suits and became the “siloviki” who secretly ran everything…

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You sound like a hungry/desperate/horny 19-year-older … Nooormal! Check out the IShine:IG:CTTM2 thread Instant Gentleman + Instant Shine....Conflicting? , and go with that … 2 sprays of each. You don’t have any AMMO or TUTH? If you do, you can feed your I WANT HER NOW mental beast with ONE spray to the skin of your chest before you get dressed, too.

IF you’re in PANIC MODE … it’s guaranteed to mess up EVERYTHING. Push that mofo into cruise control, and stop worrying about falling in the FRIEND ZONE. It’s why some people shouldn’t read those books, cause they freak out thinking about it at the WRONG TIME! Watch this! … I’m about to scare the pants off a lot of you! OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD! See! Get out from underneath your beds! I was only joking! :roll_eyes:

In a hurry … UPS! :smiley: Sloooooooow down! Let nature take its course, and plant seeds (show your interest) along the way.

Eye opener: If she’s wanting to spend time with you, you’re in. Sometimes … you just have to ride that wave. :roll_eyes:

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she does want to spend time with me, I do have Ammo, but the problem comes when I try to get sexual… or even when i just try to touch her. she freaks out. I am also from Afghanistan, but I look more like western European, As far as the cultural issues evolves she has been to US for over 10 years and is not religious but she is strict to cultural non-sense..

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I am also from Afghanistan, but I look more like western European, As far as the cultural issues evolves she has been to US for over 10 years and is not that religious but she is strict to cultural non-sense..
What I am also looking for is phase transactors.. right now I she is way too comfortable around me, but I cant take it to next level (sexual) Help Please.

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Maybe - but she kept asking me if I have a GF or bla bla and other stuff like that, showing her interest. but as i said - when i try to hold her hand she freaks out! not just her , it happened to me before with other girls too.. first they get way too comfortable and relaxed as a friend! but when I try to do phase shift and try to be sexual.. doesnot work and I fail!:frowning:

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Maybe that’s it, maybe they just see you as a friend? Another thing is that you have to be patient, I can’t say for sure but it possibly sounds like you’re probably being a bit too pushy. Not saying you are, but maybe. Some girls are sensitive when it comes to being touched, I mean how would you feel if you were in their shoes? Just take it slow, and try to show interest in another way perhaps? I’m not a PUA, so I don’t know any of the lingo or whatever but sometimes you have to show interest in another way than just touching (especially if you’re trying to touch their leg for example which is a major no no for a girl I bet.)

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Pheroquirk brought something to my attention that has been probably the most valuable thing I’ve ever read on this board. Google “DiCarlo escalation ladder”. Read it and live it.

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I agree with you that he seems to be way too pushy. I hate it when guys are pushy like that and it turns me off.