hey guys, i am highjacking bonds computer while he’s out.
i have a quick question. i go to vermont every summer and winter. im going next week. there is this hot girl there, that i only see once or twice a year. she might like me but i not really sure. how can i find out by talking to her? not making it obvious, but getting some hints.
thanks
make it obvious. nothing’s like a bold approach.
don’t think of what to do. think of what you want. The energy will lead you. If you let her know you’re interested she will either be happy and return the interest and you guys can hook up or do whatever you’re into, or she can decline and still give you mad RESPECT for being a man and speaking your mind. that’s my take.
Try and get a bit of KINO going. If she likes you she’ll respond favorably, and if she doesn’t she will proably appear a bit uncomfortable and maybe pull back some. Watch for body language.
Another way, without putting yourself out there quite so much is to suggest spending time with her and listening to how she responds. If she jumps at the opportunity to spend time with you then there’s probably at least some connection. If she says yeah, but doesn’t sound like it makes a difference one way or another to her, then you are likely in the friend zone and have your work cutout for you.
Of course there’s always flirting, which if there is a connection or interest you will have to get around to anyway.
Goodluck!
thanks saifz, i was wondering if its better to act as a friend or go in boldly like your saying. thats part of my question.
mark, i did want to take a look at tisha’s body language thing.
It took me 30 years to figure this one thing out…and even then I had to be told. Nothing beats paying her a sincere compliment about something she did. For thirty years I complimented women for what they were and not what they did…it embarrassed them and made them uncomfortable as often as it made them feel good.
For example instead of saying “HI, you have a very cute smile” or “Nice hair” pick out something they are wearing that is nice, comment on it and ask if they made it (if it is something like a bead bracelet) or where they got it (cool hat, jeans ect). “Wow, I’ve never seen a skeleton key necklace before,That’s so cool,where did you get it?” or “Did you make that?”
This gives her a chance to tell you a little story about whatever it is instead of thinking “Uh oh this guy likes me now I’ve got to make a snap decision whether I like him or not”. She picked it out to wear that day and she’ll be delighted that somebody noticed that she did.
i will be there for a week. i was considering tuth, but im now not to sure that would be a good idea. something like Mx203 or ammo might work better.
i feel like i am starting a list here, go in confident, complement her on something she’s wearing or did, then observe to see if anything had an effect on her by her body language.
thanks again everyone
Good game plan, and to incorporate Renny’s compliment suggestion with my KINO approach, if she’s wearing a nice shirt, necklace, ring or watch, reach out and take it in your hand as you make the compliment. Touching is one of the best ways to create unmistakable body language.
Example: If she’s wearing a ring or watch, reach out and take her hand and look at the object as you make the compliment. For a necklace, do the same thing, but take the necklace or pendent in your hand. If you want to compliment on her shirt, reach out and put your hand on her shoulder as you do so.
glad u said shoulder not her **** 
cowboy… u dont want to give him any ideas 
asset ur showing some good thinking there… dont use tuth… stick with socials, and then give some MX203 or ammo with the social buffer… and just let the conversation flow…
brotherly love for a great reason to jack my comp
bond
Aww, lol, this is so cute! I’m not much help here, but I’ll share a few of my useless thoughts too 
If you think that she likes you, yea, there’s nothing wrong with being bold. I like guys that just come to the point, shows a alot of confidence. And if she’s interested, omg green lights!
However, if she doesn’t like you, and starts avoiding you. Yea, it’s sad, but hey you tried, and you were such a big boy about it! There are many fishes in the sea, sweetie.
If she wants to be “friends” with you (just in case things don’t work out as planned), accept it. In the long run you never know
30 years!!! Wow…I bet you’re a guru at this 
Nice one! Girls looooooove compliments specially from hott/nice guys. It shows that you’re paying attention to them. When I have a bad day, my guy friends compliment on like my shirt, necklace, shirt, and stuff like “you look pretty…blah blah blah” (they didn’t say the blah’s though) lol. It makes us feel good
Complimenting a girl makes her feel flattered (is that a word?). It could even show that you’re interested in her and break the ice.
Oh, and good luck with your lady!
I think everyone’s offered some pretty good suggestions already.
Besides, you might as well go bold with this because you only see her during the holidays. And if she displays no interest in you, there’s plenty more girls out there
Girls love being complimented and seeing that the guys actually pay attention to small details like change in hair cuts, extra effort in dressing (“This old thing? I’ve had it for aaaaaaaaaages but thanks big smile” )
Kudos for going after her and good luck!!!
In case you get cold feet about the whole thing, here is something I have learned through the years, just wish I could live by it more: The feeling of regret last alot longer than the feeling of rejection.
I would personally open with a little cocky-funny. Every one loves a good joke so long as its not just at your targets expense always.
I would love to get in my 2 cents here, if thats ok.
Sometimes us gals are shy (maybe even a little slow) and need a little time in responding to your advances/developing our feelings for you. Attraction for women is a bit more slower and more complex than for guys.
In my opinion, best you plan your seduction slow (start out with 1 or 2 Real compliments not on her blouse, but on how they bring out her baby blues-make it sincere, if you look hard enough you will find something you really like about her and are able to compliment),
using light pheros (turn up the heat may lead her running for the hills initially) include a social or 2, keep it minimal on the none-heavy products until she trusts you.
if you have lots of patience hang around until she gets that you like her without you having to tell her (which can make things sticky if shes not sure yet) may make things exciting in a different way than you are accustomed to.
Think Success. Even if you dont achieve your goal (girlfriend or lover), you will have learned alot about women in the process, and maybe open your heart a bit (and maybe hers too).
There is nothing more exciting than falling in love or having a crush, makes life fun and exciting and intense!!!
Nope, it means I’m really slooow to catch on. 
Of course falling out of love or getting shown the door by someone you care about is just as painful, exciting and intense but in a different way…
To the OP, lose all androstenone products. If anything stick to social and feel-good pheromones like IS and Instant Openness.
Mark had great advice on how to get some kino going, while incorporating Renny’s advice on compliments.
Saifz got a big part of it down when he told you go be bold. BE BOLD. Have a set of brass balls and go get her.
Other than that, if you can manage to just have a lot of fun with her, dude, you’ll be good. If you guys can’t manage to click, maybe you’re trying too hard or you just don’t click with her.
As far as pheromones go, you have the right idea, no -none. All fun, fun, fun. A little fun teasing turns to a little fun playfighting, which turns to a little fun wrestling, which turns to a little fun grabass, which turns to a little fun make-out session, which turns to .
Asset. . . I’m disappointed with you. Didn’t I go over this with you?
Did you ever hear what I told you?
Did you ever read what I wrote you?
Did you ever listen to what we played?
Did you ever let in what the world said?
Did we get this far just to feel your hate?
Did we play to become only pawns in the game?
How blind can you be, don’t you see?
You chose the long road, but we’ll be waiting
Btw, did you lose weight?