Hi, this post is to help me (ourselfs) on how to attract girls or in other words how to start a conversation. I’m quite a new in this (I never tried this myself because I’m quite a lonely guy) so any help would be appreciated.
Sincerely, Andrija
I wanted to post this thread some time ago.
Please suggest some pick-up lines to initiate talk with girls.
Well first and foremost you need to get out there and interact with others. Not so easy when your shy I know but with practice you can do it. Keep in mind all people are nervous when meeting new friends. Your not alone there. The worst that can happen is they wont be interested just shake it off and move on its there loss.
Good places to start … Shopping, coffee shops, clubs, religous groups or church depending on your affiliation. Of course Bars,
Now go out and find a friendly interesting target. Practice small talk and eye contact first. Learn to observe people, you can see there personality in their movements and expressions. You can also pick up on their interests so you will know what your openning line should be.
Lets start simple and go to the coffee shop for example… This is just a example you live in another country so you can apply it basically to your enviroment.
Get your coffee, Deep breath, Plant your butt near someone.
Now suppose they are eating a muffin and your not.
You could say, Hey that muffin looks interesting. How is it ?? Always end with a question at first this brings them into the conversation. Depending on what they anwser your going to respond.
Suppose they say…
HER: Yeah it is kinda dry.
YOU: Ah well good thing I didnt then. did you ever have the muffins over at BigBartsmufforama ??? ( I made that up LOL)
HER: no, if she is polite she will ask how they are.
Now you can start fishing for information…
YOU: Big barts is near my work, they are great, I am a mail carrier. What do you do ???
A conversation is born. See how if you end with a question it draws them in. Without the questions at first the convo fizzles out.
This technique is something you should practice alot. Smile, make eye contact when talking. Use a open body posture. All this projects confidence.
Read this post for when you ready to move onto flirting techniques I included some links in there.
After your have had some basic practice meeting people and making friends your ready for PUA tactics
Down in the lounge, Pheromone therory and studies and abstracts you will find the most info on PUA tactics and tips. Use the search function and read up on it. The more information you have in the subjects the easier it will be to break out of your shyness.
Hope this helps some
Oh did Bob take care of your mone problem? You didnt get back to me before. Dont worry I cant bite ya from here 
Tisha
Heya, Thanx for nice information… I guess that should help lot, especially for me because I’m the shy guy… Yes, kind Bob has taken care of my problem . I see that here are very nice people, never on internet I haven’t found so good forum. And small excuse: Sorry if my English is bad, I’m still learning it!
Thanks alot, yours Andrija
Strange… My post didn’t show up…
…so I’m going to write it again…
Tisha thanx for nice information… That should really help me a lot. And yes kind Bob has taken care of my problem. Now I see that here are the nicest people and forum on the internet…
Much thanx, yours Andrija
Strange… Again…
Sometimes it takes a little time for your posts to show up because of the spam filter. Once you have 50 posts your name is cleared from that so you wont have a problem. If one dosnt show up SteveO or myself will release it from moderations asap.
Glad Bob helped you out, once you get used to things here there are other tips to earn points to apply towards your orders.
Here is a link on that as well so you can see how that works. Read the whole thread so you can see some of the rule changes. This can really help with shipping costs by bringing your order total down. …
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greeting-new-members-first-responder-bonus/913
Just so you know 100 points is $1 US dollar. You get 500 points openning a smartmones account in the store. You got your $15 GC which is good for 90 days. If it expired before you can order let me know and I can re-issue.
Tisha
PS Your english is fine
Tisha’s example is IMHO the best way to start. Comment on something, “those boots make you look like a pirate, ARRRR” “I like your hair” “thats an awesome purse” “did you make that?” “where did you get that!” etc. This serves two purposes: 1. get you in contact with more lades. 2. Depending on how they respond, you can see if you’re wasting your time or not. But don’t take it to far (don’t comment on every single little thing) or you’ll look like a freak.
Don’t Forget to Smile very important, body language plays a huge factor something simple as a smile makes you appear friendly and warm to everyone.
Ciao “J”