How to Break Up with a Girl: Quick and Clean

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This is a post I took out from my journal because I believed it warranted a further look due to the events that took place. Many people find it hard to get out of relationships, especially if the person is a classmate AND is considered a “alpha” girl, so I decided to post my experience in hopes that others will have a sort of outline to go by in case they are in a similar situation. Remember though, this may not be possible for EVERYONE but it’s here simply to prove that it’s possible to end relationships without a lot of drama. Let’s begin.

MAIN STORY IS IN BOLD IF YOU WANT TO SKIP AHEAD

Applications: 3 drops A314 (neck) 1.5 sprays TUTH . 3 sprays TAC (5mcgs). and later 12.5 mcgs p83 .

Math:

Walked into math class feeling very confident, aggressive but calm, and focused. I began talking with girl “T” who at first seemed out of it but gradually over the class I think the pheros started hitting her. She became more open, and I got her to laugh quite a bit during class. I noticed that I was also recieving a LOT of attention from the girl in front of her as well, all this start happening about 20 minutes into class. Both became chatty and had me wondering wether I’d accidently added IO .

Side Commentary: Wildflower has stated before that TAC adds a “slow burn” effect to Turn Up The Heat. I believe this is quite true, and it’s actually very effective.

English:

Showdown. “C” is mad because she’s been dupped, she’s been acting funny with me lately, been trying to make fun of me and she actually had the nerve to ask me to do something for her? Yeah, well I didn’t do it so here comes the bitch fit.

I give my buddy the heads up about C in the hallway and sure enough she comes in and speaks only to him and stands on the other side of him. Well, me being the guy that I am I ignore her and continue talking with my friend who makes a funny comment about the “hostility” in the air. I decide to open girl “R” who’s standing across the hallway and she and I launch into a nice convo about her phone while “C” tries to talk with my friend (who’s seen how she’s been acting over the past week) and during my convo with R who asks me why I don’t have a Facebook yet C comments saying “cause he’s retarded”. Well, I look at her, laugh, and actually use that as a catapult and continue my convo as if she did nothing (which she didn’t).

In class “C” sits by me (despite the empty seats in the room) and tells me not to talk with her. I happily oblige and since she was sitting kinda by the wall I was able to unintetionally isolate by having MANY convos with the people in class who seemed extremely chatty today and were giving me lots of attention. Girl “L” who sits in front of my row was very attentive and kept turning around to talk to me.I took this opportunity to ask if she wanted to ride with me to her car and she happily agreed (Skadoosh) and “C” ended up leaving class 15 minutes early. Is someone mad?

After class me and my friend hung with “A” and “L” and during the meeting I snuck an extra spray of P83 in which seemed to really loosen them up even further. We went to the gym and while working out “A” slapped “L” right on the BUTT!!! Wow! Lol, but I got tight hugs from both of them and number closed “A” who texted me almost 5 minutes after she got my number. SKADOOSH!

Conclusion:

This my friends, is why I love A314 soooo much. It gave me the confidence to do the deed and do it well. Add in TAC , P83 , and TUTH and it seems this mix is EXTREMELY social with a slight sexual undertone. I’m proud to say that Wildflower and Snoopyace gave me this idea and I salute the both of you for your ideas.

Also, thanks to evolver for his advice on girls and “social proofing” which definitely seemed to be working like a charm today.

This gentlemen, is how you break off from a girl, and make her feel ashamed about it.

Here’s some key points on what I did

1.) I did not address her, nor let myself be “bogged down” by her attitude.

2.) I freely engaged other girls right in front of her to show that she was NOT going to hinder me.

3.) Even when she made negative comments and tried to upstage me when i was talking to another girl I showed NO ANGER and continued the convo and kept a smile on my face.

4.) I complied with her wish by not speaking with her and was extremely social with the class, making her feel somewhat isolated.

5.) I communicated a PLAN with my FRIEND. This is big. My buddy’s funny comments helped make the atmosphere very friendly and gave me positive energy to feed off of. Kudos to this guy.

6.) I immediately made plans with other girls to keep myself busy and to quicken the “getting over” stage.

The main point is to not feel like your losing a part of yourself and to press forward with life. In this case, her main objective was to make me feel sorry,worthless, and essentially very NOT alpha. Of course it didn’t work…

Once again, thanks to evolver for the girl advice AND to Snoop and Wildflower for their mix ideas. Remember gentlemen AND ladies, life goes on, don’t allow the past to hinder you from making a better future. You are a good person and good people shouldn’t allow bad people to control them, live life.

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It always good to hear a balanced approach to relationship issues! Thanks

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Yes, thanks Corey! I’m just thankful that everything worked out and that I handled the situation correctly. It took some self controll on my part but I’m happy I had my friend there to give me boost.:smiley:

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Good report. I wonder if she was being flustered by the pheros and the neg or lack of attention which caused her to leave early.

I’m also kind of surprised she didn’t try to DLV you or drop any other neg comments when you were chatting w/ the other folks in class. I think your shrug off of her earlier comment really put her at a loss and she didn’t know how to respond further from that other than to tell you to not interact with her.

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What a silly little game and, I hate to say it but it’s true, unbecoming a man. Usually teenage girls pull this sort of shit. Just be honest and tell her the truth: you’re not into her anymore and it’s over. She’ll get over it quickly with or without your posturing and game playing.

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Gegogi I’m a little unsure what you’re saying. Are you saying I’m playing her? If so then I should communicate that we never really were “official” just sort of…friends.

In fact, this is why I avoided sex because she’s a bit of blabber mouth, and I didn’t want to lead her on since she might be moving next year.

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I concur with Gegogi, BE REAL.

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DJ, Gegogi, I respect your opinions HIGHLY, but…I’m gonna have to ask what you’re trying to communicate cause it’s not making sense to me. Maybe because I’m young lol.:slight_smile:

My point is this, I wasn’t trying to run game, all I was doing was making it clear that I WAS NOT going to let her ruin my day. She sat right beside me, if she wanted to talk to me she could have and I would have gladly listened. I’m not perfect nor do I pretend to be. I am willing to work on my own flaws but ONLY if the other person will work on theirs. She’s tried to use me, almost publicly embarrassed me, and even made it a point to warm up to my friend, while giving me no attention (this happened Tuesday).

We were never “official”. We hung out a lot, yes, but I never kissed her or had sex with her for this very reason. I was weary of her personality and the things she told me sent red flags ( thank you Instant Honesty :smiley:).

Could I have done better? Yes, but then again we can all do better. But I’m definitely certain I could have done worse.:wink:

Also, Gegogi (I’m not calling you out, just asking for clarification :slight_smile:) what does “unbecoming a man” mean? Did you mean to say “unbecoming of a man”?

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7.) G is right.

8.) Any time your playing her game, you’re not running things. It’s like my friends saying they have 5 girls, and THEY’RE RUNNING THINGS. Well, anytime you have to change YOUR schedule to accommodate the girls, you’re not running anything … you’re getting run.

Reread your post, and see how many times you did things to SHOW HER. That’s my point. :wink:

9.) You don’t know it, BUT you do care.

10.) Always speak to her … with a smile. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t speak.

11.) The next time she dump ugly verbage at you. Tell her you still like her as a friend, and she can’t take that away, no matter how ugly she acts.

12.) You’re still growing, and growing always have more mistakes. Learn and grow. Grow and learn. And know this … MOST 18 year olds play/played that same game. Yup, I’d bet G played it, too! :smiley:

13.) Never argue with IGNORANT people! They pull you down to THEIR LEVEL, and then the BEAT you with EXPERIENCE. :roll_eyes:

14.) Don’t let these posts mess up your day/night … pull the positive learning from it, and toss that other stuff! :wink:

A gentle cyber pat on your back. :stuck_out_tongue:

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Wow…I never really thought about it that way…

Well thanks M&M, Gegogi, Dj, I’m glad you guys all chimed in. I’m still growing and I don’t have too many “adult” figures to talk to about stuff like this but I want you guys to know I really appreciate your advice (especially M&M :wink:). I’ll just make sure I learn from my mistakes and try not to repeat them.:smiley:

EDIT: Reps to everyone who chimed in and hey M&M, cyber hi-five!!!:smiley:

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I think you handled the situation perfectly. In fact, I would have to disagree with the coming right out and saying you aren’t interested because this is just going to give her more attention, regardless of what your intentions might actually be. The less attention you give her the better, and you demonstrated this perfectly. I’ve been in the same exact situation a number of times and this method has worked each time. The couple times I did try to explain to a girl why I wasn’t interested in them, they didn’t get the hint and took me still talking to them as a sign that I still have some interest. In fact, one of them had even told me, “if you don’t care then why are you still talking to me at all”. I do agree with the others on the straightforward thing IF it’s an older and more mature girl. But younger girls around your and my age just don’t understand it. For what it’s worth, I think you did the right thing.

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Thanks Scottie, it’s kinda unfortunate that girls our age act like this.:o I’m not a mean nasty person, but I REFUSE to be walked over and used. And that’s with or without pheremones. I agree with what the others are saying but sometimes the best attention is no attention.

Besides, I’m still willing to be friends with her, but that’s it. Friends only. I don’t want benefits, because they can turn into detriments.