So glad we are back online, and that I didn’t wake up from a dream and realized that Androtics were a figment of my imagination!
I have a quick question for a work-related situation:
What to wear when I have to see a very unpleasant woman in charge (with whom my husband had a confrontation 2 weeks ago because she’s actually very unprofessional and a super b*tch and not a nice person), and the rest of the coworkers are male? I want to appear in control, “soften” her perception of me, and be attractive to the rest? Basically, I have to work with her all weekend, and want to make the best of it.
I would start with some TAA oil or spray. Since it gives off a feel good aura it should work to soften her up a little. Definitely some IShine and ISexi, never leave home without it. When wearing ISexi alone I’ve been able to get along with other women all the while maintaining my sexy edge around the men. Go figure.
I agree with Lor. The end of the semester has caused a ton of stress in the dorms, and one of the girls I sometimes hang out with has turned into a psycho b*tch. I didn’t really like her much to begin with But she is one of my friend’s girlfriend, and I got tired of how she was treating him, so I went up to my room, sprayed 4 sprays of Instant Shine, and the mood lightened up a little bit.
I did something similar myself! I took my TAA and sprayed all around my bedroom before some ornery family members came up, and surprisingly nobody argued in the slightest, which is quite the event in a family like mine! I was amazed.
I may just have to put some into my fans or something. I have a neat little scent diffuser I bought at Bath And Body Works ages ago and haven’t used, so maybe I ought to try pheros in there instead.
In terms of “softening up a superbitch” I definitely recommend MX135 or TAH. I love both of them immensely but now that I think about it I ALWAYS feel good when I’m wearing them, especially in megadose proportions.
Well, I’d say use a LITTLE MX134 (like 1-2 sprays on your chest, where you can get whiffs of the TAL)…it will help with your confidence and make you appear in control. Then, add either some straight TAA, Shine, or even one of the Sunshines…they are good for mood lifting. Use a lot…to your hair, your clothes, etc.
Some other good ones are MX 212-215. They are all alpha Androstenol and TAA.
And, I would leave the cops at home…some women (not all, but some) get catty when they are around other women who are wearing cops.
gurl. as hilarious as it sounds - the only way I can deal with my superbitch is by wearing A314. Apparently if i smell female, she tries to top. If i smell like a guy, not so much.
altho i don’t know if that will work, considering she got in your husbands grill.
yeah - i dunno - as long as i gotta work here, i’ll be wearing the A314 around her. If i’m wearing something even remotely girly she’s the biggest bitch that ever bitched, seriously.
When I wear A314, i can tell her I really don’t have time for her today, and she smiles and says “ok, well whenever you get around to it - thanks!”
i don’t know that with her it’s so much a crazy signature, as I think she needs to assert alpha female dominance by any means necessary. If she’s around men tho, she’s fairly mellow, unless she thinks she can push you around. So I think all this time she’s been a total ass to me, because i just wasn’t letting her top me. Now that my signature is less girly, I fall off her radar as threatening. it’s really really wierd.
those are actually fearful behaviours that she seems to set-forth, the actions of being different around different genders/people suggests low self esteem.
she sounds like she would flip-and-be-your-best-friend if someone gave her a compliment or asked her out for coffee.
Speaking of which, at the bank today there was this guy who was giving me “looks” and acting gay. He had an earring in his left ear (i dunno if that means anything anymore) but anyway, he smelled very strongly of cops.
I wanted to lean forward and say, “Dude, do you have a vagina? and if not, which co-worker am I smelling on you?”
But, my reaction was to play dumb and be very polite.
hmm i wonder if there is a tactful way to approach that, i dont know that i could let it go wondering what the heck he applied. i mean it sounds to me that he was wanting to come across as a female using cops, which in a way makes sense;
but dammit manwoman…cover that smell up!
If it was that strong, and it definitely smelled like EoW, I would have asked. That would mean he would have had to apply the stuff within fifteen minutes of when you met him! I couldn’t let it go.
i thought that at first too. so for the first year or so, i tried to be her friend. and got bit for it everytime. i don’t doubt that the root is low self-esteem, but she’s managed to adopt a serious superiority complex to cover it up.
Hi Hotmama,
I hesitate to give any advice to someone as pheroexperienced as you…But I’ve had pretty good results professionally with a combo of MX134 and TAH. I’ve been using that with a base of 1 spray instant sexiness A, 2-3 sprays instant shine, and 1-2 sprays instant honesty. The MX134 says I mean business, but the TAH helps me keep sweet about it.
When dealing with jerks, I find that just laughing at the outrageous things they say can help.
Jerk: “Those are the ugliest shoes I’ve ever seen.”
Me: “Hahahaha. Huh? I don’t get it.”
Jerk: “I hate those shoes.”
Me: Wrinkle nose. “Still don’t get it…”
Jerk: “I hate…ah…whatever…nevermind.”
Me: “No really…I mean…if you tried again I’m sure your joke would be really funny.” Big innocent eyes, waiting.
Jerk: “Nevermind!!”
no doubt,Kitten.
i had to deal with a shipfull of colorful remarks in my other job, basically its what i got paid to do, deal with them tactfully,without being pungent back.
often a silent pause and the look that your waiting for more to come out
because she’s actually very unprofessional and a super b*tch and not a nice person), and the rest of the coworkers are male? I want to appear in control, “soften” her perception of me, and be attractive to the rest? Basically, I have to work with her all weekend, and want to make the best of it.
Quicksilver