I can't take my eyes off you

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports
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The A314 saga continues. I luurrrvvvee this stuff! :smiley:

So I was in the shopping mall, taking advantage of the retail crisis and some ridiculously cheap prices. I was looking for a new pair of boots and other things I needed.

Having just attended another interview, I was fully suited and booted in full alpha mode. Sharp suit, shiny boots, overcoat and of course, the now obligatory 2 drops of A314, one behind each ear and streaked downwards.

Nothing to report of any interest at the interview. It was late afternoon, the interviewer was visibly tired and just wanted to get off home. Pretty dull guy. Don’t think I’ll be working there anytime soon.

I walked past a woman in her early 30s. Dark hair, jeans, blouse and Ugg boots. Nice va-va-voom figure. She was dragging round some guy, probably her husband, who was completely out of it. Typical bored male prisoner on a woman’s shopping spree, acting as a beast of burden, and carrying an armful of her purchases while she executes a full-on commando raid on the store that would impress the SAS. Probably on his credit card, the douche. Completely dead-eyed.

We walk past each other, going down the centre aisle in opposite directions. Hubby following meekly two paces behind her on her left. Our eyes met, and we gave each other a polite nod to acknowledge each others presence. Her eyes flicker down and then back up, a small smile on her lips. I returned the faint smile which was met by a wider smile of her own.

We brush past each other and she appeared to take a deep breath. I continued past and down a side aisle, crouching down to look at a pair of boots in my size at floor level. 60 seconds later, she appears at my side, explaining that she’s looking for a pair for hubby, do I know of a pair worth getting because you look like a very well-dressed guy.

I look over my shoulder and leaned over to the side, looking back up the centre aisle. Hubby’s standing about 10 metres away like an automaton with no instructions, apparently unaware she’s gone elsewhere. I point to a pair about 2 metres away and say they might suit him.

“Thanks!” she says, now with a full beam smile. I’m suddenly aware that she’s leaning over parallel with the floor. Her dark hair cascaded like a waterfall. She was giving me a very good view down the front of her blouse. The caveman at the back of my head growled and the fire started to run through my blood.

“You’re very welcome,” I said chivalrously, forcing my gaze up, looking her full in the eyes and responding with a quick grin of my own. I switched it off but maintained eye contact until her gaze flickered again.

I remembered congruency and looked away at the boots again, apparently unimpressed by her displaying. I pick up the pair of boots I wanted and turn to leave. She was looking at the boots I pointed out for her, not crouching down like I was, but bending over again to present a very shapely butt aimed in my direction. She had no need to do that. She could just bend her knees, not her back, and crouch like everyone else. She just had to display.

I walk over to the checkout and stand in the queue. I do a casual scan of the store, just taking an interest in my surroundings and catch her eye again from across the store. She’s watching me, although she didn’t move from where I left her. Hubby’s still running on clockwork and needed winding up. He hadn’t moved in five minutes. Somebody wind up his mechanism, LOL!

I walked out thinking that was a good hit.

Musk

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one of the hardest things to do ever. :wink:

great report!

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GOOOOOOOOOOD HIT!! lol..I did that once before at a bar..like you said congruency is key..I think if anything the “signal” goes thru the roof if you’re dressed well..Its there if you’re casual too, but 150% more if you’re dressed up.

Reps!!

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Chivalry? Screw chivalry, at that point chivalry is to her presentation as a bicycle is to a fish. lol I think I’d have just enjoyed the view and winked.

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Yeah she wasnt thinkin Chivalry, dude..Otherwise she woulda flirted from afar..did you check the ring finger? No ring, she’s game..Especially w/ a guy who has NO CLUE that his chick is showing the goods..

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I kinda got the impression that a ring would have been irrelevant and purely ornamental for this particular couple and situation. Would have been interesting to see if she was willing to ditch him for you. Never touch a taken woman.

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In my mind, that’s incongruent. I’m trying to pull off a smooth, respectful to the target of opportunity, but still dangerously sexual alpha vibe. That was the whole reason I locked eyes until she looked away. The standard first move in the mating dance.

I had no intention of going past first base though. Sometimes, I just like to flirt and mess with their heads.

Impressive, you caught me looking, and yes, I’m a Man. But I’m not just a horndog. I can be much more than that to you.

That’s the vibe I’m looking for. Just winking and enjoying the view strikes me as being lecherous. No offence, Catlord, but that’s Turn Up The Heat, not A314.

Of course, getting the balance right is perilous. Get it wrong, she walks away or you’re in the friend zone. Get it right, she gets itchy panties.

No need. She explicitly stated she was looking for a pair of boots for her husband. She made no attempt to draw my attention to the guy, nor did she show any emotional intonation in her voice when he was mentioned. She said “husband” as if she was talking about a rock, completely neutral. What I could detect very easily was the “I’m so pleased I’m talking to you” sparkle in her voice and eyes, which made me think it was just a ruse to get me talking and show off what she’s got.

It’s not only men that play away.

That’s what we’ll never know. But I would like to know why single, unattached, not-taken girls are the most resistant and indifferent, if not downright hostile, to my advances. The most receptive, paradoxically, are the ones who say, “I have a boyfriend / husband / lover.”

I don’t do it deliberately - I have serious moral issues with it. So why do the taken ones keep coming?

Musk

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'Cause they can F with your head and have an escape.:open_mouth:

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That covers the taken ones, maybe. I don’t understand why the genuinely single ones are so hard to crack. They’re impossible.

:confused:

Musk

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Very nice ! :]

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Absolutely perfect. Reps

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Damn dude this is a thread not a romatic novel! DAMN!!! get it together!:open_mouth:

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What’s up, Bigman? Don’t like my writing style? :smiley: I should have taken the advice from my English teachers in high school - become a writer, you’ll be a frikkin’ millionaire in a few years to rival Stephen King, boy. Remember your old teacher when you’re on your private island, pretty please? Invite me over, you rich…:smiley:

Musk

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No offense take. I think I must not have made it apparent enough that I was being silly. It’s kind of hard to do on a forum if you don’t remember to use the right signals. :slight_smile: My intention was to be ironic and ridiculous, resulting in humor, but I guess I was too tired to pull it off. :roll_eyes:

And of course, if a woman is too easily taken from another man by your refusal to touch her in her taken state… her action becomes suspect.

But didn’t you say you only had 2 drops of A314 on? Do you usually get results at 2 drops, or was it perhaps self effects and resulting body language doing it?

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I use two drops because even though I like Akuto, I don’t like smelling too strongly of anything, no matter what the scent is. I get results at 2 drops regardless of what I’m wearing and I see no point in going higher.

See my "Who's the daddy?" "He is!" thread for an example of A314 doing its stuff and royally screwing up a paternity test, even when I’m slobbing out in faded jeans and T-shirt doing absolutely nothing to project an alpha aura.

I’ve never had self effects from A314 that I’ve noticed. But when I put on the suit, I prick my ears and I can hear the wolf pack singing just beyond the treeline as they gear up for the hunt.

It’s when I put the overcoat on. That is when the pack surges, and I can feel them around me, picking up the scent of the prey, urging me to run with them. The kill - hit - will be glorious.

It’s a heavy wool coat and it’s the feel and weight of the fabric on my shoulders that does it. It provokes an almost imperialistic, rule-an-empire feeling from how it sits, how it moves when you walk and when the wind catches it.

Then the A314 goes on and the alpha of the pack is in my head, the wolfsong is in my head and the pack runs as one.

My mood is critical at this point. If I’m feeling horny for instance, it produces a smooth, controlled sexual aggression. You get a “Don’t mess with me. You won’t want that. You’ll never see your wife or your daughters again. Trust me” vibe. :wink:

If it’s an interview or meeting, then it produces a take-charge, I’m bigger, better, more competent than you feeling. Stand aside, and bow before me. :smiley:

In either case, I’ve noticed I walk slower, my speech is slower, dominant eye contact, especially with women. They don’t mind at all. I lock eyes with them all the time with the suit. I’m always rewarded with a smile at the very least. My back is ramrod straight, I gesture with the hands a lot more and the gestures are more expansive.

I have a vivid imagination, and I use it to good effect. The wolf pack mental imagery is just one way of psyching myself up for any challenges.

The pheros are the supporting act, not the heavy guns.

Musk