I don't think coworker likes me... car journey - pheromones?

(This is not about getting laid - just about gaining trust and respect.)

I have to drive a coworker for about an hour tomorrow, so we will be in close quarters in a vehicle, and therefore may have some chance for pheromones to work their wiles.

She seems a nice girl, but I can feel a bit of weirdness from her towards me. We’ve socialized a few times, and she seems OK then, but there have been a few occasions where I’ve felt she’s been a bit two-faced, and has a couple of times held back on giving any thanks for some favors I’ve done for her.

I don’t think she actively dislikes me, but I think she’s a bit weird about me, and it would be cool if I could see if I could win her over.

At my disposal are: A314 (I hope - expecting it to arrive tomorrow), a to-go of Instant Honesty (free gift, thanks!), Turn Up the Heat, and Instant Shine.

Any combo advice for the desired effect would be appreciated - also timing: how long should I apply any stuff before I pick her up?

G’day Bill

I’m sure others more experienced than me will chime in, but sounds like a great situation for A314 and Instant Shine to me.

A314 is an absolute gem, I’m finding. Great for everything… It will certainly help present the aura of someone who should be trusted and respected. of course, you have to carry off that air as well.

Instant Shine will help soften it and create a happy vibe.

Actually, come to think of it, Instant Honesty might be handy too - you might get her to open up and clear the air about whatever is bothering her.

Without knowing your best dosages for these it’s hard to say how much of each, but I would apply about half an hour before you get in the car. Just as cologne seems stronger at first, pheromones can be a little overwhelming on first application - better to let them settle a little.

Stay away from TUTH!!!

Based on your description of the situation.

Yes I’d second that!

If you really want her to like you and she’s at best indifferent, I’d stay away from any alpha enhancing mones such as NPA, TE, A314 & TUTH. If I didn’t like somebody and they put on superior airs or an aggressive persona I’d hate them for sure and carefully plot my revenge. Instead, put her at ease and influence her mood with feel good mones: anything with lots of TAA, alpha androstenol and A1 (TAA, IS, IO, SOE, A1, IFM).

Also, sometimes when a person of the opposite sex appears uncomfortable with you it not because they don’t like you, but because they like you too much. Of course it’s sometimes tricky to separate the haters from the lovers, so tread lightly.

I think I’d go with the A314, honesty, and shine combo. Do you know your sweet spot for them, or rather the honesty and shine since you said you’re getting the 314 tomorrow?

I’d actually apply them inside the car if you’re going to have 15-20 minutes before picking her up. Just don’t go overboard with them.

Whhhoaaa… wait a minute. If you go applying this inside the car, she (and you) is/are exposed to what has been called backwash. This is a term that was originally coined by Lor to describe prolonged low grade longterm exposure to an area contaminated by overspray.

In this case you want her to associate the pheromone signature with you, not the car. And you do not want to overwhelm her with it when she is in the car.

In any case, it’s generally not a good idea to apply inside your car. Anyone who gets in is exposed to the last several days of your mixes.

_oohYahhh (the O is on loan to SteveO)

A314 just arrived. Amazing service as ever.

Gonna try two drops of that in conjunction with two sprays of Instant Honesty and see where that goes…

Thanks all!

Well. She was a pussycat.

Furthermore, I felt relaxed and really alpha. The business meeting went well, and on the way back we went to a department store. I was looking for stuff and at one point she said “I’m just following you round, and I have no idea why”. Our entire day was fantastic, and she really seemed to enjoy herself. Almost like we bonded, after two years of frosty relationship.

I can’t say or not if it was the A314 or not, but several older women lit up like candles when I bought stuff, and ended up chatting for ages, telling me stuff about their lives.

Really quite astonished by this. I didn’t notice much, and was skeptical about, the consumer stuff, but A314 really seemed to alter both my mood and that of those around me - particularly women.

Nice work Bill, good to see it all went well…

This is true and something I’ve had to deal with since using Pheromones. There have been times when I’ve been wearing Ammo where I thought I had OD on none because girls appeared shy, quiet and wouldn’t make much eye contact when talking. Sometimes, someone can like you to much they become self conscious and therefore appear uncomfortable. I didn’t want to stop wearing Ammo so I started adding 2 sprays of Instant Female Magic. Gegogi have you any advice on how to deal with it?

Didn’t go so well with my ex wife. Wearing the same cocktail of pheromones, we met for a drink, and she expressed an interest in this one guy in the bar. So being a great ex husband, I went and talked to the dude, and invited him and his buddy to come and join us.

She and this dude were talking intensely for an hour or so. On the way home, I was ragging on her - dude likes you, you like him, go for it. She said “boring boring boring, no interest” - to which I replied “you do protest too much”. She then went fucking crazy, stormed off into the night. About 30 minutes later I got a text telling me that I shouldn’t rag on her, and if she says she’s not interested then I should just shut the fuck up.

Interestingly, the last time she reacted like that, she ended up fucking the dude.

Damn.

Ouch…

You need to remember that pheromones tend to have less of an impact on people who already have a deeply ingrained opinion of you. They are very handy tools, but not powerful enough to completely overwhelm years of built up thoughts, feelings, memories and associations. If they could do that they’d probably be illegal :slight_smile:

I’m not sure if you are actively trying to win your ex-back… there are a few journals detailing people’s attempts with pheromones to accomplish similar things and, unfortunately, I haven’t read one where it’s been a success as yet.

But you have stumbled onto a tool that will help you have a lot of fun with new women - possibly more fun that you could have previously imagined… keep that in mind :slight_smile: