I really dont see it as being deceitful. You use it to enhance yourself and those around you. Just like girls use makeup, scents or push up bra’s. Its the same thing. When we are in relatonships we dont go announcing “Hey got a Push up on”
My husband and myself have a very trusting open relationship.
All he knows is I wear alot of scents and some of them do something. If you tell a person every little thing about yourself it takes the mystery out of you. I am not saying keep big secrets but leave some mystery. They really dont need to know every little thing. After being married for a long time I am always delightfully surprised when I find out something new about my husband. It helps to keep the interest in long term relationships.
Tisha