Well it’s hard to say why really. I think he just grew on me. Before I didn’t really trust him completely or take him that serious. I think I thought his intention might be a little insincere…or that he just wanted to bone me and that’s it.
But I come to find that he is a really nice guy and is not like that at all. Even though I did sorta put him in the friend zone, he didn’t just forget about me. He stuck around, and became the best friend I’ve ever had. I just really got to know him and I trust him now, when before I didn’t. I needed some time to warm up to him that’s all.
I think i might have let him slip too far into the friend zone tho, because he does seem a little confused about it all… But at the same time, He’s being respectful and is acting less awkward about it.
I am really anxious for him to come back home :/… so we can finally have sex lol…but idk that might not happen…blah
anyway… I think the problem is that there are too many girls/women with trust issues out there. I can’t speak for all of them…that’s just what i think.
You’re not too far into the friend zone. Like I said, “Put on something sexy, and a couple of drinks and he’ll be all over you.” A man’s hormones take over pretty quickly, and we can’t do much to stop it, lol.
update time…sorry guys but the news is not good. When he came back to town, I put one or two sprays of my new pheromones on. then when i saw him he seemed a little timid. I gave him a hug and i felt he had a boner which was cool but…
he pushed me away and wouldn’t really talk to me. We ended up getting into a HUGE argument that same night and now we are no longer friends. :/…idk if i used the pheromones the wrong way or what…but this sucks. I been depressed for the past few months that’s why I haven’t been on here lately. Any advice would be great.
Yeah…it is what it is. I have to try and move on now. Found out that he’s been having an issue with drugs. Recently he tried to apologize, but I am so emotionally drained. I don’t know what to do with him anymore.
Thanks everyone for the support though. I <3 u guys. I don’t regret putting all my cards out on the table. It was a good decision. Made me see things I haven’t seen before…It sort of helped him realize stuff about himself too.
He has some secret issues that he needs to deal with before we could ever be cool again. I still care for him so hopefully he gets better and we can reconnect some day…But not today.
Time to move on real quick. Trust me, from personal experience that is train wreck and a plane crash at the same time. I dated a woman who was addicted to pain killers and she was so beautiful and sweet, but couldn’t make it work. As hard as I tried, I knew it was doomed failure.
It’s in the bag.