everyone gets in arguements. I always find just acting like it never happened and continuing on leaves the best impression especially if it is something relatively small like that. Just start up a light conversation with her and you should be fine.
One tip though is that over thinking gets people in trouble. When we think to much about something often times people miss the obvious right choice and end up doing something that doesn’t make sense. You know what to do deep down, don’t question it and do it.
It’s like I said before, she’s going to act like a brat because you aren’t giving her the attention she is used to. Don’t keep trying to get her to stick to the date plans. Just assume it’s still on unless SHE says they’re off. And if she tries to “threaten” you by saying she may not go out with you, just tell her “That’s fine by me, just know you aren’t getting another shot”.
What I’m going to do is go to work as if nothing happens and not mention it to her and see what takes place. And like you said before, everything should be work related. I not going to joke around with her either.
I must admit to you guys, that it is going to be hard for me to not joke about and be outgoing with people, especially women. It seems that I’m around women everywhere that I go. and it can be very frustrating when there is more then one of them in a group setting. I know I going to have to take this and try to use these settings that I have to meet these women.
Well guys here is my update and it will most lightly be my last post on this subject. As you all know I ask my co-worker on a date, for Valentine Day, but I got into an argument with her and she cussed me out. Over the weekend I was thinking about how I treated her. So the next time I had saw her I did apologize to her for what I did. However I still didn’t talk about our date on Saturday. And I knew she wouldn’t dare date me for all the money in the world. She did accept my apology and we were on good terms again. But something strange has just happened that I couldn’t believe. I’m known my friend for about six months and I knew that she had an ex-husband, which she didn’t talk about until today (which is Friday.). She said that her ex-husband had been going to school, and she described him to me. I couldn’t believe my ears what she had told me. She told me he full name, and my jaw dropped in disbelief. I knew this person. I knew this guy from school, I’m a senior and he is a freshmen. I knew him since this past fall semester. I go to school at night and he goes to school in the daytime, but we talk a lot in the library about twice a week. (On our studies, women, and other things) I felt like I was in a soap opera. But it gets even crazier then that. She said that he knew that I worked with her, but he didn’t say one word about her to me. I was the odd man out. She said that we both are outgoing, caring, and have good taste. (meaning her.) During this time she said that she had paperwork to do on the weekend. and can’t go on the date. You guys, what are the odds of someone to meet and get along with a woman that you want to date, and be good friends with her ex-husband? This is complete insanity. Guys, It looks like I’m going to have to look else where for some lovin’ because it looks like I’m going to be stuck in this friend zone. This is crazy!!
Smartest thing you’ve said so far . Drama just isn’t worth it in my opinion. There are tons of women out there, I’m sure you won’t have a hard time finding another one. Just make yourself available and don’t be afraid to approach. Go to coffee shops or book stores and scope the scenary. And remember, you are the man and you can get anyone you want.
. Drama just isn’t worth it in my opinion. There are tons of women out there, I’m sure you won’t have a hard time finding another one. Just make yourself available and don’t be afraid to approach. Go to coffee shops or book stores and scope the scenary. And remember, you are the man and you can get anyone you want 
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