Hello, friends. This is really long, but I need help. I also put a summary at the end for those who don’t want to read it (although it’d really help in order to understand the situation better).
So here is my situation:
I am a 20-year-old gay (occasionally bisexual) male from South Texas but going to school in Massachusetts. This Summer, I met a guy whose family moved to where my parents live (TX), and is going to school in Michigan. Him and I met, and I took him on dates. I took him to the beach, and everything just seemed so perfect. I swear it was meant to be. We went on dates every day he was here from about 7:30 p.m. and would be together until 3:00 a.m. Unfortunately, he had to leave for an internship in Mexico City, but I had it understood that him and I were exclusive and would hopefully go into a relationship. He had posted on facebook that he was emotionally invested and it just seemed that way.
After waiting for him to come back for like two months, he had to go to his school in Michigan for 5 days. He slowly stopped being so frequent in returning my texts, etc, and said he was busy. Then one day I wake up and see him post on facebook how he’d miss his boyfriend but he’d be back in a month. I was confused but then saw photos of them together and two messages to me saying how he was still in love with his ex and thought he was over him. I have been extremely depressed and heartbroken since then. He is supposed to come back to TX for like a week and I still plan on celebrating his birthday with him, like I had planned.
Time passed, and we were still messaging over fb and trying to be friends since I told him I still had so much hope and feel like I still do.
Two weeks ago, I told him I’d be hanging out with a friend. He got jealous, and later on said that he realized that he also fell in love with me, but it wouldn’t be fair since he has a boyfriend (HA). I honestly think he is indeed in love but just doesn’t want to be. The week before he had told me how his boyfriend doesn’t act like he misses him, and how when they went to the beach, he kneeled down to give him a promise ring that he wouldn’t break up with him. He said I was making him doubt their relationship. He (my guy) is also always posting things on fb saying how he misses his bf, etc and it makes me sad and mad at the same time.
Now he isn’t talking to me because he says he should keep himself distanced for the sake of his relationship.
NOW, what should I do to get him back? I know that is impossible with pheromones, but I just want them as a little aid to make me play my cards right. I’m hoping that he will realize that he is more attracted to me. If anything, at least I would like to hopefully seduce him and keep the memory of making love to someone I will never have…I would do anything just to keep that small bond with him, especially if we’re going on dates or something.
**In short:
Someone please tell me what to buy in order to make someone I have gotten to kiss before to say yes to my propositions and be less likely to reject me, at least for the last week when I see him. Should I buy A314, IH, IS, TUTH, Ammo, or what? I remember there being a putative to make a person less likely to say no in the end (I think it was P79).**He seems to like being hard to get and sorta likes attention from guys.
