I Want Him to Want Me!

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports
1

Everyone here has been so helpful in other posts and I really hope someone will be able to point me in the right direction!

My situation is not especially extraordinary, but I need specific results. I’m wondering what you all think would be the best scent/mixes for my needs.

I’m doing 4-month internship and I need my supervisor to trust and respect me. I work in a women-dominated field, but my supervisor happens to be male (lucky me since I’ve always been shy and uncomfortable around men). He’s in his 30s, attractive and masculine (I’m in my 20s).

I may be playing with fire here, but (besides his respect) I want him to be attracted to me as I am to him. I figure once the internship is over and there’s no conflict of interest… well, who knows? He’s single; I’m single. Why not? :stuck_out_tongue:

On top of that, I want to make sure I don’t make any of the women aggressive towards me because I also need their support and respect since I work closely with them.

I purchased the following products from another website: Silent Seduction for Women, Scent of Eros gel packs, and Liquid Trust (free samples included The Edge and Perception)*. *It’s been almost 2 weeks and I have been very disappointed by the results (or lack there of). No one, including my supervisor, has treated me any differently than before. (If anyone wants more details on that experiment, let me know).

Based on this disappointment, I’ve turned to PheroTalk and Androtics for help.

Post recap: I want this man’s respect and sex! (and I’m willing to pay for it)

Thanks so much to anyone who responds! :slight_smile:

Womens Pheromone Guide
2

I’m in a somewhat similar situation, Candyland.

How long have you worked with him so far? How is he treating you at the moment? If he’s not trusting you or respecting you right now, then my suggestion for that situation is going to be different than what it would be if you’re already on good ground as far as that is concerned.

Need trust and respect:
Instant Honesty for bonding and rapport
MX134 for the competency vibe (3-4 sprays)
Instant Sexiness A and/or cops to up the sexuality of the mix
Instant Shine I recommend for all situations

If you’ve got basic trust and respect going and want to enhance the sex appeal with this man without losing the trust and respect:
Instant Honesty
Instant Sexiness B for playing off of his masculinity (maybe 3-4 sprays)
TAH (same as above) (maybe 10mcg)
MX135 for giving you a fun-loving, “all eyez on me” vibe (1 spray)
cops
Instant Shine, of course
EST to encourage the protection instinct in your TG. Women will respond to this too in high doses, but I don’t think you need a lot here. Maybe 12.5 - 25mcg.
IS/A or MX134 to your chest so you can get self-effects

The IS/B, TAH, and MX135 will make you seem softer, but in my experience not less competent as long as there is already an underlying feel of respect for you. The first mix will foster more respect as far as work goes if that is lacking.

Of course your TG could be the kind of guy who responds better to TAL, in which case you would want to use IS/A and TAL products instead. You’ll have to test them out to be sure, but if you get the masculine alpha sense from him, my money is on IS/B, TAH, MX135 and EST making him weak in the knees.

Also, some of these products are considered for advanced users only, but I think some of the newer women users have placed orders for things like TAL, TAH, etc with no resistance because they need female reviews of these products.

This is all based on my recent experiences. Others may have other suggestions for you. Good luck! :slight_smile:

3

Don’t forget to stop by the New Users forum and say hello… you’ll get a nice $15 gift certificate :slight_smile:

MX134 is the woman’s trust and respect blend for work. Instant Honesty is great for creating a trusting atmosphere as well. Lust After Me is Androtics’ heavy copulin blend, meant solely for physical attraction. For your shyness, Instant Shine is a great confidence booster, and puts those around you in a good mood as well.

Also, I’d recommend reading the stickies at the top of the women’s section. There’s some excellent content there.

Good luck!

4

hi!

something really quick: for me, EoW from lovescent helps me with sexual tension like nothing else. be warned tho, it can smell anywhere from stinky flower to butt cheese. :wink:

5

Thanks so much for the responses, guys! :slight_smile:

Ariadne- I’ve been working with him for about a month and a half. He does trust and respect me now, but there is definitely room for improvement in that area. I feel like there’s enough there for me to turn my attention to the sexual aspect of the relationship. I hope your similar situation works out for you!

Tealeaves- Thanks for the suggestions! I will go through the sticky threads to see what other good info is out there. I appreciate the tip about the gift certificate, too!

I’ll post again with updates. I’m excited to see if anything good happens!

6

Remmy- So EoW creates sexual tension? That scares me a little about the smell, though. I do own Pink Sugar and I’ve heard good things about using it as a cover scent.

I didn’t mention this is my first post, but my supervisor is a huge flirt and always really friendly with all the women we work with (he’s surrounded by them). I hope it’s not too hard to tell the difference between him just being himself and actually feeling something for me. I’m not really good at reading men in general and him in particular.

7

Eow definitely creates sexual tension. Eow is a pure copulins product that most of us use along with the products available at Androtics. I’d suggest reading all of the stickies for great tips on how to apply and cover the stink. :wink:

Some of products that have been suggested to you also contain copulins, instant sexiness and mx134 both contain lighter amounts. Lust after Me is Androtics stronger copulins product and also a favorite. It has been reported that a strong copulins signature can create jealousy from other women so it may not be ideal for you to wear heavily at work. I’ve never experienced negative effects from it myself but wanted to warn you.

I have a feeling you’re going to be as hooked as the rest of us so I suggest you pick up all of the womens instant line & mx134 and mx135 in to go sizes for experimenting and choosing your favorites.

8

There’s a Malay proverb saying, “Seperti perigi mencari timba” which means ‘the well goes looking for the pail’.:slight_smile: I may not give a good advice here but I think no matter how bad you want him, don’t over do it! You must not show to him that you are a type of woman which is “easy to get” if you know what I mean.:wink: :slight_smile:

But I hope that he will fall for you with the little help of the pheromones. Have you consider the Instant Sexiness?

Welcome to the forum!:slight_smile:

God bless you always.

9

Inkling- Thanks for the advice about Lust After Me. The last thing I want to do is have the other women in the office hating on me. Ordering the “To-Go” sizes of the suggested products is exactly what I have in mind. And, to be honest, if I don’t get the results I’m looking for (like with the last products I tried), I will stop using pheromones and stop trying to attract this particular man.

Mohammed Shah-Thanks for the advice! I won’t overdo it with the pheromones because I am very hesitant person and I don’t like pushing things too far. I would never aggressively pursue any man. It’s just not how I am. If things aren’t meant to be, then they’re just not meant to be. This guy will never get the feeling I am “easy.” My plan is to be how I always am: friendly, pleasant, sweet, and responsive.

10

One thing for you to brush up on then, is body language. Read about the subtle things a man does when he’s attracted and look for them. If he’s just naturally a flirt, but really attracted to one woman in particular, he will unconsciously do certain things around her and no one else. Tisha posted an excellent link about this in her “How do I know if I am getting hits !!” post a few days ago.

I don’t have the same issue with my TG as he’s not very open and friendly-seeming with other coworkers to begin with, but he does these subtle things around me a lot, which helped to clue me in to the fact that he was interested (along with the pheromone-fueled hits):

When he stands near me, he completely faces me with his feet pointing my direction.
He leans into me when we are talking.
His eyes move from my left eye to my right eye, down to my mouth and back to my eyes when we are speaking to one another. He looks elsewhere as well, but I usually just catch him doing that.
He holds my gaze for longer than usual when we are finished speaking, almost to the point of discomfort.
He plays with his hair a lot, running his hands through it.
He tends to make himself look bigger when he’s standing, like squaring his shoulders and putting his hands on his hips.
He often puts his thumbs in his pants pockets, leaving the rest of the fingers out. What does this have to do with it? He’s subconsciously framing his goods for me!
And the big one: he smiles at me a lot.

As Inkling mentioned in Tisha’s post, you should also become familiar with female attraction body language and employ that with him. He may not be consciously aware of what you are doing, but he will pick up on it along with your pheros.

Good luck! :wink:

11

Definitely use the Pink Sugar as a cover. Studies have suggested (and in my own personal experience this is true) that men prefer food scents on women over floral or musky scents. Preferably sweet scents. The smell of cake or cinnamon buns or whatever triggers the memory of eating, of a pleasurable experience, and is associated with sex/attraction.

Of course this doesn’t apply to every single man, but most men really like it when a woman smells like something he can picture consuming, I have found.

12

Ariadne- That is good advice to review body language. I’m usually so caught up in my own nervousness, that I don’t notice the implicit signals of the other person or the ones I’m subconsciously giving off. I have to be more aware of that. I’m trying to think back to how my supervisor was in the past so I can have a baseline to compare any differences to. I would die if I noticed any of the things from him that your guy has done around you. :o

As far as wearing Pink Sugar as a cover scent, I think it has a great smell and it makes sense to trigger pleasurable eating emotions/memories in a man. I love smelling it anyway.

13

i dont know about pink sugar for me though.. my TG told me that he hates pink sugar so i tend not to wear it. i found that using something with sandalwood in it helps to cover the smell also :slight_smile:

i have a quick q about lust after me tho if anybody can answer me :slight_smile: do u know if the effects are similar to eow or stronger? im kind of thinking of investing in Lust after me but i already have 2 bottles of eow so i wasnt sure if it was worth the investment..

thanx :slight_smile:

14

I’ve never met a guy who was turned on by a woman’s competence. :roll_eyes: Impressed, maybe. But not all horned out about it.

You have a lot going for you. Young, pretty, feminine. Plus you’ve got a totally fetishized title. Intern. Everybody wants to do the new intern. Play up your role by dressing the part and acting super eager to absorb wisdom.

See if you can do your hair in a french twist using just a number 2 pencil. You make a low pony tail and then twist and roll your hair upwards, tucking in the ends at the top and sliding a pencil through the roll to secure it. Killer trick for the office.

For pheromones, I’d recommend pretty much what everyone else is recommending. Instant Shine, MX135, and copulins–either EoW or Lust After Me. I’d also pick up a bottle of women’s Scent of Eros.

Ariadne and Tisha’s tips are gold. My addition to them would be to make sure to flirt with other guys besides your TG. You aren’t married to him (yet!), so spread your attractiveness and pheromone goodness around! When you pay lots of flirty attention to all sorts of men, you won’t be so freaked out by any one particular TG.

Best!
Kitten

15

lol I love the way your mind works!

16

Kitten- I love your advice! I wish I had that confidence and inner goddess attitude. I don’t fit the sexy intern persona and, I admit, 90% of that is attitude. Physically, I could doll myself up (although we work on the clinical side of healthcare and not in the office), but mentally I would struggle to become “Hot, Young Intern.” I do believe he would fall for the “super eager to absorb wisdom” part. He’s just that type of guy. I can play that up for sure. Tomorrow, I’ll go in all bright-eyed and hanging on his every word! As I said on a different post, he’s my major focus right now. Still, that doesn’t mean I can’t try to work some mojo on other men. (Especially since there is a chance my TG won’t want to mix things up with our supervisor/subordinate relationship. And I can understand that)

Everyone- Thanks for all the great suggestions! :smiley:

I finally ordered:

  • Instant Sexiness A for Women To-Go (I would have preferred B, but I wanted to start with the cheaper, To-Go version)
  • Instant Openness
  • Instant Honesty
  • Instant Shine for Women
  • MX134 for Women
    *]MX135 for Women
    I wanted to buy everything suggested, but I have to start small (my internship is not paid!)
17

Sometimes it works to create interest in yourself by having multiple men vying for your attention. It could actually make your target overcome any reservations when he realizes he might lose your interest to another male.

18

I totally agree here candy boo and Welcome. We are all routing for you.:smiley:

19

I seeem to have the same problem. Sex isn’t it but I want him to want me in a more loving and caring way, not just sex!!!
I, however have had great success with the “Perception” that you mentioned.I,however used the whole pack and not just half as was directed.
I read that mix113 is “chemical romance”.What does that mean???
Anyone???
P83 was hailed as a “kisssing” phero. Anyone have any data on that?
Question for all you lovely ladies out there:sex vs.romance (love?)
what oheros for which???
I appriciate any input,thanks! Dolores

20

I don’t think I’m doing it right :confused:. Today I wore:

1 spray split between wrists of

  • Instant Openness
  • Mx134
  • Instant Sexiness A
  • Instant Shine
    2 sprays Instant Honesty (wrists)
    3 sprays Mx135 (wrists, chest)

I started with these dosages because they all smelled so strong. Nice smells, but strong. I didn’t want to walk around with a perfume cloud floating over me… Or is that the point?

I felt the same as I usually feel and no one treated me any different. When I was in the elevator with my TG, I did get a little excited, but it was at the thought that he could one day have a reaction to the perfect balance of pheromones. He does that to me anyway, though. Makes me think about being intimate, about being embraced by his masculinity. It’s not fair that he can make me feel this way without synthetic chemical means.

EmeraldNight- I believe that it could create interest in me if there was competition for my affections, but there are no other men around on our team. He’s the only man with which I have daily interactions. There are fleeting moments in which I’m around other men, but my TG usually wouldn’t be around to witness it. I’ll keep my eyes out for any opportunity, though. It may present itself as time goes on.

Diatris- LOL at “candy boo.” I like that. Thanks for being in my corner.

Elpcmdlw- Well… If I couldn’t get tender loving care from my TG, I would settle for sex :stuck_out_tongue:. My sister liked “Perception” and felt it worked magic on her boyfriend. I hope someone can answer your questions about mx113, p83, and the sex vs love pheromones. I’m interested as well.