If your results arent great ....

I just want to address the “pheromones arent working” topic.

I have recently taken a big break in using pheromones.

Anyone who knows me knows this took a great deal of discipline :wink:

With alot of emotional stuff flying around the house, I did not think it would be prudent to use even subtley altering substances.
Things needed to get balanced again.

Anyhoo, wanting to get back into the game and having fun again, I began to add a spray here,a spray there, and HOLYSHEET let me tell you-
I fell asleep a few times, got irritated a few times, had a headache a few times, and got horny a few times.

Heres what-
when I was using regularly, I wore doses to affect the masses :smiley:
now i have the perception of someone who is “new” again to pheromones, and how they affect people NOT used to them.

Wearing them definately gives you a self-effect, so you will be hit harder than your company in some cases. Acclimating gives you an edge.

But if you are wearing them and getting less than stellar results,
please take into consideration that its possible you are overwhelming others with the dosage.
They might get snippy,cranky, or just get an attitude.

Androtics gives excellent advice in how many sprays, and to what degree to wear.
Anyone with questions can ask Jasmin;
she’s been in about every pheromone situation you can think of.

Pheromones are subtle.
Most wont hit you over the head like a drug.
Its only when you look back the next day and think OMG, now there were differences I can see.

If they seem to not be working, then I urge you to consider how you thought they were supposed to feel, and what your expectations of them were.
My opinion is that they work, and that these are some sneaky picker-uppers.
They are not the modern version of cave-man clubs.

back to your regularly scheduled program.

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HAHAHAHAAAAAAA

EXACTLY!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! SOOOOOOOOOOOO glad you’re back, Lor!! We have missed you!!!:smiley:

This is so true! Sometimes after a day of glorious pheromone fueled success I tend to forget that pheromones did play their part but it was still ME that those were enhancing.

And on the other hand someday nothing seems to be working and I keep on changing my signature by adding one spray this two sprays that, hoping for a click, a reaction anything and it seems like it is doing nothing at all. But looking at it in retrospect it becomes very evident that the pheromones were doing their job of enhancing and subtle influence just fine, it was my attitude and my mood that was preventing me from noticing it.

Excellant post Lor. Good to see ya here. :slight_smile: We all miss you.

Tisha

It sounds like there’s a story here, and perhaps something to be learned.

What particulars of the situation made you think it would be good to take a break? Did you think the pheromones were having a negative influence at home?

Did taking a break help the situation? If you had that time to live over, would you take the break again.

You’re always stirring up questions in my mind, mystery lady.

Welcome back!

Actually NBully, you show quite a bit of discernment in your ever-clever scrutiny of a latter-day pheromone-fueled adventure.

so I enjoy your blog.

Reading it im reminded of where your comming from, and its a great comparison to my own experiences.

you give me great ideas

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Tisha, im always peeking in your posts…
you keep the reading full of flava ! :smiley:
(and bringing it all down to earth…)

GWTW my friend, so good to catch up!

My issue at home ( always airing my laundry, as my personality insists)
was that i was VERY comfortable using pheromones to diffuse, confuse, and lighten-up a situation.
My ex is back in state, and there are always mixed feelings where he is concerned.

Pheromones to me should be used with fun/experimentation in mind, not in putting off inevitable emotional outbursts :o

I dont believe pheromones had any negative influence by themselves, but in the context in which i was used to using them,this was not a good time.

Im not a big believer in wearing pheromones around the clock, especially since I think the pheromones I make naturally are pretty nifty.

I advocate taking regular breaks from their use, if only for the contrast it provides.

Also, I believe our chemistry is altered with regular pheromone use.
Not that I have evidence other than my own experiences, and I dont wish to imply that this change is a bad thing.

I just think moderation is key in pheromone success.

Any ideas on this, GWTW ?

I’ve pondered a bit on the potential for artificial pheromones to confuse natural communication mechanisms. Our bodies already know how to send certain signals. I haven’t really run into anything concrete though in my experiences. That’s why your comments stirred my interest.

Speaking of natural processes …
Every once in a while someone comes on the forum and says “I’ve got GREAT chemistry with this person. What pheromone should I use?” In those instances it seems like the natural processes are working great and I tend to think it’s better not to mess with them by adding artificial components. The natural high will wear off sooner or later but why not enjoy the pure stuff while it lasts?

oh i do so agree!

and after they establish a relationship and it gets all comfy, thats the time to whip out the playful i wonder what this will do mixes

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im wearing Instant Sexiness A today, one spray down my shirt and holysheet, im high as a kite.

time to get re-acquainted with fun.

This is a really fascinating thread. Lor, I am SO SO SO glad you are home. :smiley:

Yes, pheromones are subtle! It makes it even more irritating when people allow them to become an excuse for certain behavior. I am so glad you said that, you phero-titan, you. :slight_smile:

That said, I still don’t think there’s anything wrong with a little IS/A or MX135 on a first date. I think you really have to think about to which products a person may have a negative reaction, though–a lady walking into a first date scenario wearing -none is probably a bad idea. But I think playing with TAH and TAL in moderation is a safe bet, because even if you hit the wrong one, the guy isn’t likely to have a negative reaction, per se. And you can always try the other one on the second date, and see what happens!

Just a thought, though. :wink:

I suspect it’s like when you take time off anything. You become a lightweight again. Being pheromoneless reminds me of a recent date I went on. I’d been using pheromones every time I went out with the gf so I decided to go out without any on me. Things went superb. I was worried about a differential in signature but since we’ve grown accustomed to one another it didn’t make much of an impact.

I sorta felt like I was able to relax and be myself more and casually blend in with the masses.

Yeah i always take a few days break from mones every week.So as to avoid build up.In the early days using LS products ie; The Edge i had so much build up I literally smelt like shit lol.I went on a phero fast untill i discovered Androtics.

Thats such an important point attitude is everything.I find if im insisting on a result and applying heaps of pheromones im relying on pheromones way to much.In such moments inner game is lost and its not surprising to get negative results.

In my opinion it would be ideal to decide on a a mix based on your best knowledge of pheromones and whats appropriate in a particular situation.Then go out and kinda forget your wearing them and just rely on your own social nous.