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If you offer some advice on something!
(Spoiler: mix is at the bottom :wink:)

I’m in a slightly precarious situation right now. On Saturday my girlfriend of 2 years and I are going on a double date with two of her friends that she is trying to hook up. Sounds straight forward enough, but the catch is that I know my girlfriend thinks that this guy is “cute,” and may quite possibly have a little crush on him. I try to let the little things in life go, and as such am not an overly jealous person. I don’t even mind that she talks to him on occasion. In my opinion if we overly restrict access to other “potentials,” then how would we know that we really want to be with each other, and not someone else? But this is the first time she will see him and I interact with one another. By any measure one may choose I have a higher social standing as compared to this individual, whether physical, mental, monetary, etc. The only thing I do not have is novelty.

MY QUESTION TO YOU IS:

What is my best course of action in regard to my demeanor and methods of social interaction on this coming Saturday?

Should I be laid back and respectful, perhaps indicating to my gf that I am able to perceive threats and respond in a respectful way, because I know that I am better than him and do not need to put him down to show it? (I’m suspecting this is the correct answer)

Or do I AMOG the hell out of him aggressively, most likely ruining the day for everyone and appearing powerful, but immature (basically a dick).

I guess I basically answered the question for myself just by writing this… I’m thinking I’ll be nice, and DHV whenever possible.

As for the pheros, I will design the application to be congruent with whichever method I happen to choose for the day. I have IO2x, TUTH, AMMO, IJ, and IG.

Any advice/insight is appreciated!

Now for the mix! Something I’ve been doing lately which I really like is:

2 sprays TUTH, one on each upper pectoral.
1 spray IG to the upper chest/neck where that little depression is.
2 sprays of IO 2x, one to each side of the head (hair).

Thanks guys (and girls :slight_smile:)
-Gage

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this is from iphone so bear with me :slight_smile:
now, a gf bf relationship must have a trust factor in it.. she should trust you enough that even if u go to a strip club she wuldnt have to worry.. and you shouldnt worry abou her goin to club or a party or w/e .. this is of course if u both have that trust factor in common.. without it a relationshiop is NOT going to work. a lack of this trust from either side will result in the failure of such relationship.
why are you worrying about your gf hitting on that guy? this by itself shows your insecurities. if you trust your gf and know for a fact that you are better than this guy.. why are you even worrying for? these are all questions that you should answer and think about it by yourself.
also let me tell you this: if you always feel like ur gf MIGHT be cheatin on u or sumethin then you need to see whats making you feel like that? after all this is not a good indicator of a successful future relationship.
just my two cents of course and dont take anythin i said to tha heart :wink:

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You know what, thank you for that. You’re absolutely right; I don’t have to worry about anything, I should just be myself. That is what drew my girlfriend and I together in the first place.

See this is why I post here lol.

I would like to mention, though, that neither of us worry about cheating at all; we do have a high level of trust. It’s just that the novelty of other people is not something I have control over, and it takes a great deal of faith in a relationship to say “hey, our old relationship can withstand the temptations of new.”

-Gage

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I think what it really comes down to is not that I’m worried about losing her, but that I just want to be the best I can be for her, and I’m unfamiliar with how to behave in this situation.

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I would behave mostly normal, but maybe a little bit jealous, but not asshole jealous. Let her know that you trust her, but you still feel jealous, and you just can’t help but feel that way. Women actually like to see you a little jealous it makes her feel like more of a catch or something.

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If she thinks he’s cute/attractive then that’s normal. It happens in all relationships. DHV proactively “help” in the conversations because she’s trying to hook them up, you can be seen as the facilitator. You won’t need blatant actions to show your girlfriend is yours. Be relaxed and be fun and open. Win them over and you’ll look like the boyfriend who wants the best for everyone. You’ve been with yoru gf long enough to know how she’ll react to certain things, and if you’re too over protective or too clingy it just makes the other dude look good.

I would wear some IG, leave the IO out.

Rad and some of the more well seasoned guys should prolly chime in soon and they can provide some more depth of advice for your situation.

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Bring latex gloves, a shovel, and a few contractor bags. Also wear your most beta mones to catch them off guard.:wink: GOOD LUCK BUDDY

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@azazel Of course that’s what we all want to say. :slight_smile:

@oldgage
OK so I’m glad that you brought this up and sought advice on it. I think you have been given some great advice so far. You may want to look into yourself and check to see if there are any wounds or holes that need to be fixed and work on your inner game. But I think you already know how this works.

So here is my opinion. If your girlfriend is trying to hook this guy up with another one of her friends, then naturally she thinks highly of him. I mean she wouldn’t hook her friend up with a loser right? So you have an amazing opportunity here. You get to really shine. The truth is if your girlfriend ever decides to cheat you have no control over it. Just like one day you will die. You have no control. The difference is, she may never cheat on you. So relax. Don’t stress over that. The only thing you can control is yourself.

What women really like is being around guys that no how to have fun and open up and be themselves. You get that opportunity becuase technically the pressure is off. Whether she has a crush or not, for this night the pressure is off. You need to smile. Be sincere and geniune and relax. Be the Alpha. Invite him into your world. Get to know him. If you lead him and he likes you, then you never have to worry about leading the women. They will like you too.

For mones I would drop one of the TUTH. I don’t even know how you can wear 2 shots just hanging out. Bump up the IG and maybe a little ammo. Too bad you just posted this. I would have said to order some p74 too.

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Don’t forget a bag of Lye and lawn darts. Just like Me Myself and Irene. Great movie.

CLASSIC and you got my vote for TOTW :wink:

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I think PJack hit the nail on the head. Don’t sweat it, be yourself and befriend the guy. You’re showing that you are socially awesome and who wouldn’t want a guy like that? Good luck to you, and just in case it doesn’t work out the shovel works too :smiley:

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I vote for be yourself too.

I use to be that jealous guy when I was younger and it doesn’t look good.

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Be yourself, if you act differently your girl will notice. Always be the better man.

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This is where A314 really does come into its own. I know you don’t have it, but 2 drops of A314 and nothing else but your personality would have been great for this situation.

Fellow forum members have dispensed some top advice: be yourself!

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I agree that you should be yourself, but I can give you 1 better.

Think of this other guy as your little brother.

That’s how genetics work, the youngest always gets the best genes, but somehow remains subservient to the oldest. I honestly hope you have brothers so you can relate to what I’m telling you.

I have a little brother who is prettier and funnier than I am, but nonetheless is my bitch. Just imagine this other guy is your little brother and go about business as usual and you’ll be fine.

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Thank you guys for the wonderful advice! It always shocks me how many people on the forums are willing to take a moment of their time to help someone they’ve never met. There’s a great little community here, it’s like an online family. In fact, I even see people fight like family on here lol.

As for the night, it went well. I certainly was not mean, and actually the kid is pretty cool. I realized that I really don’t feel threatened, and it was a positive experience overall.