Hello all! I’ve been reading the posts for women. I’m ready to join in the pheromone fun. I recently broke off a long-term relationship and I’m interested in attracting guys. I don’t go out much beyond work, but I am starting to. I’m not ready to get my clothes ripped off and ravaged; I just want to get the attention of guys that might not normally look my way.
Believe me, I get attention but I want to do something out of the ordinary. I’m interested in pheromones because want to date and get to know a different because I keep meeting the same type. I have a strong personality that leads some people to believe that I’m “independent and don’t need a man” (not my words). I’m not shy but I don’t attack men either. I can be flirtatious, but like I said, I’m ready to attract men that are not afraid of my strength.
Some of the things that might be helpful to know would be some specific details or examples of the things you mentioned above. First, what is the “type” that you seem to have attracted? Do you know what you did that was a beacon to that type of guy; if yes, what are you willing to do … what alternatives to that behavior would you consider?
BTW, huge congratulations on noticing that and choosing to try something different.
Also, is there a particular kind of guy that usually doesn’t look at you that you’d like to attract? Can you describe him? Where do you see those kinds of guys? / What kind of venues? (church, PTA meeting, politicaly rally, bowling alley, sports bar, dance club, dive bar …)
And then of course, how tall are you, what’s you blood type, and what kind of shoes do you prefer, and your favorite parfums, the color of your hair and the color of your parachute, etc. etc. etc. …
what i find interesting here is that this forum definately seems to draw more women that are strong personalies and less of the easily intimidated. your going to fit in nicely,lol.
im in a similar boat,as is dolly here too. you will find reading in the womens section alot of great ideas that may resonate with your own situation. some realllly good reading there.
feel free to ask questions to anyone you think might help, thats what makes this place fun!
have fun with this
Hi Lor!
I’ve even had guys tell me I won’t be able to control you! What am I a child? I am smart (except for getting with dumb guys ) and I always working on self improvement. I think that that should be a turn-on for a man that is progressive. I’m a little bossy, but it’s not because I think the man is weak and I know better. That’s just me. Most of the time I’m completely catering to my significant other. Then I see the progressive guys that are with women that aren’t doing squat compared to them so that he can look like superman. It’s an ego thing, i think. We women may get emotional, but men are way more delicate.
I had a great talk with Jasmin yesterday and placed my order. She is really nice! I ordered Instant Sexiness B and Instant Shine. Shine for confidence on my new job. I/S B so I can become the kitten that doesn’t intimidate men.
well,i tried using instant sexiness B to not intimidate men but, i think if your comming across as sexy, that in of itself may intimidate. just keep that in mind when your doing your thing all sexxed up on mix B thinking “but they aint talked to me yet!” … sometimes your just going to have to accept being a little different.
i have mix B and i adore it. i wear mix A more, simply because i dont push against nature anymore. im a mess, now im a pushy sexy mess.
instant shine was a given, you would have wound up with that eventually anyway, jasmin just saved you the irritation of having to wait for another order for it. please post your results,im genuinely interested to see how you fare!
