I never said that I invented social proofing! I said that goes a long way in meeting and dating hot women!
As far as strippers go, lets see, I’ve slept with probably 20 or more, not including the one that I married!
So Mr. PUA, you wanna go head to head as to who can get more women, you got a challange, and from an old dude nearly twice your age!
You got a lot of talk, but that’s all I’ve seen from you. I’ve got at least 35 pages of exploits in my journal. And, as Steve said, I’m pretty much the anti-pua!
And again, I couldn’t agree more. I opened the thread expecting to find something of value, and instead it came across more like a lecture from someone talking about a subject they knew little about, but wanting to convince everyone that they’re an expert.
I’d be happy to see something from kingy just showing that he actually has picked up women, and in real life, not just in his mind, whether or not pheros had anything to do with it.
As I said at the top of the post, yeah I’ve picked up strippers, had a couple of em thinking that they were living with me and even married one. WHAT ABOUT YOU?
And by the way, Steve didn’t pay a penny for PUA training or to hang out with the gurus he mentioned.
Kingy, I don’t spend any money on PUA coaching, boot-camps, or anything else. I did originally, a long time ago, buy David D and Mystery ebooks, but the buck (;)pun intended) stopped there.
It’s all good! I spend a lot of time with the Gurus I mentioned, but not everybody is as fortunate as I am. On a side note: Last month when I was in San Diego, I met this girl who told me to go to Rehab at the Hard Rock. The place was amazing and I ran into a friend, Neil Straus, the guy who wrote that book “The Game.” We’re at rehab and he mentions that the baretnder is super-hot. When she sees me she gets a huge smile and says to me that she was sorry she had to leave so early, but didn’t want to wake me. Neil looks over at me and says, have you been in rehab long? I never remember much about what happens at rehab, but I always end up with someone elses sandals.
Oh yeah, back to my suggestions about peacocking. I didn’t see it as a rant at all. I wanted to add my point and as such I always feel if you have something to say you should say it. With that in mind, I’m not really sure how you came to the conclusion that was a rant, rather than a line of communication I was making an effort to get you, and others involved in. I am sorry that you did not see it that way.
On the other hand “I am” the admin of the site and there is no need to change the venue of this thread. I can understand the amazing loyalty to the forum the members have and their interest in protecting the value of such, but I like controversy. Who wants to live in a world where everything is wonderfull. Contrast is good for the soul. Without contrast we really wouldn’t have anything to base our likes and dislikes on. Not to mention, with some more feedback and other ideas, picking up “hot women” whether they are strippers or models is the goal of many men on this forum. In essence (lol another pun) pheromone usage is another forn of peackocking.
Personally I think your posts would garner more merit if they were based more on teaching, rather than short challenges without dialogue on why and how to do something. Challenges get people out of their boxes and pushing their limits which is good. However, why not explain what the concept is first, how it works, why it works, how to use it and then offer a challenge.
It’s like me saying hey everybody, go to a club, peacock yourself with a satin purple shirt and leopard skin pants and soround yourself with hot women. I challenge you and unless you’ve done it don’t argue!
It doesn’t work! To me there is no value and therefore its not a valid challenge. Anyone can tell someone to go do something, but teaching them why and how and then marveling in their developmnet, now that’s the real challenge. Maybe it’s me, but I like when I leave others with more value than when I meet them.
With that in mind, keep posting, but I have my own challenge for you. If you are going to suggest something you could at least explain the concept behind it and add a personal example of success (you know, a DHV story). You see, the theory behind PUA is so much more valid in everyday personal develpment than just pick-up itself. Teaching others is a admirable path to choose, but in doing so it comes with great responsibillity. Just remember that most members on this forum know very little about seduction because this is, after all, a pheromone forum.
Shit-Tests always amaze me just how easy it is to ensnare reactive people. Every time I ever fall for one, it is always a valuable lesson. More often than not, it is a wake up call, to come down off my mountain of self-worth and realize, there’s always another opportunity for growth through knowledge. If these posts piss you off, or make you angry, you are being reactive. You’ve failed the shit-test!
Don’t knock yourself my friend. Your opinion is not small at all. You offer value and speak from truth and that is that is never small. Style is also not the original PUA, nor is Mystery, or anyone else in that book. David D followed Ross Jeffries, who followed someone before him, who followed Don Juan, who followed Jesus, who all followed Captain CaveMan (the original PUA)
Your 100% right on about finding what works for you. It takes mad field work. Anyone can tell you to do something and make incredibly valid points on how and why it works for them, but only you will know if it works for you. Its very important to push your comfort levels and get outside your box. A little uncomfortable is OK as long as you can use it, then in which case, its no longer uncomfortable. Its an oxymoron at its core!
This past summer, I got to talking with Kevin Feng for a while This was before PUA season two aired so I couldn’t tell anyone anything about it, but he is such a laid back down to earth guy. I mean you couldn’t pick him out of any crowd, except BANG! His personality will blow you away. This guy doesn’t need props, this guy is just himself, but that is what is so cool. He is all pasion!
I’ll get into it a little more another time. I can see its already almost 2:00 a.m. and I have a friend that just got back from school tonight. I miss her and really want to go see her, so next time.
In time this will all be revealed. Yeah I will look you up in Philly next time I’m there. Unless of course Bella has me handcuffed again
Or, if we can’t exercise enough self-restraint to not respond to trolls (as this post of mine does) perhaps the mods can do us a favor and just lock the thing down.
You’re confused because you’re just not getting the point. For someone who claims to be a PUA instructor, you’re very reactive.
Oh and when I do go to the UK I’ll be hanging with Gem and PheroQuirk. I don’t do pick-up as a cock-fight, I do it because I love women and respect them enough to want to share a piece of my awesome self with them.
I read somewhere that the best way to talk to beautiful young women is to get them involved in discussions about former PBS kiddie show host Mister Rogers. Evidently, the mere memory of Mister Rogers invokes in women the kind of warm, gooey feelings that PUAs look to capitalize on. Plus, there’s that whole subtext of the little choo-choo train going through the tunnel and out into the imaginary world of make-believe.
Works especially well with the girls who yearn for a father figure.
Without contrast we really wouldn’t have anything to base our likes and dislikes on. Not to mention, with some more feedback and other ideas, picking up “hot women” whether they are strippers or models is the goal of many men on this forum. In essence (lol another pun) pheromone usage is another forn of peackocking.
