Ok so instant sexy makes me feel sexy, act sexy. I get plenty of heads to turn but no one wants to act on it. Is there a pheromone that gives guys the balls to talk to you? I wish I knew what they were thinking, cuz they just gaze for the longest time. My friend who was wearing nothing was bubbly and bouncy and got guys to check her up and down AND talk to her.
–Really annoyed at men 
as I see it, from a guys perspective, if you are too sexy, then we might stare, and be in awwe, but probably are to afraid to approach you, because we become very wary creatures around very hot ones. Where as your friend who is bubbly and giggly, probably more inviting, it wouldn’t be like aproaching a super model with her. I don’t know what to use for pheromones, but I hope that helps.
They are probably shy.
Another thing, if the woman does not smile back at me (after I have smiled at her), even I might not approach her…
Indeed!
BTW, US guys are lookin for a similar product where women approach us as well 
Visual creatures that we are, sometimes a delicious glance at eyecandy is all we need to be happy. Plus, although most guys window shop, many are in a relationship and not actively buying.
Perhaps it’s because I work on a college campus, but it is not uncommon for women to approach me. Some have been exceptionally bold (e.g., my last 2 GFs). Oddly, they tend to contact me via email or IM followed by phone. The frequency seems to have increased in recent years so I assume women’s roles in courtship are changing (I know I’m not getting cuter)
if a gal doesnt smile back she doesnt deserve you approaching.
doesnt make her a bad person, but its a hint that you will be working for most of her attention which doesnt sound fun at all.
your swimming against the tide, smn1234.
if you dont approach us, we think your not interested.
there are chicks who initiate, but i would be careful; they have practice if their not afraid of rejection.
gals usually want a guy who is confidant and ballsey, complimentative and is secure enough in their manhood that they will not be thinking
“oh if i compliment her she will have the upperhand, she will think this or that, she will think shes better”.
thats a bunch of nonsense.
if guys dont encourage us feel good about ourselves, we dont opt to spend much time with them.
the gals who hook up with the insulters or the ones who treat them poorly have esteem stuff to work on and attract predators in the process.
one day your going to accidentally tell some cute girl you think shes cute and shes going to think of you more than any other guy.
i thought girl watching was a spectator sport.
I really agree with you. I mean I’m looking for an LTR and wish to find somebody who doesn’t have a depression…
It’s a little calculus we do. First we calculate this quantity:
PPIPP - PPDPD
where:
PPI = possible pleasure of the interaction
PP = probability of the pleasure
PPD = possible pain and/or discomfort of the interaction
PD = probability of the discomfort
If it’s > 0 then we come and talk to you. If it’s < 0 we just stare and fantasize.
The PUA techniques are focused on changing the values of PP and PD. Your pheromone usage may influence our estimations of PPI and PPD.
Simple once it’s laid out, isn’t it?
my head just exploded lol
… that was pointless
he he he …
Actually it’s probably just me doing that! (or maybe realizing that I’m doing it)
another case like I mentioned before.. Just saw another girl a few hours ago. Smiled at her just to be friendly, she just looked at me like an angry dog…
Must have a lonely life actually..
Or she’s already taken and lives a full life. I have female friends that complain guys endlessly hit on them and they’ll not interested (married). It seems many PUA wantabes can’t take a hint and need a strong message to send them on their way.
Men stereotypically get anxiety before approaching or just from the mere thought of approaching a woman. In respect to pyschology it is thought to be a form of primitive hardwiring. Humans haven’t evolved in that sense, as in more primitive times talking to the wrong woman could mean death.
The smell of a really attractive female could be enough intimidation alone for some.
any woman who is taken and still has to make the face of an angry dog because BOO FREAKIN HOO guys hit on her all the time and whah that sucks needs to seriously rub her last 2 brains cells together and be appreciative that anyone would bother to look her way.
sometimes guys are just being nice.
guys with their wives holding their hand smile,as do the wives.
OMG does that mean they want a threesome?
OMG does that mean both of them want me???
women that cant get over themselves need to be seen as angry dogs
You got this from Mystery, eh? lol
it’s bull shit
The guy may have mistakenly thought she was responding to him whereas she had a bad day or was lost in her worries.
Ah but even if it is BS, what’s important is the pyschology behind the BS. It in itself may be BS, but the reasoning behind saying so is to put a comforting perspective on the anxiety as a better means to deal with it by giving a false rationale as to why it is there in the first place.
I don’t agree with everything Mystery has to say, a friend of mine lended me a pirated copy of his DVD set. I know, I know, for shame, my soul will burn in eternal rapture for it. I don’t like everything he has to say, and he also comes off as extremely possessive in regards to women. Probably due to fact he has PUA paranoia and fears others like himself capable of stealing his women. Also when he says shit like “Stick your fuckin tongue out” so he can suck on it seems like real douchebag material to me.
Not to mention his T-shirt with his name and logo on it. The “S” in mystery is the
of the Nazi Waffen SS.
I look at some of the stuff he points out, and then I look back on my sucesses that I have had with women. There is a level of congruency between what he discusses and what I did without knowing what it was.