So I recieved my shipment last week Friday. I used the Instant Sexiness on the weekend. I only used one spray to experiment. I did have a lot of me talking and looking at me. Which is nice to experience. So I met this guy and we hung out on friday and Saturday night. Sunday I did not wear the phermone and he like totally was distant. So I like the attention but if I were to meet someone start dating them, the moment I do not use the phermone will he just hate me?
I also purchased instant shine. I started wearing it on Monday to work, only 1 spray. I have been very sleepy and it seems am very invisible. I am not likeing that. I used 2 sprays today and still sleepy but relaxed and I had one co worker just stare at me and the others it doesn’t seem to have an effect. I am thinking shine maybe a product for me to use before I go to sleep at night.
Any feed back would help. I think I am going to try the travel size of instant openness next.
haha, I doubt it. It’s not you don’t produce your own pheromones. Anyways, pheromones like Shine are mainly for ‘getting in the door’ so to speak.
I’m not an expert on the women pheromone products, so you’d have to ask someone else what products to use to make you seem sexier.
Mixing up the pheromone signature is good because if you wear the same thing all the time, it could cause the person to become accustomed to it and sort of blank it out. So he was probably distant because he was confused that your signature changed so drastically, which is a good thing.
Also, when people are comfortable with you once, they remember it, and they expect to be comfortable the next time they see you. Jasmin has spoken about the fact that if you wear pheros around people, their perception of you will shift over time.
I received instant shine about two weeks ago and I haven’t had a lot of luck with it either! I’ve started off with one spray and progressed to 4 sprays, but still without much result… I think I’m just going to leave it for a few days and try again.
I have read somewhere on the forum that sometimes it may take up to a month before your body is accustomed to the pheromones and then it will mingle with your own scent… maybe it will just take a little time before it kicks it.
Any experienced phero users out there who can offer some advice to why the shine isn’t ‘kicking in’? I am totally lost as what to try next!
A bit off the subject here but I know that it comes with the neroli scent.. but has anyone tried any of the pheromones unscented? Does it still contain a wiff of anything at all?
Pheromones are stinky. As you smell a wide variety of products, you’ll start to be able to distinguish the smell of 'Androstenol from TAA from androstadienone, etc, under the neroli scent. The pheros in Shine smell kind of sharp and oniony. Instant Female Magic smells like goat piss (so says hubbie). I really like the smell of 'Androstenol but yeah, it’s a human smell.
Ordering unscented isn’t advisable if you’re just getting comfortable with pheros … wait until you get enough experience with them to know what kind of reactions to look for, and the confidence to use things that might smell pretty weird. The regular scented products are designed to work best with the cover scents they come with.
No he wont hate you if you dont wear mones. He will probably notice the change in phero signature but he wont be aware of it. As Laurie mentioned this is probably why he was distant but he shouldnt remain distant.
I have never heard of shine making anyone sleepy right away. Some have reported they get sleepy after a few hours of use. Are you getting sleepy after wearing it for a few hours or in the first hour of use? You can try spraying it to the back of your head and see if that helps with the sleepiness. This way your not breathing it in.
I have some in unscented and they defiantly have a scent. They work just the same as the scented products for me. I agree with Carrie you should wait till you know what each product does for you until you order unscented. I know alot of people dont like the neroli scent and they do offer other scent options other then that.
I have read in the forum somewhere that sometimes pheromones take a while before the scent mingles with your own. Sometimes it may take up to a month before you see the full results. Maybe it’ll take a while before it kicks in properly…
I got my instant shine about 2 and half weeks ago and have varied from 1 spray to 4 sprays but I still haven’t seen much results with it yet. can any of the more experienced ladies help me out on what to try next? I am at a total loss… I spray mainly on wrists, chest and neck areas but not having a lot of luck!
For me, Shine is subtle and is at its best mixed with other “social/friendly” mones such as alpha and/or beta androstenol. Also, for it to be effective, your persona and appearance must complement or reinforce your mone signature. So if you put forth the effort to sparkle–be friendly, witty, smile a lot, etc.–the mones will put a good finish on it and make you even more attractive. If you do nothing–melt into the office decor–no amount of Shine or IH or whatever will make much difference.
Using mones is similar to learning to play a musical instrument. The finest guitar can’t sound a single note unless you learn how to play it, and that takes considerable effort just to be halfway decent.
Gegogi is absolutely correct. If you act introverted/quiet/shy, Shine will not help you much. Pheromones are meant to ENHANCE your personality, not create a whole new one.
can any of the more experienced ladies help me out on what to try next? I am at a total loss… I spray mainly on wrists, chest and neck areas but not having a lot of luck!