if a girl is a bitch without provacation…shes playing the game
if a girl doesnt return your call or even answer the phone..she playing the game (before sex,lol)
if a girl behaves unlike someone would at the grocery store… shes playing the game
if she suddenly finds you fascinating but she doesnt know you…shes playing the game
if she appears smitten and doesnt know you…yep.
if she is giggling with her girlfriends and then wants to take off with you, your going to be what they talk about tomorow. better make it good.
^^^ What SHE said multiplied by a billion! ^__________^
..and watching them play with you guys, just like a cat does with a wee mouse - is kinda fun for us gals who do NOT resort to messing with your minds, or other things… ^_~
Ail 
You’ve been watching when you bar tended, weren’t you ..
That was funny, and matter of fact, quite accurate. Sending mixed signals usually causes receiving mixed signals. We can do it, watch it, or do something about it, such as sending straight signals.
There’s no “Quite accurate” about it. Lor is bang on the money.
Try to find the thread I posted in, where I take everybody step-by-step through “The Man” and I commentating on a typical “Girl trying to attract guy at the bar” scenario.
It’s like a bloody machine, it’s such a well-oiled operation to some women!
Ail
An option for a person is to choose to say what they want, not send mixed signals intended to keep escape doors open.
But they have to know what they want first …
Hi Everybody traderneil Sincity
LOR I like your posts and you are correct Tequila Helps (So does Vodka)
LOR I have a female friend who is a Bartender,and we talk,she says that between work,her kids and going to the gym that she has no time for a social life …She is not married…but can’t make the time for social acquaintances…
I also talk to many other girls and several of them say between school,and studies they don’t have enough time for a social life either…so I know about womens busy schedules
Guys also have full plates, worring about work, paying Mortgages,Car Payments,Bills etc,so maybe these pressures might are weighing them down and be keeping them from paying attention to womens cues.
So with these type of concerns its easy to understand how people miss their cues…SO LADIES GIVE US GOOD… CUES NOT FALSE POSITIVES
I met a girl last night I never saw before,30 good looking she got in the Hot Tub I said hi she said hi with attitude. I turned my back on her and after a few minutes she started talking to my back…I turned around and started to chat,then she was telling me eveything about everthing,I walked over to her said Hi my name is Neil and offered a handshake…she liked that.. gave me her hand and said Hi Im Michelle…We spoke for about 20 minutes she told me her life story,and I had to leave the Hot Tub.
I took a cool shower and went into the Steam Room and there she was waiting to say Goodbye to me…She offered me her hand again I took it and helped her step down,and then she left and was gone…it was nice, she is a Nurse from out of town,told me where she worked and how to reach her…(btw I was wearing mx 131&143 three sprays of each)
I was just being myself but I feel her suggestions were for me to follow up, she liked my style and confidence,I believed she was interested in me and if I follow up maybe I’ll win the prize …traderneil Sin City
I’d take those as pretty good cues = “I need to know more about where you’re coming from to make even a slight commitment to re-prioritize my life”.
My interpretation of THAT would be that it’s a genuine positive.
Chris.