Is a314 really too intimidating and standoffish for dating?

What do you think? Is it best left for getting ahead in occupation?

When it comes to seducing women is it best left out?

Today I wore 2 sprays 4x shine, 2 sprays 2x ammo, and 1 spray a314 and I was seen as a Phero God! I never saw so many positive hits. But when I asked my SO how she described my ACTIONS she said I was rather bossy.

I’m starting to think around alpha girls a314 may have a place in shutting up their shit testing, around beta girls something light like IS or IS AMMO may be better.

What are your views?

I really don’t want to date the senators daughter. I just want to be seen as masculine and confident , and sometimes I am at a loss when it comes to conversation with women which is why A314 works so well, the conversation is basically as man telling them what to do. Problem is it can be standoffish and cause fights too. Nothing like arguing on a date because your bossy. If I don’t take the lead and come across as in charge it seems the a314 vibe gets confused, so acting like a sap while wearing it doesn’t help either.

dsouza

Well here’s my thoughts.
Even though the spray (the B version at least) and the oil have the same concentration of mones, the diffusion rates are quite different. I don’t know about the weather where you are but the sprays were designed to overcome overly slow diffusion in cold winter months.
Given diffusion differences one spray of version B is like 2-3 drops of oil. Version A is 50% stronger than version B so it might be TOO much a314 vibe at once. Add in 2 sprays of double strength ammo and None od is easier to achieve (though I doubt it in this case with that much shine to buffer it.)

Personally I would reserve A314 in spray form for colder climates and/or times of year, and for situations where you need a farther range (example would be giving a presentation to a room full of people) My experience has been the spray can reach a bit farther and thus you have a better shot of effecting people towards the back of the room)

That said, I’ve gotten good results with A314 as an attractant. However I’ve actually gotten MORE shit testing (at least in the early stages) as I’m giving off such a strong alpha impression that women seem more inclined to make sure I’m as strong as I seem personality wise.

No. I’ve gotten laid off of it on a first date recently (~3 hours) and will continue to get laid off of it.

If you’re concerned about the aura, add a social like IS/IO/IH. Or down-calibrate. Compliment them more.

I’m not really too worried about the effects of any of these colognes other than a potential OD. I use TuTH and NPA on a daily basis.

You WANT girls to think you’re HOTT ASAP. Why wouldn’t you want her thoughts to be sexual? You get laid way faster if you get her horny by talking about sex or get her thinking about sex.

Your viewpoint is good. Whereas many here believe in adapting ones mones signature to a womans incrementing emotions for you going all out and appearing sexual from the start sets the pace especially if that’s what you want. The thing though is that you have to be in decent shape. i find until i am in acceptable shape I can’t walk around like a crazed horndog cause no woman would want sex with an out of shape older man.

The reason i don’t stick to one mone like edge all the time is because I OD easily. I need to alternate products to avoid the boredom that comes with using the same one all the time. Its like clothes , if I don’t change my outfits daily I feel boring. Not just into clean clothes but different looking clothing, sometimes jeans, sometimes dressy, etc etc

I find wearing edge to bars, and wearing IS, ammo, a314 to the malls for shopping gets me great service and I appear to be more confident. Also the change in signatures between enviroments really wake up my nervous system. Kind like driving in rain one day and snow the next , you are alert , compared to the same old all the time.

As for a314 the aura is that of power. i do get hits mostly from alpha people like those in customer service/sales etc.

I find a sexy mix with a little a314 sets the pace for me. 1 spray of a314 is the max I use.

dsouza

I too get more shit testing but at the same time I find it easy to be congruent with a314.

Let me ask you this if your on a date and say lets sit over here, and the woman says no over there, with a314 do you then retaliate and say trust me over here is much nicer and risk starting arguments because you seem to bossy?

Or do you say lets sit over here and when the woman says lets sit over there you say ok and avoid the shit testing but at least you tried to take the lead?

The reason i ask is because congruency is important but no date is fun if it turns into a negotating session.

This is why I ask either is a314 best left for occupation, or do you add some tidbits in to soften the harshness of the bossy character it lends itself too? if you do add in some tricks to calm women down please share them with us. :smiley:

dsouza

I’d have to Disagree with Ya… I have Average Looks (at Best), I’m 5"10 and 380 Pounds (Yikes), Granted I Don’t Look my Age (39) or Weight (A 60+ Inch Chest Helps)… People Guess Me at 27 Years Old and 250 Pounds… I’ve Found that Looks REALLY Don’t Matter if You Know How to Speak to Women in General… I’m Not Talking about Being a PUA or Game Either… Just Earning Alittle Trust and Respect from People… Show then that You a Worthy Man and That is How they Will See You… A314 and TUTH can Work as a Combo with Ease… The A314 Buffers the TUTH and it has Worked Well… As People Keep Saying it’s About Being Congruent… I’m Kinda Lucky as that Combo almost Seems Natural to be I just Put it on and Go… So it Might Just be Me…

Funny thing is this is an old standby combo. In fact the first that androtics came out with! I will try it sometime too!

dsouza

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