I have tested some of the female pheromones just to see what happens and have posted in my journal if you are interested in seeing what happened. I have found IS/B and MX274 to work the best.
I do not have any experience with COPS so I can not comment there. Also Lillian has used TUTH with interesting results and I will post a link of her journal so you can check out. TUTH might be an option to help turn you on and get things going in the bedroom.