I don’t want to sound like a total pig. I am also an advocate of safe sex so remember keep it wrapped…
The reason I am writing this is that I am tall and in shape. I am outspoken and confident. Women are always trying to trap me into a relationship.
I’m trying to keep women at a distance where I can have sex with them but just keep things casual. The problem for me is that they almost always want more.
Me being the nice guy that I am -I feel like I’m often swindled into a relationship. Women will often put up this front that their feelings are hurt if you don’t commit to them when they tell you too.
What are your Alpha strategies/suggestions for dealing with this?
Use allot of A314 (~ 10 drops) to make them scared to ask you for a relationship
(they will think that they are not good enough for you)
the best way to deal with this is to talk before the actual part..
tell her that this is a one night only… or just a sexual relationship
… this worked for me…
but sooner or later they will get you…
There are a lot of reports stating that A314 make women possesive and jelous, I have definetly tested it and it’s very true.
Instant Jerk could do something, high -none and copulins can may her think you are a gigolo and see other women, this might indeed atract them but it can help to avoid her thinking about being able to get you into a serious relationship.
Anyway IMHO the best thing is to talk it directly and clearly, what I suppose you have already done
No ladies in my harem just yet. I’m holding off on the instant jerk in favor of (don’t laugh) pure honesty. Yeah, when a “relationship” gets to the point where the woman wants a relationship… I will just tell her about my way…
And (left unsaid) “it’s either my way or the highway.”
Perhaps you’ll try this thought experiment:
What would make a woman want to have a friendly, comfortable and sexual relationship with you, but steer clear of trying to … escalate … the relationship to marriage?
or
When we know something feels good and is satisfying, what makes us want “just this much” instead of wanting “all we can get”?
or
What, when we try to hold on to it and to guarantee that we will have it around for the rest of our lives (i.e., to marry it), turns out to ruin the qualities we most enjoy about it?
Then perhaps you will frame your language about the relationships differently. I would begin by avoiding the statement you made “No ladies in my harem just yet” and instead make an affirmation about how and why women want to experience the pleasure of being a visiting guest in your harem…
You might at some point even want to try using comparative language in compliments: “Your lips are sweet, almost as incredible as X’s, but your breasts are #1.” Speaking openly about other women as a part of your relationship, once the FRAME is established, might arouse jealousy, but it is consistent.
And if the journey she’s on with you doesn’t lead to marriage, where does it lead? Think that through…
BTW, AFAIK the only problem with instant jerk/synthetic cops is that it’s going to smell consistent … like one, same ladyfriend instead of like five or twentyfive different consorts.
If you establish an early frame of not being monogamus in the relationships and actively go out and meet women and introduce them to each other and simply not hide the fact it will work just fine
perhaps you won’t get as much success with every single women but you will still get plenty of them that go into it with the intention of winning you over in the end, but then get caught up in your lifestyle
although I should also note that this kind of thing isn’t suggested for someone thats not real savvy with the lady folks as it cuts down your overall success rate with women but if you have enough success to manage the loss you get exactly what you want
First of all, she’s using manipulation tactics against you. Never fall for this shit, women do it all the time. They want to test the strength of your character, and if you fail their tests by giving them what they want, you lose, and they win, and then they have the power and control and keep you tied down just the way they want.
What you can do to win is not comply, in a calm, self-assured way, with ANY of their ridiculous attempts to manipulate you to get what they want.
SImply say something like, “Listen Sarah (whatever her name is), I really enjoy being around you, but I do not want commitment. Nothing you do or say is going to change my mind, so let’s just enjoy spending time with each other and leave it at that. If you can’t handle that, then we should stop seeing each other.”
Most women, if they really dig you will stick around. And the ones that don’t weren’t worth it in the first place.
Just remember, you’re the fucking man, and she’s the women. You make the decisions, you take charge, and she’ll follow you around like a docile, playful little kitty kat.
