Ciao! Sorry for the cheesy/odd title guys but couldn’t quite think of anything else at almost 3am. Im chatty so this intro post will be long- please stick with me and give me feedback please
Joined this forum a couple of months ago and have been intrigued but pheromones and the products for years - hopefully will pull the trigger and get some products soon. Think of myself as a global citizen but a US resident who moved here as an adult but my current occupation takes me all over the world (except Asia as of now)- 30-ish, attractive (so I’m told-usually by guys who are unavailable or not my type), female and to be honest a little confused by my love life right now.
Typically its not something that bothers me too much but when I do think about it I always thought my this age I would have it all figured out. Heres the deal - why am I not attracting the kind of guys Im attracted to in my head (athletic/fit, successful, somewhat serious and spiritual, family oriented and fun but good not ‘players’)… seems like lately Im connecting with guys who are the class clown, joker, flirt, bad boy etc..theyre fun and they want to have fun (aka a fling) but theyre definitely not the kind of guy I would like to be with so it doesnt go anywhere- Id say its been about 5 years since I actually dated a guy who I could see a future with. On the one hand I recognize that Im probably putting something out there that attracts these guys but I cant figure it out. One male friend told me Im probably too picky say no to too many guys but when I thought back I definitely havent turned down any potentially good mates; another guy suggested I need to be more confident about what I want in a relationship- again how does that help if I dont even meet men Id like to date?
Anyways I figure I should take the proverbial bull by the horns and try something different- try to meet some different kinds of people in general and maybe within that circle I’ll meet the kind of men Im interested in. Theres a saying that to get different results you need to try something different so Im necessarily not looking to get ‘hit on’ more per se but just something to boost my confidence and networking skills especially with men- based on my research (Im a Thomas Edison fan I reckon instant sexiness would be good? thoughts?
Sounds like you are seeking perfection, this man in your head does not exist its a fairy tale. Just like many guys would love to have a woman with a Barbie Doll figure, who is a certified massage therapist that has a degree in culinary arts, never says no to oral sex and will never let her man leave the couch during a ball game to get his own beer. (Not in this lifetime! She doesn’t exist either)
Anytime you pair up successful, fit and family oriented you are asking for a lot. It has been my observation that the hotter the guy is the less likely he is to be a one woman kind of man, hence why you keep running into players.
Might I suggest you compromise a little and place your priorities in the more important aspects of what a quality man is measured by; if you insist on having a chiseled Adonis who looks good and is successful-which I assume means has a high salary income? You will be disappointed every time. I don’t condemn you for it and I don’t write this with any malice, it is purely observation from life experiences in my neck of the woods. Others may very well have different impressions but truly think about what is important to you in the man you want to share life with.
Yes, IS/a or /b are ‘built’ for the purpose of attraction. Now, the sexy kittenish vibe of IS/b or the sexy, domineering, vibe of IS/a would depend on who you are attracting, your attitude and your body language. Mones are a tool in your social interactions and a effective one for sure. HOW effective will depend on how you use it. I think that this Along with IShine would be a great combo for you to use to get your hand’s ‘wet’ with mones.
If you look at my sig below, Intro to Mones and how to know what are hits, you’ll begin to understand WHAT Mones can do for you and what YOU have to put into the interactions to make it work.
Thanks for the info guys..I appreciate it and the thanks for the GC as well..definitely ordering - you might have a point re: looking for perfection russmatthess but hey! it seems like a better strategy than aiming or expecting too low..guess I need to find that balanced/realistic range.
I always thought my this age I would have it all figured out. Heres the deal - why am I not attracting the kind of guys Im attracted to in my head