Ok here’s the deal. There’s this woman that I work with she’s 25, when I first started working at my job she was on maternally leave, but I say about a few days before I got back my male co workers started talking about how cute she is, and what not naturally I was interested, when I saw her I thought oh ok she is cute not like a 10/10 cute but I say maybe an 8.5, she’s tall a little chubby (which is natural since she just pushed out a baby), and has a very pretty smile, and she has a pretty ok body (especially her ass), but anyway after reading Jasmin’s post on to tell if a woman is interested in you I realized she was interested in me. I’ve noticed in the break room she would stare at me constantly, even a co worker has noticed it and brought it to my attention but due to some insecurity issues (I was a late bloomer) I shrugged it off. Whenever a co worker/friend picked at me she would defend me and one time when I was late for work and had to catch a bus a co worker told me she told our boss she would come and pick me up and give me a ride here which I thought was very interesting since I barely knew her and she just got back from leave several months later she stares just not as much. We hardly talk, we just say hey to each other and keep moving. A friend of mine whose she’s interested in (by the way every female at the job wants to smash this dude, if he wears pheromones I would say he wears Alpha 314, IJ, IG, IS, TUTH, IO, and IH seriously he can talk to anyone and they spill EVERYTHING and they love to feel up on him, and he’s an asshole but the coolest man around and will seriously go out his way to help someone in need he’s the man) told me when she thought I was going to be working with her she was looking forward to it, and she got upset when they moved someone else there instead of me. He also told me she’s insecure because she just had a baby and she doesn’t have the body she used too (and I heard she had a great body before she had a baby) so she’s questioning if she’s still attractive. I like to believe I have honest eyes I can look at someone and see the truth I did feel an insecurity vibe coming from her, and me also bein insecure I know the feeling all to well to notice when I see it, and I feel her insecurity brings out my insecurity so I tend to avoid her, and vice versa. I also tend to look at people for what they really are if I see you’re insecure I will have an “I know you’re insecure” look on my face, and people tend to avoid eye contact with me because of it. The only time I can withhold eye contact is if I don’t look at them like that, but thats only for a short period because eventually I will know you’re insecure and look at you with that look. I’ve been wearing IS for the past week, and it’s giving me noticeable results nothing major. I have noticed if I wear it around her she smiles more often and tends to walk close to me like she did this morning after we left our morning meetings. Whenever I wear IS I can talk to her I feel confident enough to talk to her. I feel I’m a natural IJ I can feel the jerk in me, and I’m only a jerk to certain women (who by the way seem to love it I don’t know why) long story short I need to know what products can I use that can seriously help me become close to her. She’s mixed, and she’s 25. I don’t want to screw her…yet. I just need to establish a good rapport with her then I can handle the rest. Once I can be close to her I can get her in bed. What products can I use for this situation. I don’t think she’s lost interest she just put the ball in my court and is waiting for me to make a move and until then she’s going to keep herself busy with other men. She has given me hints to liking me or finding me attractive I just didn’t act due to my insecurities. A little help please?
Ummm, hold on cowboy. Is she taken/married? There must be a father to that child she just had, so if so is she taken? If not, do you really want to pursue someone who just had a baby? Not saying that it’s wrong, but if you just plan on screwing her and not settling that’s messed up. However, if she is not taken and you just don’t want to screw her than that’s not too bad, the rest is up to you in being able to handle the responsibility of someone’s baby if you do settle with her. So think about the consequences before making your move. So if she’s taken don’t touch that, why would you want drama?
By the way, are you sure she’s interested in you? Jasmin’s thread is filled with good insight, but girls ALWAYS play with their hair just to play with it, so when guys say that they saw girls playing with their hair everywhere and blame it on the pheromones that seems kind of iffy to me because all girls do this for no reason at all at times. So just make sure she is interested in you, instead of thinking that she’s interested in you just because she’s doing some stuff posted in a thread about IOI.
No I’m positive she’s interested. I can tell by the way she looks at me sometimes after we’re done talking she’ll hold eye contact with me while walking away with a sexy smile on her face. As far as sex goes I’ll cross that bridge if I get there but right now my goal is just to better my relationship with her get the shields down and start bein close friends if sex comes out of it then I’ll deal with it but as far as settling with her, and her being with the kid’s father quick frankly thats not something you need to be worried about. I understand where you’re coming from I really do but I’m sure there’s guys here who had sex with a woman with kids and turns out thats all it was just sex. My goal for RIGHT NOW is just to better my relationship with her something that’ll makes us more comfortable and relaxed the interest is there I just need to play on it with the right pheromones meaning what to use on her, and since she’s 25 what products will work best for women of that age. Oh and by the way she had the baby almost 2 years ago
She just had a baby, assuming she’s single she’s likely in a state where she’s looking for a solid reliable guy, both consciously and instinctively. Assuming you aren’t looking for a nail and bail (speaking as a man raised by a single mother…don’t) and you actually want to just take things slow and see what develops then I’ll bet dollars to peso’s that a high rone and beta nol mix is the best way to go. Either IG or A314 (I’m leaning toward IG) coupled with Instant Honesty. You’ll give off the vibe of a mature, reliable, likeable guy with some status and value that’s very easy to open up to and feel a connection with.
I too was raised by my mother not because my dad nailed and bailed he was just an ass, but no thats not my intentions I just want to grow close with this women and see what happens I stated in my post that if I wanted sex I can normally shift it in that direction once I get close to her, I just didn’t want guys suggesting things that will make her only see me sexually maybe I should of stated that more clearly in my post. Unfortunately IG, and A314 is out of stock (well except for the A314 spray not sure how thats going to help though) is there any products that I can buy now whether Androtics or LS that can help?
If she’s already interested, which she seems to be, you may not even need 'mones. Just ACT like a solid reliable guy, who is interested in her as a person as well as interested in her as an attractive woman, and you should be set I’d say.