Haha, as much as I’d like to beat the crap out of all of them I doubt that would make a good image for me when other guys wanted to date me lol
LOL! KA&TN is not always physical aggression. It is an attitude!
Heh.
Diane
No MX274 has P74 in it so get one or the other. I have both and love them but I dont use them together.
Tisha
In my experience, ladies who find themselves saying that they find men constantly telling them “I’m not looking for a relationship right now” are in that position because they do not hold their own value high enough.
It is very rare for a guy to actually not be looking irregardless of the girl.
Value is a large part of the science of attraction - guys can sense it when a girl thinks they are of high value. If a guy meets a girl and senses that the girl holds herself in high esteem, then the guy feels justified in wanting her for more than just sex. If the guy feels like the girl thinks she is lucky to be around the guy, we often devalue that girl… which inevitably leads to the “I’m just not looking for a relationship right now” conversation.
Make the guys in your life feel special that you deem them valuable enough to be around (because you won’t just date anybody) and watch those guys scramble to lock you down.
Well this thread is a little old, but I was wondering if things had changed for you since your last post?
I’m just reading peoples’ posts gleaning information as I wait for my first delivery (today by 430pm according to the tracking number).
I saw where you said you sometimes start dating guys you are friends with. As a guy who has been put into the “just friends” category more often than I would care to admit, I can tell you that once put there, many men give up on trying to change that status with a given friend. Maybe you have more guy friends than you know that are interested in you?
Also, what type are you attracted too? As is often the case for everyone, the type of person that will treat us as we want and desreve doesn’t come in the package we like. I’m at the bad end of that stick right now 
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Just my 2 cents. Hopefully you’ve found someone good.
Not really. I have talked to 2 of the guys that rejected me. For now both are just my friends.
Yeah, my guy friends often keep trying to get with me. Sometimes obvious, sometimes subtle. I have a few that gave up all together. It’s sad because their such good friends, but I’m just not attracted to them. I wish I could just attract myself to them so I could have a good guy friend as my bf.
I’m attracted to the guys who are more alpha male, tho I am mostly turned off by arrogance. Ignorance in guys is also sort of a turn off, but if they are nice I can look past that. I love a sense of humor and it’s weird, but I like guys who are a little bit nerdy. Good looking, but nerdy. Those who love video games, (because I love them too) maybe watch cartoons, enjoy electronics. Basically someone who likes what I like, including martial arts (a guy who can defend himself, the right way, is very sexy), but I also like that balance. I like a guy who will be talkative (because I lack in that sometimes), confident, energetic, and motivated. Motivation is the biggest thing.
Theres a guy I’ve been dating who fits most of these qualities except motivation. He procrastinates a lot with his school which becomes bothersome. So I’m not sure where that’s good. I don’t even know if I really like him yet. 
Well that’s my story as of late. Sorry if it was a lot.
At least you didn’t say the bad boy type!!
Doesn’t sound like you’re asking for that much really. From what I’ve read on these forums keep up with the instant openess and honesty. Maybe that will get him to talk more?
Yeah it’ll get him to talk more, but which and who?
Thanks for the advice tho
As the old saying goes, “Looks attract men while personality is what keeps them.”
Kudos for you though for going after what you want instead of waiting for it till you get old. In this 21st century good thing no longer comes to those who does nothing but wait. 
Errr , doesnt this also apply to women? I mean the key is both men and women want those whom we admire not those who admire us.