Hi
Now we see many hot women with average lookin guys, some below average and some lets not mention, i used to think tht was only cause those guys had the £££££££££$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ but since ive joined this site forum, its got me thinking maybe personallity attracts to some more than jus great looks, well wht is the case in this forum, do women judge there attraction to the guys on looks or there personallity, also do they go for muscle guys or normal built guys
IMO, being average in the looks department is okay, but if you back it up with a great personality then that can really enhance your looks. Girls don’t like it when you look really handsome, but find out that you have a nasty personality. The initial attraction part is tough at first for an average guy I suppose.
For the muscular guys vs. normal built guys, it’s all preference (but trends appear here and there). According to my Korean teacher, girls in Korea prefer a guy who is skinny vs. your average/muscular guy.
With confidence, most any “ugly” guy can cut right through that first difficult moment. At that point, it’s personality all the way.
Girls like good-looking guys. They like tall guys. They like very fit guys. However, it is only a few of 100 other parts. Go work out and concentrate on ur well-being instead of what women think. Plus, confidence, intelligence, trustworthiness, and a lot more attributes to attraction too
A thing that radiates from people is their inner motivation for the things they do.
A muscular athletically built guy with a six pack that does it for his own health, energy levels, quality of life, or even sports performance will be incredibly attractive to women.
Another guy equally well built but who does so because he see’s how successful other muscular men are with women and he wants some too will come across as desperate and needy as any nerd cliche you can think of and lose attraction fast.
Got a fancy car? if you got it for yourself because you’re a car buff and appreciate a finely tuned engine and the feel of the car hugging the road when you make a sharp turn then the car will work as a chick magnet.
Get a fancy car because you want a chick magnet and women will assume you’re compensating for shortcomings real or perceived.
Basically any stereotypical cliche you can think of as being something superficial that’s attractive to women actually can be…if it comes from the right place.
Wealth, muscles, a handsome face anything. So yeah, dress nice, get a great car, work out etc but do it for you because if you do it for them, then they know you define yourself by them and they can’t respect you for that.
The main thing is, whatever you do, do it for yourself and your own reasons and women will find it attractive and respect you for having a defined identity. Do it with the hopes of attracting women and the approval seeking need will turn women away like nobodies business.
Looks dont really cause attraction they cause attention. They can help get you noticed.
Its personality, compatibility and values that create attraction.
Sexual attraction can come from both of these avenues. Women are more likely to find a average man sexually attractive because we are emotion based. Men are more visual at least until there needs begin to change.
While you do see a lot of hot women with ordinary (in appearance) men this by no way means they are ordinary people. What you probably haven’t noticed is this occurs with men as well. There are some very physically attractive men who are married to ordinary looking women.
Look at Mel Gibsons former wife who has always been dubbed as ordinary.
http://cdn.buzznet.com/media-cdn/jj1/headlines/2009/04/mel-gibson-divorce.jpg
Johnny Depp and his SO
http://dailystab.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/04/johnny_depp_fam.jpg
Hugh Jackmans wife
I also think love changes your perspective as well.
You dont love someone because they are beautiful. They are beautiful to you because you love them.
Tisha
get some A314 to DHV and seem like you are great to women 
