Made a mistake with a mix *Its her time of the month*

The Mix:****
A314 - 2 drops
Ammo 2X V1.01 Akuto - 2 sprays
IO 1x v1.01 Akuto 1 spray
IS 4x Neroli 2 sprays

Application points in same order:*
1 drop behind each ear smeared across jaw line.
1 spray split between wrists, 1 spray on neck
1 spray on neck
2 sprays on hair

Temp / Weather:
42 degrees

Application Time:
7:00 am, picked her up at 7:30 am

Self Effects:
I was feeling really good, real confident and ready to slay her with my scent.

Subjects:
Steeler Girl - Caucasian Female, 29 years
Important - I’m not too worried about too much NONE with this girl. She’s dated White, Hispanic and African-American. She’s into touch macho guys, and right now prefers big black guys…LOL and I’m not one of those.

I go to pick up Steeler Girl and I noticed right away she’s not responding to me really well. We are sitting around her kitchen table talking with another friend and she is only glancing at me intermittently and not laughing a whole lot.

I then excuse myself to go to the rest room and all of a sudden there is a lot of laughter coming from the kitchen, she and her friend are laughing it up and having a good time. I notice tampons out on the counter and empty wrapper in the trash can. I then start counting back from her last period and DOH! it started this morning, which now makes sense as I noted over the weekend er appetite increased and she had been a bit moody.

I come back out to the kitchen and things go back to “normal.” We all get into the car, she proceeds to load up the music on the radio and blasts it and just looks out the car window during our road trip across town.

At one point I made a comment to her about something coming up that she’s excited about and the response I get is…“Oh yeah…so anyway Jenny…” And she proceeds to talk to our friend in the back seat.

One of her favorite songs comes on and its kind of a sad and melancholy one. I reach over to stroke her shoulder and either consciously, or unconsciously while she’s once again staring out the window she moves as close to the door and as far away from me as possible.

Normally when any girl I’m around is going through this time, I layer on the A1. I shoulda been paying attention to the calendar a bit more.

She wanted me to hang out with her all day, I told her that i would rather go home and would see her later. She asked why, I then mentioned and probably shouldn’t have, that it was a bit awkward around her at the moment, but I understood and wasn’t upset. Just give her some space to hang out with her friend.

It wasn’t until later that I realized my mistake in choice of mones. This girl didn’t have any choice but to feel awkward around me with the signal I was putting out…LOL

I did see her later that evening as I promised her youngest I’d take him to the skate park to ride his bike. She made dinner and was extra attentive to me, making sure to keep eye contact etc. I chalked that up more to her wanting not to offend me, or push me away rather than any effect of mones.

Over all, I made a mistake here and can’t blame her for the effects and will repair the damage with some A1 and IS and maybe a bit of P96…LOL

IMPORTANT… FINAL THOUGHTS

I’ve said it in my responses to guys here on the board. When you’re thinking of mixes, think of it as experiences you want to create. Then combine your mones and along with the right attitude, and being congruent with that experience you want to create, go out and do it.

I failed here. I created a more sexual experience during a time when she was thinking about anything and everything but sex. She wanted to hang out with someone she cared for and just feel comfort, and I was coming across like a high school horn dog.

Ya know as I think of mixing to fit a specific situation. I always think what would I have done before using mones to balance out a situation??? Lets say you were 18 and full of natural -none. What did you do around your girl then when she was on her period??? If I was young like 15-18 I would use instant Shine and dial Magnetic. Whatever I could do to tone down my natural -none production and that would probably get you more ass than you could shake your STICK at. I have avoided A1 besides in dial magnetic due to the possibility of it causing depression in other males or myself. I don’t think it’s worth it, but that’s just me.

I do agree that if you know her cycle avoiding -none can be very beneficial to the relationship. Whatever you can do to increase comfort, right!?!?!?!
I am impressed that you take the time to map your targets cycle. I must attract women with erratic cycles, because sometimes it seems like they are having their period for months at a time or on days I wanna get physical…lol :stuck_out_tongue: hmmmm maybe I should start doing this and then CALL them out when it’s not REALLY their time of the month :open_mouth:

the mix you were wearing, I don’t think it is similar to a high school horn dog.

It is highly sexy, but SEXUAL? Maybe, he meant TUTH
? I have made some phero mistakes early on also - wearing something TOO SEXUAL.
I attracted a few girls WITHOUT wearing artifical mones, bt I lost them when I went to sexual with thngs like TUTH, lol

I think IH is better than IO with someone you know somewhat well…

Of course I’m exaggerating, but 2 sprays of 2x Ammo can be a bit overwhelming to someone on their period who is now gonna be ultra sensitive to a variety of things.

And coolkat no I did not mean TUTH. I typed Ammo because thats what I wore. While one is sexy vs sexual when using a general description, you cannot use a general description in any and all cases and examples. 4 sprays of Ammo, or 2 sprays of 2X could be “od” in this situation, but next week when she’s starting her ovulation phase, it might be just what the Dr. ordered.

And the reason I chose IO is because it was an all Akuto mix with the exception of IS.

About that time of the month is that some women handle it differently from others. From the outwardly hostile types, to the ladies who hold thier discomfort to themselves… I’ve learned that comforting rather than aggravating is key, so a glass of water and a tylenol brought to her by me, and a phero that relaxes and comforts will keep me in a good light and avoiding the flying knives.

Theres nothing sexy about that time of the month, unless of course, you like Minestrone soup…:roll_eyes:

DAMN I’m eating that as we speak :wink:

haha and ooohhh… yuck.

From my limited experience with her, a bit over 3 months, I’ve seen her handle it rather well. She does become distant and quick to aggravation, but never just hostile, at least not yet…LOL.

So yeah, next time I hang with her its A1, P96 and some IS…maybe a bit of IH in there.

You know I appreciate and respect everything you write. You seem to be spot on in your assessments of situations you are in and others that you read. However based on what I have read from you in the past, I’m having a hard time believing that this mix would bother her that much while on her period, especially if she likes big black guys normally.

There seem to be 2 variables. One her time of the month and two her friend. You seem to have discounted her friend. You leave the room and they begin laughing again. Her friend is gone when you come back and she is attentive and sweet again. Did you wipe the mones off?

How does her friend look? Was there a possibility of tension? Maybe she wasn’t feeling very attractive. If her friend is hot then I could see some other potential issues. I’m just saying that there is the possibility that the situation could have occured no matter what you wore. But I don’t know her and I wasn’t there.

But from what I have read of your post in the past, I believe your ability to tend to your girl and empathize with her should have allowed you to change the atmosphere. Maybe you missed something that you shouldn’t have. What was your mindset?

Sorry, but I never said her friend left and didn’t say she was sweet and attentive again…I was saying she was distant and not responding to me very well. I would say stuff and it was like she couldn’t look me in the eye. I’d get a real weird 'yeah," and a look away.
When I left the room she seemed to ease up and was laughing again, and when I returned all the uneasiness returned with it and that’s why I put normal in quotation marks, saying things went back to “normal.” As in the weird normal that was there before I went to the restroom.

Also her friend is not very attractive at all. She’s extremely unattractive, and is often mistaken for a lesbian of the bull dyke variety…very masculine, but actually digs dudes…LOL. So no competition there.

I appreciate your comments, and they do have me analyzing the situation again to make sure I didn’t miss anything.
I still believe her period had 99.9% to do with her behavior. Whether or not the mones had any effect at all is up in the air. But it was the wrong mix to wear around her. I’ve worn more comforting mixes in the past and got her laughing and acting normal within minutes, not that day.

Actually you did say that she was attentive again. That’s the main reason I questioned if it was the mones. That and I wasn’t sure about the AMMO coming off that strong.

You don’t report as much as you use to, so I’m just messing with you. :slight_smile:
So have you used P96 in place of A1 yet to see if it has a similar affect as A1 does for that time of the month?

I misread your question, when you said “when you came back…” I thought you meant directly AFTER the restroom, I just now realized you meant later on that evening.

It could still be the mones, as things could have worn off that day…or it could just be her now acting extra attentive because I pointed out her behavior…hell I don’t know…LOL