Hello all.. I am a 30yo male with a girlfriend. I have average looks, athletic build, and am well groomed. My girlfriend, 29yo, lives with me for past 4 months (we’ve been dating 1 1/2 yrs..). At first, we where having sex at least 2-3 times a week, even sometimes during her period. This gradually became less and less frequent, with her saying things like
1)she never has sex on period(even though we used to),
2)shes not in mood,
3)weve been fighting too much,
4)she needs more emotional connection for sex..
It had gotten to the point where we hadnt had sex in 3 1/2 weeks. And we live togethor. Of course, this make me insecure and wonder if shes cheating. I should also mention she was prescribed the antidepressent “Zoloft” which is known to kill sex drive, so i have been patient with her.. accepting her rejections..
Weve still been getting along and hanging out.. I had been doing everything right on our nights togethor…wine, dinner, movie, foot massage, back massage, conversation, laughter.. but the sex wasnt happening. A little over a week ago i went to the local adult store and got some of those Jo for men pheromones, which is just androstenal (not sure if alpha or beta or both?) I did get some slightly better mood, talkative from her, long french kiss, nothing significant, but i could tell there was something to it.
After researching AndroticsDirect, several other sites, and spending 2 days reading this Pheromonetalk forum, I decided to buy the smaller size sprays of A314b , AMMO, IS, IH, and TUTH. I got my shipment fast, arrived yesterday. Also picked up Dial magnetik body wash since AD doesnt have A1 in products..
So last night my girlfriend was getting off work at 430 and I wanted to take her to Olive Garden and a haunted house for Haloween weekend.
Application: Dial magnetik (A1) body wash, 1 spray A314(b) to chest, 1 spray IS to back of head, rubbing wrists in it, 1 spray IH to top of head, rubbing wrists in it.
Self effects: it seems like even before the IS, I started getting a slight light feeling, almost like a body buzz.. after all three product where applied, there was definately a distinct head buzz, a light cool feeling. (just the feeling not the impairment) After about 15min this feeling wasnt so distracting..
Results: So my girlfriend gets home, we had been arguing some through text during the day. Our original plan was carve pumpkins, eat dinner, and go to a haunted house(she loves Halloween and partly moved here to Dallas because of all the haunted houses)
She gets home as im putting on my new beard cream(my excuse for any news scents she may smell on me) No crazy reaction at first.. she does ask me if she should hurry get changed if im wanting to leave immediately. This may not seem significant, but over the past months, her respect for me had been fading. A few more kisses than normal, better mood. We leave and i say Ill buy dinner if she drives. No argument. She normally argues when i ask her to drive, for whatever reason she can think of. Not this time.
We stop by Target on the way to dinner to pick up dogfood and soap.. I feel like im getting respect hits, but it may be placebo effects or general self confidence boost at this point. I do feel like people move out of my way. Nothing too significant. The cashier was a girl and kept sniffing the air and eyeballing me, slightly submissive. My girlfriend and I are getting along smoothly.
We drive to Olive Garden, I feel like a boss, partially because of my knowledge of my secret “aces in the hole”. We get a glass of wine while waiting for our table. She is into me more than normal and more talkative, has dialated pupils and she is keeping the conversation going more than normal. The 2 male bartenders are submissive, kind, and attentive. We get our booth and I feel comfortable being very direct and playful with our waitress. Eye contact is easy. During dinner, my girlfriend is all smiles and flirty. Several times she strokes her foot up and down my leg. She has never done this. ever.
We both feel full halfway through our meal and decide to leave without getting a second glass of wine. Mind you, our plans are to go to a haunted house. I walk up to hostess stand and ask for togo bag confidently even though they were dealing with a line of people waiting to be seated. We exit, take selfie in front of sunset, walk to car. What she said next BLEW MY MIND.
She asked “do you want to wait and go to haunted house tomorow so we can have sexy time tonight?” WTF? lol Thats when i realized these pheromones are literally magic. She not only LOVES haunted houses and Halloween, but we havnt had sex in a month for various excuses. Excuses which still applied yesterday. So I now see these excuses women make are all lies. When they arent horny they just make up excuses to suppress us. LOL.
So we go home, she goes to bedroom, changes to pjs, and gets in bed. Its 7pm. I should mention that earlier i had also sprayed one spray of TUTH under my pillow, with which she had no previous exposure. I also sprayed on spray of TUTH on my stomach after getting home from dinner, once sex was already imminent. Without mentioning all the (very) juicy details, heres the differences in the sex this time:
1)she is smiling and super doll eyed the whole time
2)shes wet. no need for spit.
3)she lets me finger her and clit massage(she usually never likes foreplay and is a germophobe when it comes to fingers in her V)
4) I am more dominate yet still respectful, feels like a man and woman should be.
5)We go for a long time. she climaxes 3 times.
6)We did 5-6 different positions, something we havnt done since we first started dating.
7) We were both more audible
So ya, we went so long and hard that we were dripping sweat and exausted. We both slept like babies with her facing me all night. All i can say is wow!
This stuff can literally save relationships. I had bought an engagement ring just prior to her moving out here 4 months ago, but her homesickness, depression, and Zoloft had gradually wedged us apart into an affectionateless relationship. We always tell each other “i love you”, but the physical love was gone. I have been losing my self confidence, by having a girl living with me in the same bed and still not getting laid. We have been arguiing more and more because i seemingly always want sex and her Zoloft always suppresses her sex drive. A catch 22 because i argue from no sex, she argues from me always trying to initiate sex. After last night, I know there is hope. I had put proposing to her aside, because i wasnt going to enter a sexless marriage. But now its all still possible. Happy marriage, kids. I feel like that movie limitless. And this was on half doses!
Ive learned that two people can lose that raw animalistic hormone connection, yet still both love each other. Thanks to pheromones, it is possible to rekindle that sexual connection with the one you love! Now, if things continue to be good over the next couple weeks, I gotta start thinking about when/ how to propose to her! Thanks AD!
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