Been a week anyway since I txt. That’s long enough in my book, so balls in her court. She knows type of person I am. And I’ve tried… Over to her if she wants me know she has ways of getting in touch
Big hairy sweaty balls!!!
Just got this from ex:
Hi sorry didn’t reply been busy… I don’t think its a good idea to meet up again sorry
That message must of took all of 40seconds to type..
Oh well nothing more I can do or say (is there a reply… Don’t think there is)
I’ve send you a private message, I hope it helps 
My sincere condolences. That really stinks. At least she didn’t gutlessly string you on
IF the date went well, then I would say it was your immediate FOLLOW-UP, or you haven’t changed what needed changing in her eyes. Being TOO ACCOMMODATING kills it in this day and age. It’s as though being nice is the number 1 BAD IDEA on the ladies note pads these days.
Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn. I hope you’ve learned, because even though there are lots of women who MAY take you as you are, TOO ACCOMMODATING is not on their MOST WANTED LIST. Just saying.
Hang in there!
It pisses me off that we didn’t split because we argued or anything like that, Christ we was about to move in together but it was taken out of our hands. Trust me uK social services can be ruthless. Thy take kids away, split up families and even have people follow/sit outside houses watching to see if you are doing what they say.. there a vile bunch..
To split up over someone’s false allegation hurts.
Is there a way back? I don’t know, my life (not just the relationship) has been destroyed through this & I have lost a lot of money.
If there is any way back, the first step will be your stepping right back from her for a while - start by rebuilding yourself and getting your finances in order. Don’t go chasing after her or trying to keep any sort of contact - let her own natural curiosity take over.
Everything else will start to fall into place when these stresses are under control.
That’s the plan. Spoke to solicitor just and they are going to try and claim back the money I spent & compensation for miscarriage of justice.. so it’s a start
Ooopsy! I forgot all about that. I take back everything I said.
She’s PROBABLY mentally have you attached to those BAD TIMES. Whenever she see’s your or thinks of you, she remembers.
Like Mobo said, but IF I were you, I’d work to mentally cut the string, and move on with life and a NEW LOVE, and not sitting, hoping and waiting for her return. Once the heart is in it, it’s easier said than done.
GOOD LUCK!
No worries wish I could forget about it.
I know it’s all still very raw, it’s only been two months since I won. Just have to keep plodding on
, never know what happens down the line
Once she’s in your system, it’s never easy to forget.
Nothing wrong with being human. Just remember that we ALL deserve better. That includes YOU.
Just wish there was something I could have done.
It was all taken out of my hands and left to local authorities.
To have your happiness taken away based upon someone’s lie hurts, but it hurts even more when the people who stand by you, support you, trust you and even love you are forced to break all contact with you.
I feel that the son is partly to blame for not getting back together due to his outburts regarding the situation (believed others not his mother or myself) but he’s 17 soon, so will be getting car and leading his own life.. That brings a possibility of reuniting.
Though for the time being, the ball is still bouncing in her court, I just got to carry on being myself.
I, M to the M, reserve ALL RIGHTS TO BE WRONG! 
From your sharing, it SOUNDS as though you are the ONLY one who feels that way. Just saying.
Again, it SOUNDS like you’re the ONLY one who feels that way. Happiness comes from with in. Anything else just adds to what SHOULD already be there. Just saying.
And surely you’ve figured out by now that LOVE is the most powerful thing on this planet. Because IF it was LOVE she’d found you as soon as she knew it was okay. She knows, and she has decided against it. As ugly as this may sound, I mean no harm: Take your balls back, and move on. YOU CAN DO IT!
Again, you SHOULD know by now that kids ONLY want to see their OTHER parent with their mom or dad. That’s just the way it is.
Sounds like you’ve already got it planned out to sit around and wait. Bad idea. Waiting and watching the phone, praying and hoping … AS LIFE SLOWLY PASSES YOU BY. There are so many SINGLE and wanting women on this planet! More than men! Find one, and rebuild.
Still, it’s your LIFE … I wish you nothing but happiness.
LIFE is the blame. It happens, and moves on. You should move on, too.
Hang in there!