Men are direct, women use hints

Sometimes commented upon in threads.

Men are direct, women use hints.

Each forever wondering why the other doesn’t always understand their method of approach.

And yet to their bafflement, each acknowledge that both approaches more than often produce results.

Here is some real account of someone.


A woman and a man in bed, laying relaxed and warm in each other’s arms after an intense, rowdy time of wild sex. She turns more into his arms, whispering gently to him …

Her, “You know, you drove me mental at start of the night at the club, for hours … I gave you so many hints, and you never even noticed, I touch your arm, you give me a smoke … I talk sexy, you talk about what we’ll eat … I want to dirty dance, you want to go pee … What’s wrong with men, always miss a woman’s subtle hints of interests?”

Him, smiling at her, “you are … sweet.”, turning more to her " … I did not miss them … "

Her, " .. even girlfriend across the table now and then winking at me, giggling at me and my attempts going over your head … Wait .. Did you just say you noticed ?"

Him, smoothing her form, pulling her closer to him " … mmmm, your skin is so soft ..", stretching, “yeah, saw it all”

Her, eyes opening wider and holding him tighter at the same time " .. oooh, you saw it all, and ignored it all … did nothing, not even a little acknowledgement … !!?"

Him, nuzzling her neck slowly " .. But your girlfriend is home, and you are now here with me, are you not ?"

Her, " I .. men drive me crazeee …"

And, their happy night continues …

" .. But your girlfriend is home, and you are now here with me, are you not ?"

I love it.

It just shows men and women have those differences ..

If the man would have reacted differently at the start of the night .. What would have been the end of it ?

Learning to understand the language of women is a fascinating and fun exercise. Learning to speak it… that’s another matter entirely.

I posted that as a thought : Maybe not many men have the so called Male Pattern Blindness.

Or maybe I should make that another thread … could be revealing.

Lots of goys have MPB. I used to be completely blind, and now I can see the female IOIs if I’m paying attention.

I’ll edit the comment slightly, to get the generalisation out …

: Maybe not every man have the so called Male Pattern Blindness.