Soory about the Kino thing, Lor, I don’t think anyone wants to hijack your thread.
Stated that way, I’d clearly lean towards someone with a strong, distinctive personality over looks but I’d have to say that “confidence” in and of itself, taken seperately from the other aspects of her personality, is not, nor would it ever be, the deciding factor.
It amazes me that women in general could be attracted by one particular aspect of somebodys persona , and I wonder how quickly you would hone in on this aspect of someones personality. And when I use the word “persona”, I’m being literal. How would you discriminate between a mans public persona and his true, inner self? I’m assuming that you do it quickly and yes, I’m assuming that it’s possible for someone to be confident without projecting it (as I generally keep my cards close to my chest until I play them) and I’m also assuming that it’s possible for a man to project confidence when they’re actually barely holding it together.
So Lor - or any other female reading this thread can you define or give us an example of confidence, as you perceive it?