I can only speak for myself, and I may not be all that helpful because I don’t think I’m typical of every other male in the US. I vote for “Forward and confident”… but one can be too forward and most notably, too confident. A woman who is overly confident makes me think I’m being played or that there’s more going on than what I’m noticing, so I’ll be more cautious and observant. If I’m pressed to make an immediate decision by her as far as sleeping with or dating her - which i have been in the past - I will definitely say “no”, because I’m generally a suspicious person.
I think all women are beautiful, but I don’t think all beautiful women are sexy or attractive. And I should also note that when i describe a woman as being ***HOT, *I’m not talking about her looks - it’s a combination of things. Don’t expect me to be as poetic or metaphysical (ahem… wordy) as Tacitus, but I’ll state that confidence is not a determining factor. Think of it as being near the bottom of a long list of details on a checklist - for example… no wedding ring? check. got teeth? check. less than 9 kids? check. is her butt smaller than mine? check ** etc etc etc.
sex. here. now.
