confidence has trademarks for me.
when a guy is asking me questions or conversating looking me right in the eye without blinking,lol, i think- who the hell is this guy???
he asks as if he has the answer- as in, let me get a pen so i can get your number. doesnt mean he’ll get it but, wow, either he’s used to it or wants to get knocked on his ass.
more often than not confidence is NOT arrogance (the way its beginning to sound) but more along the lines of repect…without wasting time.
i dont know if im stating it correctly. other gals prolly have different ideas of confidence.
Confidence, persona, or whatever the word for it, is a vibe that radiates from a man, and many, if not most women, see it as quick as they notice the looks. I won’t attempt to break it down into specific behaviours, best leave that for the ladies here.
It may take some longer to cut thru the vibe, to see if it was a front, made-up, or real thing. I’ve seen both extremes. They are better than men in seeing thru that, tho.