I found Instant Honesty to be magnetic when paired with MX140 and cops. My “cuddly” post from February being the most notable of those experiences.
Also, since I am spending another summer with my parents for financial reasons after being able to move out for a full calendar year (with the exception of the month of January, since I had some severe personal/health issues in early December I decided to spend my entire winter break in my hometown, even though my original plan was only to take the two weeks surrounding Christmas and New Year’s)…
frustrating…I went back to my old job at the local library that I had two summers ago.
The head reference librarian, male, is a very distant guy, or at least he used to be. He was brash and abrupt and did not speak to me unless it was entirely necessary, and I directed my questions elsewhere whenever possible. I was only 18 at the time and he seriously could have been a little nicer, so I wasn’t thrilled about going back to work with him.
Well, I showed up wearing 3 sprays IH (x4) in chocolatini and 3 sprays IS/A (from a TO GO), and I’ll be damned if he weren’t a completely different person. Granted, I haven’t seen the guy in two years and he’s since been married, but he was physically closer, laughed at my jokes, teased me mercilessly, and was just general fun to be around.
May I say: 
I was stunned. So, IH mixed with TAL (and whatever else is in IS/A) has also been a magnetic combination. He pulled our chairs very close together and took a walk with me outside to remind me of where the outside doors are, during which he talked enthusiastically about his wife and told me married life was “wonderful.” I also noticed that his voice went up a register–in pitch, not volume–which is usually an indicator, in my experience, that a man is being vulnerable and genuine.
So, IH, Instant Sexiness Mix A and MX140 in various combinations, sometimes improved upon with cops added. And I have tried all of these things alone, but usually not with as powerful results.
I have no idea if that was at all helpful. 