My guy has no sex drive, while mine is through the roof! Help!

Hey there,

Looking for a mix that will get my SO’s engine running. Something like, “Cant keep his hands off me, gotta have me.”

He has no sex drive, and mine is insane, so what mix can i use to really amp him up and make him desire me.

Are you sure he’s ALIVE???..seriously…that’s unheard of…you should be able to take off a sock and have him think it’s game time.

A new user recently asked about copulins…again I interject my disclaimer that Im still fairly new and this is simply a hobby etc etc…

at any rate, a new user asked about copulins…this might be the type of thing you need, mixed with instant IS/a or IS/b maybe…just my opinion…I’m sure the pros can get you an more exact science.

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To touryndae,

Isexiness recommendations above are excellent. However you must be aware of other reasons lying behind this “coldness”. It would be helpful if you can tell us.

Are you two married?

No, we arent married, and dont worry, everything else in our relationship is fine. We are very deeply in love, he just has no oomph.

I would kill for a girl with a high sex drive, it seems that every girl I have dated has had a low sex drive.

It maybe nothing you are or not doing. I know when I was stressed about my job, or another life event, my sex drive went down. Then when the event passed it went through the roof.

We have had alot of stress lately, and he’s been dealing with some personal things! Thats probably it. I just wanted to try some mones on him and see if it helped him some.

  1. situational stress?
  2. diet?
  3. habits (exercise, alcohol, tobacco, recreational substances)?

How old is your BF?

I have no experience attracting men, but, as one, I can offer insight. Im in my later 40s and have life expereince

Try the Ishine first. Solve first the mood concern.

Who knows, in a truly in love couple, a simple good mood make the relationship hot, steamy and sexy. :slight_smile:

Let me say this: Stress KILLS the relationship. I went through the same thing with my girlfriend, and she already had a low sex drive, but one year in university with all the stress of being in another country, and it just went out. No sex, no sleeping together… But we still love each other and I really want to relight the candle.

There are some great recommendations in here, but I would add something to it that is not AD-related: Get him to relax first. It does not matter how much you spray, if he is not interested in sex, there is no way you can get it out of him. My recommendation would be: If he is having issues, stress at work, anything that is killing the mood, try to get rid of it. Get some romantic cuddling going at night. Get him to feel that he is the man again, make him happy, beg for some kisses, make him feel being desired again. Add some iShine in the mixture, so he feels comfortable with you. Do something to make him feel happy, try some massage, go to a romantic movie, do a walk at night… Set the mood in such a way that he feels better about himself. Then, when he is getting more interested in you, feeling more happy about himself, feeling more comfortable, then try to get the iSexi added to the mixture. Slowly start with it, tease him a bit, make him feel like he has to get you, and then pump it up, make him know that there is a prize in his hands, but he has to earn it first. Make his sexual desires go wild. Make him do something, don’t reward him for doing nothing. No fun in having steaming sex if he can’t make you see every corner of the room :wink:

Hats off to MrSeeker, put it best. My BF (w/bouts depression) I began spraying IS on his pillow. While BF is aware I wear mones…is not into details. I pulled the sticker off my 30ml bottle of IS and asked him to give himself a spray these past few days. I didn’t tell him what it would do, what to expect, just to put one spray, next day two sprays. He said he doesn’t think its doing anything, but he smiles more, has been more playful, touchy feely…he’s actually (thankfully, more interesting)…I’m the one usually to tired to play, but we approach the finish line (school) soon and I make time in between…his improved mood these few days of blind test has helped us get past road blocks. Keep in mind its an effort on both of our parts, however.