I am a total newbie in these matters - but I have a shipment coming, so I thought I would keep taps on how it goes …seeing as I had to pay little for my initial purchase I thought, heck why not.
What I’m hoping to achieve is proof that pheromones work, and that proof would be in having girls coming up to me during the daytime and chat me up on an almost daily basis (I ordered shine, and I’m kinda hoping that the Instant Openess will be the freebie) - I’ve had only two girls that have come up to me and tried to chat me up this year during the daytime, and the year is almost over ! ![]()
Oh, and for those that bothered to read this rant - what are “hits”?? Are they the same as “ioi’s” (indicator of interest) ??
Update on Nov 24: ordered it on Nov 18, a DHL carrier didn’t have change today (I wasn’t home and my mother was going to pay the shipment for me(!)) so he said he would come later today (it’s now 21 GMT and only one hour to go … I’m not hopeful) - heck, I would love to have been able to pay for a much delayed shipping instead of this express one as it would have been much cheaper … but all’s well that ends well. Hopefully I’ll be approached by young women with this stuff
- got approached on either monday night or tuesday night at a bus stop terminal, and the bus stop terminal was filled with quite a lot of people, and this older woman (probably around 50 years old) asked if a certain route bus was gone and she seemed wanting to talk but she couldn’t get the conversation thread out of the ‘tire tracks of the buses’ so to speak ![]()
Updated again on Nov 25: Got a very heavy dozage of an extreme ioi - which I friggin’ blew, again. Sigh. Got on the bus this morning to go to uni - two girls were seated and one packing some things in her backpack (she left the bus on the next bus stop after I got on) and the other girl stares at me as I’m entering the bus and walking towards the seat that I want to sit in, which is located behind them - she obviously wants me to open her and obviously knows that she’s sending me an ioi, I stare right back at her and sit behind the two of them (just after I sit down the other girls’s bus stop comes up) … and I friggin’ freeze, I got so nervous that my bus card slipped out of my friggin hands and under her seat, I could retrive it by going beside her and under her legs which I did and all I said was “Sorry about that”, and she said it was no problem … and I sat again behind her, and couldn’t for the life of me think of an opener - despite her giving me one heck of a massive ioi. God damn it. Cute too, and man was it an akward bus ride.
When she left the bus she gave me a quick glance, which was kinda like “Dude, wtf, I wanted you to talk to me and you f*cked up”, and I slighty shrugged my shoulders and hopefully she noticed. Damn, I’m pissed at myself. At uni I sat in a reading room before class, and a girl (well, a 39 year old woman) walked in and sat down, so there was one empty table between us. I’ve noticed her giving me ioi’s before, so after moments of hesitation I decided to ask her if she was in a particular class with me (the class I was going to go to after 10 min, which is a “demo” class, meaning a non-pro teacher (usually another student) is showing us how to solve problems in bookkeeping) and she was and said that the teacher hadn’t shown up (I was going in the second class); well I said I would take my chances and I very deliberately put my hand on her shoulder, however just a very light touch. After class I came back to the reading room and she was still there and I asked if she wanted my Excel file from the class and she wanted it and after I emailed it to her she seem very, very grateful.
So if I don’t fck up maybe I can get things to progress (to the bedroom) - after talking to her I walked around campus, trying to find a girl I’ve noticed is pretty much bursting at the seams as she’s given me massive ioi’s for a long time; it’s really about time I try to cough up some balls and approach her (even though she maybe with her female friends), and while walking I noticed a chick that worked at the uni library this summer who always wet her lips when she saw me … I completely f*** up, like always, and didn’t approach her. Gave me the excuse that I didn’t know how to approach a “mixed set” (guys and girls sitting at a table working on some project). Felt pretty darn low at that point - especially when I don’t open girls that have displayed interest in me.
After walking around, and being unsuccessful in approaching girls, I went downtown. I walked around and noticed people dressed up in silly costumes (it’s a tradition her when people are graduating from ‘high school’, usually when they are 20 years old); one chick stopped a car and displayed silly moves as I was walking up the street, a graduating group was standing on the sidewalk and as I was approaching a guy in the group called out “Show him your ass”, meaning that the girl (dressed in a cow costume) should have her back turned towards the car; I said to the guy “Genius!” and asked, despite knowing what was going on, what was going on; he told me and I say something along the lines of “oh thank god, you people didn’t decide this for yourselfs” with a smile.
While walking up the street I noticed a girl running to a guy that was on the phone and asked him if he could do her a favor, he didn’t seem wanting to end the phone call and I walked on; I didn’t hear any one speaking so I’m pretty sure that she was unsuccessful in opening him, especially since a few seconds after that I noticed with my side glance that she was walking behind me. I decided to coyly slow down and I asked her what she had wanted from the guy, who was pretty lightly dressed seeing as it was snow outside (I was dressed in a black wool jacket) and she said that she wanted him to take his top off as she would get 50 points for that if she would photograph him, and then she asked me if I wanted to (and her asking seemed like it was totally of top of her head, that it hadn’t occurred to her to ask me before) and I said “Oh hell no”, and hopefully with a sly grin. But she said “Yeah, I didn’t think so” and she started to cross the street and I said “only if it’s mutual”. I may have looked a little conservative with my buttoned up jacket in the snow filled street.
I was now pretty much near the bus station terminal and a cute girl, approx 1,60 m (well - smaller than me, and I’m around 1,78 m), looked me in the eyes the whole time we were walking towards each other - brown haired chick with brown eyes, my absolute favorite; and I started to say “hi!” (I finally had sometime to think about an opener, but hadn’t come up with none …so at least saying hi was better than nothing) but dear god, it came out sounding like a horse had just farted or something
We passed and she still looked at me, as she turned her head and still kept walking and I slowed very much down trying to quickly think about my options. Well, needless to say - I let the opportunity pass, just like the one on the bus.
At the bus stop terminal I noticed a beautiful girl, with those very big eyes which make me incredibly infatouated with a chick, and luckily she was about to go through another door to wait outside for some bus, as I was entering the terminal so she didn’t see me. And man, did I want to open her - but I felt incredibly shitty so I didn’t; luckily my bus came pretty soon, and I knew exactly where the gorgeous girl was and she was in the walking path to the bus, so it couldn’t have been better - and I displayed massive acting talents when I did a “double take”, meaning I looked at her for a second as I was passing by her and looked at her again and now for maybe 2-3 seconds which was totally enough to let her know what kind of an effect she had on me. Heck, hopefully it made her day.
So - this was pretty much my day without pheromones. It’s now 15:33 gmt and hopefully I’ll get my delivery today so I’ll be able to go to the uni and study and see what effects the pheromones have on other people; and even going downtown tonight and trying to score with the chicks in the cow costumes
…so, if the DHL will finally show up I’ll be able to get on with my journal.
Hopefully people (aka girls younger than me) will approach me so I don’t have to.
Update again on Nov 26: Could have opened quite a few girls today, especially one with a cap that had rabbit ears and another one that gave me a long look (which I persume is what is called DIHL or a deer-in-headlights look?), and at the bus stop I was the only one standing inside … funny. Sigh, waiting for that magical product that is supposed to let others begin their conversation with me is annoying; I’ve realised that this incident, where a product, which I have no previous experience of and is somewhat sketical of, is (hopefully (!)) delivered later than what I expect and is agreed upon, makes me kinda “turned off” at buying anymore - and this goes for all products that I have no former experience of.