Only commented via neg rep, which makes sense as a private message would ruin the anonymity. The amusing part of this is the only times I’ve ever displayed the level of mean spirited sarcasm my fan seems prone to has been when a poster implied that Androtics was being fraudulent/underhanded, and more recently when somebody was spamming the forum to drum up business for his PUA products.
Now this particular display of affection was directed at me for some advice I gave in a thread called “I’m such an AFC”. I really don’t think encouraging a guy to let go of expectations and focus on building himself FOR himself as opposed to placing his emotional fate into the hands of a woman is bitter. Quite the contrary I consider healthy INdependence I suppose instead I should be encouraging guys to make the woman the center of their whole world, spend all their money and let the woman “inspire” him to be a better man instead of just being a better man for himself? That’s called COdependance sugar butt. And since it’s the only alternative to my advice which so eloquently disagree with, one has to assume it’s the stance you yourself would support. That assumption out of the way, it speaks volumes about you as a woman. Did you go through life never knowing the validation and ego stroke that comes from being put on a pedestal? Did somebody in your past knock you off of yours? Or perhaps you’re one of those women that has been on one so often by so many men that you’ve forgotten what reality looks like from down here?..you know, the place where the gender that allegedly matures two years slower than yours are the ones that take 90% of the emotional responsibility by being the ones to put their confidence and self esteem on the line by taking all the risks of rejection.
I’m not bitter at all, I’m a realist. I don’t look at things as I think they should be, I don’t look at myself through the lens of what I wish I believed about myself (men don’t say they want a nice girl and continually date wild girls while their nice girl friends look on in frustration…“I want a nice guy” is something women say because they don’t want to believe the truth about why they never have nice guys as boyfriends) I’m an objectivist. things are what they are, period. I can follow the advice OF women (in general) which will be based on what women want to believe about themselves…which is that as a gender they are somehow deeper, and less shallow then men, more enlightened and can only be enticed by sugar and spice and yadda yadda yadda. I could take advice from that perspective and consider it convenient that I’m catholic because I’d be living like a priest. Or I can take my advice from men that are actually where I want to be, which is in a position of having the option of picking and choosing who I want and having them appreciate being chosen. I chose the latter and it worked. You can say that I know nothing about women but I do pretty damn well for myself in that area.
This of course will be the part where you retort by insulting the women I date, perhaps saying that they’re not “real” women, but naive little girls or bimbo’s etc and instead clarify your definition of a REAL woman via a set of criteria carefully crafted in your own subconsious to be based off of yourself…this way you of course meet all the standards and only women that are like yourself are “real women”.
Now rather than continue to sully the forum with this discussion, how about you show some balls…oops I mean backbone and tell me how you feel via a medium that doesn’t allow you the safety of being anonymous?
Well Radman I had the same problem about two months ago with a person neg repping me. I feel that if people do not agree with a statement people make they just hit the neg rep button. I find this surprisingly amusing, because most of the people who neg rep others are the ones who are asking for help in the first place.
What I don’t get is the people who are too coward to pm you and discussed this situation first hand. I have found that alot of the information and knowledge I have gained where from people I disagreed with.
For being such as cool guy and for taking the higher road reps to you.
honestly i don’t care , if somebody wants to neg rep me.i don’t even care if they disagree with me .it’s an open forum and we all have different opinions. What really bothers me are the insults, this person has left comments against DJ Andrial (sp?) as well as myself and apparently believes in her opinion with such conviction that she chooses not to voice it openly if even through a medium that allows for a reply, such as via private message. Had she said her piece in a pm, this topic would not exist and our “disagreement” would remain a private issue.
If you really weren’t bothered by the repper’s words, you wouldn’t have made a thread to retort about it. It’s a private issue so as a long as the veil of anonymity remains over the repper. Not attempting to validate her perception or anything.
I’ve been dumped on by random people before. It’s only the internet, get over it.
Not bothered so much as amused. I’d love to keep it private but since she didn’t pm me her comments this is the only avenue by which to respond. If I see bullshit I call bullshit. And if I’m accused of being a Dick, then I will be, not out of anger or hurt, but because I get off on being right.
It IS the internet. It’s also a DISCUSSION forum, that means being open to disagreements. But choosing to remain anonymous, and to only express your views in a way that doesn’t allow for rebuttal is contrary to the spirit of the medium. This is likely the kind of woman that gives hang up calls from pay phones to ex boyfriends.
I have the same “fan.”
The comment she left me was in reference to my statement that “life is a game.”
She apparently thought I was referring to “gaming” as a PUA, when the point I was trying to make was “have fun,” “quit taking things so serious.” “Enjoy Life!” Etc.
She finished the comment by saying, “this is why you and Radman will always be single.” LOL
I feel kinda sorry for her. Not only is she bitter, but illiterate to boot!
Oh well.
I would have loved to have responded to her comments too, not to qualify myself, but to point out her comprehension issues…ah I’m being a dick…seriously…if she wants to “correct my ways,” then be open for discussion, it’s the grown up thing to do. But then I’m the “childish” one. LOL
It amazes me how many people out there in the world, KNOW what YOU mean before you even say it. They’re that good! Still … wasting your time with the unhappy, is not a good idea. It can be toxic.
What infamous person said, "YOU HAVE TO ALWAYS REMEMBER: “Misery loves company. Be very careful of the FREE LUNCHES!”
ANSWER: The M to the M
Hey! What happens if you get NEG REPS … does that mean you can ONLY buy the INSTANT LINE and not the MXs or Ps, the prices of Androtics products goes up, or something?
I just resolved this an hour ago or so. Any further problems like this that require immediate attention let us know. (That person was banned for abuse.)
If its the same person or you feel things aren’t being handled, please email me directly at: jslavalle@androtics.com
If you click ‘User CP’ and scroll down, there will be a list of the most recent reps/thanks you’ve received as well as any messages that were left with them.
Maybe I have another fan or the anonymous negger is back.
I got negged for this pos and can’t for the life of me see why. They didn’t leave a response:
I’d high five you if I could. 
Still … wasting your time with the unhappy, is not a good idea. It can be toxic.
Don’t let him … without a condom!