Its been a while since I have come onto this forum. Pheros still doing good for me. Just that work has been taking most of my time. I am back here for a question about a woman at work.
I met this lady when I first joined my new company during after office hour activities. She seemed to be particularly friendly to me from the start. Later she asked my colleagues for my office contact though she sits two cubicles away. We text each other (yes its bad for the company ) via the office messaging system frequently and she loads in compliments by the bulk.
After that, well since my line of work requires me to travel often when I am away she would ask my colleagues about me on a regular basis. Asks me frequently if I am single and panics a bit when she saw my messenger has a pic of someone holding hands, whom she tot was me. Out of cheekiness one day she sent me a pic of herself to me via company mail. Recently after returning from my travel, we went out for a drink. Body language everything was there, lean close, smiles etc. Do we have a winner?
Today via phone txt, our conversation moved till I asked if she is available (since she has been asking me from day 1) she says im a friend moving up the good friend level. She tells me that she likes another guy but its unrequited at the moment. Likes to hang out with me and see more of me but tells me not to think so much. I told her well I have been given mixed messages. Now, she wants to see me after I am back from the next flight home.
I am currently thinking too much drama isn’t my cup of tea. Advice and views? Thanks again.
Whew, after your first three paragraphs I thought “She’s so obviously into him”… But her texts are definately confusing… I must say, I acted to same way to a guy too a very long time ago (I was 16 and as will follow from the upcoming story, quite stupid…). I was very much in to him and we went out to dinner. It was very nice and cosy and at some point the conversation I tried to get a reaction from him by saying “Well there’s nothing between us really, is it?” Actually I wanted him to say he was very in to me. Well, obviously he didn’t. He was in shock (so he did like me…) and the evening was ruined. He hasn’t approached me ever since…
Maybe I’m totally off, but I think it’s worth it to not jump to conclusions just yet, give it some more time. You haven’t got anything to lose
@Flirtatious: Thanks for the quick reply. Hmm, well she volunteered to pick me up from the airport so I agreed. Though I am feeling much like the guy from your experience right now…
I agree with Flirtatious, Give it more time. See her casually for a while and get to know each other. Sounds like she is attracted but wants to move slow.
I agree with the other ladies, perv. Take it slow. She’s obviously interested in you otherwise she wouldn’t be texting you every five minutes and sending you pictures…and wanting to pick you up at the airport.
I’d go with IG, Honesty and IFM to start. You want her to be receptive to your advances…you want her to feel safe and comfortable with you before you move in for the kill. So, if you find it’s moving in that directions then a spray of AMMO would probably work to your advantage. Go easy on it though, just a spray, especially if she’s young…don’t want to scare her off by sending a too sexual message right out of the gate.
) via the office messaging system frequently and she loads in compliments by the bulk.
