Hi, I posted this in the guys forum and hoped that you gals could give me some advice from a female perspective.
A couple of weeks ago (before I started using any pheros) I went on two weeks work experience in an office (I’m 21 by the way). Whilst there I met an awsome girl who works there and who was only a year older than myself. As a part of the 2 weeks it was arranged that I was to work with her for a few days. We got on great, talked and laughed lots (including the usual arm touching etc etc) and went out to lunch with each other a couple of times (both with others and on our own) - it really did feel like we ‘clicked’.
Therefore, after the two weeks were up I decided to facebook her (I know I chose the lame way but I ran out of confidence at the time face to face) to ask her if she wanted to go for a few drinks etc. I thought that her answer would certainly be yes as we got on so great consistanly previously. However, her answer was along the lines of ‘I’m a little busy at the moment but when we (i.e. her work mates whom I also got to know fairly well) have a night out I’ll let you know’.
How should I interpret this? Should I take it as a sign of her not being interested? Or should I take it as a sign of her maybe wanting to take things slow considering she could have just said no and left it at that and also considering the great time we had together!
NB - I’d love to be able to get to know her better outside of the formal office environment and with the aid of some pheros! lol.
From a women’s perspective, what do you make of all of this?
Thanks.