Need help! I am 21, male, Middle Eastern

Kopo

Sorry it took so long to notice your post, I have been busy as a bee at work for the christmas season. Gotta get all those packages delivered on time. :wink:

I am not quite sure what you feel the problem is. Are you afraid your target girl will find out your rooming with a girl?

I say rent the room if its available. Just because you share living quarters with someone dosnt mean your not available. In fact it may peak the interest of your target girl.

See Kopo, Tisha agrees, and if SteveO were to chime in, he would too!

If I were you I’ll be very cautious to ask Mark in Dallas to “solve” my problems with my girlfriend!:stuck_out_tongue: :smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

Alright Mohammad, is that a dig at me? :wink: :slight_smile:

He!He!:wink:

Did ya listen to the song I posted on your It’s Macho thread?

BTW, thanks for finally throwing me some reps

Yeah! Great song, great music!

Thanks to you too!:slight_smile:

Thought it was fitting for the thread. Goiing out tonight to try out my TAA and CTTM2, and will post tomorrow. See ya bye! :slight_smile:

Tisha, the girl is renting out her room at the dorm because she is going away for a semester, so I will be living alone in the room. The problem is that the girl that I am interested in does not want me to stay at the same dorm..She thinks it would be inappropriate. What do you think?
Do you think you could PM SteveO and see what his advice is? SteveO told me to back off the girl, but does this also mean that I should not move in to the same dorm ?
Also, should I tell the girl that I am interested in that I go out with other girls? Just to see if she becomes more interested, which i doubt she will because she is so caught up in her own misery. Not to mention that her mood and personality changes a lot. She does not seem like the same sweet girl i met in may and I think that the fact that she has these mood swings and personality changes will be a problem for me and her having a relationship.
Can you help?

Most dorms are co-ed now so she needs to get over it. I would move in anyway and if she says something about it…I cant believe I am gonna say this…neg her. Say something like “My living arrangements dont revolve around you” the pause and say “Me being close by is just a perk for you”. Say it with a smile.

What I believe SteveO is saying is dont approuch her with your interest showing. I think its good your in the same area this way you can see her in passing and she will see you. Wear your pheromones and let her see you talking to other girls. Interact with her but dont make your interest totally noticable. I wouldnt let her know your seeing other girls but by seeing you talking to other girls her radar will go up.

Caught up in her own misery… This to me would be a indication that prehaps now if not the time for a sexual or romantic relationship with this girl. So if you feel its going to be a problem then you should see other girls. College is filled with them, I say, slap on your pheromones and get out there and meet some of them. I am not however saying forget all about this girl your interested in. Be her friend, maybe she is going through a bad time and just needs that from someone right now. Prehaps when things are less misrable for her things will change and you can explore the interest then. Maybe by then all you will want to be is her friend and your sexual interest will be someplace else. At least this way you keep the door open for a relationship but explore your other choices as well.

Tisha

Thanks for your reply. Time is also very short because she has an exam soon and next month she has three exams. In february she is going on vacation for two weeks with her family and in march she is going on a vacation in the easter holidays with her cousin. So i february she will be missing a lot of school and she probable will not have time to see me. Then there is april and in may there is exams. She says she is going abroad next fall for a semester, so I do not have much time. I do not know what to do because I really want this girl.