I’ve been talking to this girl on facebook she’s kinda famous, I was hoping someone could help me figure out what to say to her to make me seem attractive to her any advice.
Dont beat around the bush and try and be the nice guy. Make sure you neg her and run routines on her. Or look up facebook pick up methods I guess. Just gotta man up and send her a PM or Message on Facebook. But If you are going to give her a compliment make it about her personality or a vibe she has, not how she looks. Beautiful Women are all but ignorant to compliments about how they look or how fine they are. She is probably bothered all day about compliments with how she looks and what not. Break the mold man. You need to start thinking inside the box because everybody else decided to think outside the box.
Moved to lounge 
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Do what’s been working. One thing I can say is don’t treat her famously. Treat her like you would anyone else. Make her a friend. Association alone is worth the social proof
update I seem to make her laugh alot with my comments
OK first and foremost with ANY girl you meet online you have to move things forward as fast as possible to at least a face to face encounter…until you do you’re just text on a computer screen to her. She has to see you face to face, hear your voice and physically feel you with at least a handshake greeting before you’re even real to her. This is true for attractive women who get friend requests from anywhere from dozens to hundreds of guys all wanting the same thing as you. It’s doubly true for famous women who are probably actively searched for by male fans from across the country, you could be one of thousands at that point.
Now think about what you actually expect from a best case scenario, depending on what she’s famous for an actual relationship could be difficult. Actors travel to film locations for months at a time, singers travel on tour etc. celebrities lead very hectic and busy lives, so
Can you see yourself putting your life on hold to go travel with her for her job?
Can you see yourself being content to stay at home and only see her in between jobs?
Can you see her fitting into your life?
Not trying to convince you that it’s a bad idea…for all I know you could be a ceo of a fortune 500 company but the questions of compatible lifestyles are always important and even moreso when one or both of the parties is famous.
Now, assuming you still want to attract this girl, the basic attraction switches still stand, just they have to be communicated in a internet friendly way.
First, if you play farmville or any of those games STOP, unless she plays too and that’s how you met, drop the games…they scream “no life”
Secondly, if she’s “kinda famous” she probably has a very interesting life and is active socially with people that likewise lead interesting lives. So go on a trip to a fun city, do some daredevil activity like skydiving or something, better still invite some of your male friends along. Take a lot of pics and post them to your profile, record short video clips and upload them to youtube and “share” them with your facebook. This will show her that you’re fun, interesting and live an exciting life…including your guy friends and having a few group shots along with captions that say “the trip I planned” or something to that effect will flip the “leader of men” switch.
Anytime you’re with your family, use your phone to post something about it as a status update, this kinda touches on the “protector of loved ones” switch.
Comment the profiles and posts of any and all female friends you have, they’ll likely reciprocate and post on your wall. This way when she views your profile she see’s that you know a few women, flipping the “preselection/social proof” switch.
If you have any pics of you holding the camera or phone either pointed at yourself of standing in front of a mirror…delete that shit yesterday. That just makes it look like your whole life is online, if you had real friends you wouldn’t need to hold your own camera.
Do these things first and as soon as possible, once you’ve shown some attractive qualities and an interesting lifestyle, then move for an escalation to a face to face meeting.
I have never thought of my facebook so in depth as I am right now after reading rads post. I however delete everything off my wall monthly. I really use it just to post pics for friends and relatives… Might have to rethink my use of it now though
Honestly I can say RADMAN is one of the most helpful, genuine people on this forum that have ever posted. This is not to devalue anyone else, but time after time I am simply amazed by his genuine approach to help others. I can’t say enough for my admiration for him!
When I posted my response I knew damn well that our resident dating/lifestyle coach would come around and offer his sage wisdom. His advice is always so on, so full of value, that I myself find myself every time reviewing what he wrote to my own situation. First thing I did today when I read this is went right to facebook and checked to see if mine met RADMANS standards.
thanks for all the advice new development we have the same taste in music
Talking to a girl online… famous… idk…
Make sure its legit 
Have you met her in real life?
Good to read. Make sure you follow RADMAN’s advice. The guy knows what he’s doing and will get you the girl. Only if you follow what he says though
yes I’m sure it’s her I seen a picture of her holding up a poster with the web address to her facebook profile
Don’t mind John, he’s just bitter after he discovered Angie Jolie was dating Brad P. She first professed her love for our John, but then he found out it wasn’t really her at all. It was a 700 pound escape gorilla from the zoo named Estelle. Poor guy is hurt ever since
I would be to lol, I’m wondering would knowing who she is help in getting more specific advice or would it be bad to say who she is?
You don’t need to tell anyone my friend. No one else does so no need to. If anyone asked I wouldn’t tell them. I have a movie star that I see whenever we get the chance to hook up. I met her one night and nobody knows and I don’t feel the need to tell anyone. She’s A-List and hot, but why bother, except to stoke my ego.
Remember when turtle got a tug job from Meadow Soprano and told Drama. Drama told everyone and it got back to her. Next thing you know Turtle gets a drink in his face and if it wasn’t for his charm he never would have pulled it off. Leave it be and don’t stoke your ego.
no way not sweet innocent meadow lol anyways another question about my facebook profile, would posting pictures of me and the kids at the daycare I work at making funny faces be a good idea or no I’m just not sure about it.
Absolutely imo, you ever babysit a friend or relatives kid and take them out in public? Kids are an EXTREMELY potent attraction trigger imo. You being seen as a guy that can be responsible for taking care of and entertaining little ones will be very attractive. I’d avoid doing JUST that, though…you don’t want to create the impression that you’d make a great dad…and that’s all, especially if she’s in a place where she considers family a “someday thing”
Definitely post them (although there may be issue with their pictures being on the net without permission so you might wanna consider fotoshoping or something like that) but also include pics that portray you in a fun adventurous light as well. Be multidimensional.
I’m also wondering if I meet her in real life what phero mix should I go with
she’s asking what I thought of her show tonight not sure what to say, what should I say
Ok now you’re getting too specific here bro, if you saw it, tell her it was good, if you missed it tell her something came up and you missed it. Thing is don’t stay on it too long. She likely has orbiters that tell her day and night how wonderful she is. Be polite and then subtly steer the convo to a subject that doesn’t involve you telling her how great she is.
yep I messed up getting to specific wasn’t thinking