??? Dude if there is a little pink female sign by the posters name she’s a girl…
EDIT:Whoops. Missed the whole second page. apologizes for the misplaced, but still funny, remark
Thanks for chiming in Xiphoid!
I actually agree that woman CAN suck courting men. I’ve never had a problem, and have been very successful in the past. Thats why this one is confusing. Also, in an attempt to “not suck,” I am here. 
I am totally backing off him. My danger with this one is not pursuing enough, actually.
We’ve been in sporadic email contact today regarding some relocation questions. Nothing flirty, but continuing contact nonetheless.
Oh, there’s no rank issues - we’re civilians. Different areas of defense, even. No issues with that. Thanks though! Thanks everyone! Keep it coming! You’re being very helpful!
Whee! Just got my new order in the mail today -
MX274 - TG gift! Thanks!
CTTM mix 2
P 74
P 83
P 86
TAA
Didn’t really feel like starting a new thread. Super psyched about the TAA and P 74. Shine affects me really dramatically, so I’m really interested in playing with the TAA. Any tips for my new toys?
Well not so sure what I can really add to the situation here.
You are definitely interested. You have made that clear. He is probably interested but very wary for whatever reason.
The one thing I will tell you is that whatever the reason he is giving, it is most likely not you, so that is good. Not knowing what the issues though … Is he unsure around women? Then it may be a matter of time. Did her get severely burned in an earlier relationship? Then is could be a long time.
Just don’t let him drag you out over a long period of time.
I dont know the full details… but I am pretty sure its something along the lines of severely burned in a past relationship.
You’re right, not much to DO - some brilliant advice given to me was not to “do” anything, really. Just “be” - be yourself, be understanding, etc. Don’t try to actively push/pressure anything - if it is to be, it will be. I’m not searching for advice on what do, really. Just thoughts from you wise men about what he may be thinking/feeling. (specifically about that yes, then no thing! Still confused about that! ) I’m sure some of you have been hurt before in the past. Haven’t we all, to varying levels? While we all deal with it differently, we all do have some insight into the experience. My thoughts are all framed around my being a woman, and how I would react as a woman. I’d like to see/try to understand what this is like as a man.
How do men recover? How do men move on? What do they look for in a woman when the move on? After such a painful experience, what are some ways to help rebuild trust and friendships with members of the opposite sex? What’s helped? What’s not helped?
Thanks again to everyone who is posting! I really appreciate it.
Jlor, If hes really interested he would ask you out, ESPECIALLY if he’s a true alpha, hunter by nature (I was hunted down BIG TIME by my alpha) If hes finagled his way out of a date with you, back off and dont take it personally, it may be he is not used to women who are too forward (especially if hes older alpha), in which case you may still have a shot, or it may be hes just not that into you.
On a positive note, he can always be more into you with your shiniest happiest most authentic smile, your best most conservatively placed push-up bra, proper stockings (or perhaps high heeled boots), the right ahem perfume, and a bit more mystery with joyful attitude.
Btw, Hunter-men respond better to Is/B.
Is/A is def more huntress.
Just give your best effort. But if he still wont open up then you should move on to the next ‘prey’. If he actually has feelings for you he will come after you when he sees you leaving.
Doooodddd Re-read the post. That wasn’t TOO aggressive, intimidating, desperate or slutty. She just laid it right out there. IMHO that’s just straight up sexy.
Frankly, if the guy doesn’t have the stones to realize & react in a more meaningful way, I’m not convinced he’s the best move anyway.
Mmm, my comment was about my personal experiences, not about this particular case at all.