a) Your age, or general range b) Sex (male, female), c) General location (don’t worry, nobody wants to stalk you ), and d) Most importantly, tell us a bit about yourself, your personality, why you’re here, and what you hope pheromones will do for you.
Hi there, I am almost 35 (this month), female, and have been in a committed relationship for almost 3 years. My boyfriend lives with me and loves me very much, but his desire for me is completely gone.
I am on Seasonique (birth control) and have been on BC for 17+ years, minus a few short trials off the pill to see how my body would react. I have endometriosis and it’s very painful. I probably haven’t given off any natural pheromones in years! Who knows. I want to know more about this.
I am in Los Angeles, CA, a professional (teacher) and wedding photographer. I am social, honest, caring, and fun. I love camping and road trips.
I am very interested in biology and science. I want to know more about birth control’s affect on the body’s pheromones and the body’s ability to assimilate synthetic pheromones to regain the desire of her man. I want to know what birth control doesn’t affect pheromone production: IUDs? I don’t want to get off birth control, due to Endometriosis and the pain I would feel each month.
I look forward to learning more and getting some helpful advice and knowledge.
As to birthcontrolls effect on natural pheromone production there are several school of thoughts… but I think its better to let one of the female members speak from their own experiences.
Now to get your loving but easygoing boyfriend to sit up and take notice… why dont we get some Instant Sexiness A. there are two versions of instant sexiness A & B
A projects a bit more alpha female personality while B is that coy sexiness. Eitherway both are reputed to make heads turn. Since you two sounds happy together, you may not need any bonding pheros…however you can get some instant shine too. it kinda puts both of you in a good mood.. it also projects a youthfull and healthy vibe. IN case either of you gets home in the evening stressed out, as long as you wear shine, the stress wont stand between you and the action
So go ahead with these two once you get your gift certificate..
Application points, I’ve see that several ladies in the forum prefer to apply instant sexiness to, wrists, neck and inner thighs… anyways make sure you do not overdose on the pheros… start with 2 sprays… if it works stick to it. else hike it up or bring it down a bit and see…till you get your sweet spot.
PS: I dont think synthetic pheros get assimilated… they just remain on our skin and mimic the natural ones.. once we take a shower they are gone.. then we got to reapply
Thank you so much for your response and suggestion. I would like to get those with my GC. Will I get an email or PM about that?
I sure hope we can spark that “desire” that I’m not putting out. According to others, it does seem like I’m not producing cops. That’s why I am here… to learn about the science and the solution!
Hi ink spider, welcome to the mone forum. As to your GC, once the Admin’s of this forum qualify you, you’ll get an email with the GC code to use on your order. You’ll also get 500 reward points as well.
Yes, you can use IS/a and have thee hard and sexy Angelina Jolie or more of a softer sexy of a Natalie Portman or if you prefer, Marilyn Monroe with IS/b. For any relationship, I usually suggest IH and IShine to get good, positive, convo’s with the IH. Very good stuff for the social intimacy and growth of a couple.
The gals on the forum (their is a women’s section) with experience in birth control will be able to help out much better. We are all here to help you out!
Yikes, I just saw the prices. I think I’m going to have a hard time here. I barely make enough to pay rent, let alone enough to buy myself something over $20. Oh god. This is not good.
As a teacher, I don’t get paid until mid-August. We are off for summer, so I am just basically hanging out at home with the cats and wandering around the neighborhood. I can’t spend any money in fear of not being able to pay rent.
I had no idea these would be so expensive. Anything small I could start with in the $20 range?
You could start out with IShine and and IS/a or IS/b. What kind of personality does he have? Is he more of a leader type of not? Leader types generally prefer the softer, more plyable IS/b vibe.
You could try out the Togo’s which give you a 5 ml bottle, with @ 40 sprays until you use them up.
I got some Instant Sexiness A. He is pretty alpha/beta in life, but very alpha in the bedroom. So, I think the A will be good for me. He likes our sexy time to be pretty passionate and fun.
I got the to-go bottle. It is within my price range right now. I hope to get more when I get paid again. Being a teacher in LA is tough… rent is high, pay is okay, but not great. I live paycheck to paycheck and rarely have any spending money. I do not have any savings. I have a lot of debt from school loans, car payments, summer sessions with no pay when I live on credit cards. Ugh!
I have never used birth control pills so I won’t be able to give you a response on that based on experience but the other ladies can.
It all has to do with the individual since our bodies react differently to different chemicals etc.
Let us see what results you receive from what you bought and we can take it from there.
The most important thing is making sure you are getting good results from the products and as for your next purchase with us, well that will take care of itself.
I am going to try my IS/A and EOW tonight… first time ever using mones. I want to make a huge sexual impact on my man. I won’t see him again for a week, and I’ve just been gone for a week. So, tonight is it!
I am going to do 10 drops of EOW neat and then about 4 sprays of IS/A. What do you think? I am 35 and on BC so I was told by MANY that I need at least 10 drops of EOW (neat).
Any thoughts on how many sprays of IS/A I should use? I know I should not put them on the same spots. Right? Please try to respond by 6pm PST! Haha. Wish me luck!
I used 10 drops of EOW. When I opened it, it smelled like Valerian root, which I have taken for years due to insomnia. It’s not a bad smell to me. So, it didn’t bother me at all.
After I dried off from my shower, I put the drops on my torso area (between boobs, lower neck, under boobs, below belly button) and behind my knees and in the crease of my elbow. I used two sprays of Instant Sexiness A (one on wrist, then rubbed together and also one behind neck). I let it dry down for 20 min before I started making dinner. I also rolled on my usual EO (mix of almond, cinnamon & watermelon) onto the sides of my wrists.
I started making dinner and my boyfriend walked in from work 10 min later.
He was super excited about dinner. He said it was my best looking dinner yet. Wow, after 3 years?! Haha. Anyhow, he did come up behind me and look over my shoulder at dinner, holding me.
During dinner, he said, “so, what are your plans tonight?” I said, “I’m up for whatever.” He responded with, “so, sex then a movie then?” Haha. I guess I got him!
We do have a once-a-week sex life, which I am trying to increase. This was our ONLY date in two weeks (because I was out of town for a week and I leave tonight for another week). So, I can’t attribute the “wanting to have sex” to the mones, but the sex itself… yes. It was very animalistic and fun. We both really had a great time together. So, win?! I think so. I’ll be experimenting with my mones some more and reporting in once I’m back in town.